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Blogs > nerdygirl721 > Full disclosure

I don't get it
 

nerdygirl721 34F  
2072 posts
5/25/2017 4:29 am
I don't get it

I'm a single parent of a . At certain times, I go out and get wild and crazy. But I don't do shit around my . I'm only posting this after several different guys have asked to do sexual things while my was present, because they couldn't fit in with my schedule.

I make time to be alone, so I can have adult time. If you can't fit into my alone time,then please find another chick. I will not ever put my in any kind of unhealthy or unsafe or adult situation knowingly.

When a guy approaches me in this aspect, I wonder what the fuck is wrong with this person. I wonder at their own parenting skills if they feel like it's acceptable to fuck people around their .

The door is always open. There is always another girl to fuck. I'm not forcing another to get in where they fit in at. Don't be a weirdo, it's not that serious. What are you, a perv (I mean perv in the most absolute bad way)?

Before I asked if guys know that they are being creepy. This is a case in point subject. It doesn't make me feel comfortable or safe knowing a person like this and I wouldn't want to meet them in real life.

nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 4:30 am

 What the fuck?


JimmyB7474 59M

5/25/2017 4:45 am

 Anyone who isn't willing to put in the time to make time for you isn't worth knowing. Trust your gut girl. Kick them to the curb. There are too many good men in this world to have to put up with that kind of crap. A real man knows that meeting your child is a BIG step forward and will NOT happen until You decide it is right. Wantingsexymind2 has it spot on in her assessment. Be careful and be safe. Jimmy B.
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GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
5/25/2017 4:47 am

 I'm not a parent myself, so it has always felt odd to have sex with kids in the house, even when I was in serious committed relationships. It seems the attitude your describe is a strong indication that these guys have absolutely no concern about anything but themselves.
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HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
5/25/2017 4:58 am

 Stick to your Guns, your child comes first. If a guy can't accept that, he is not worth the time you give him!

Hope everything goes well for you

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benard69 66M/66F  

5/25/2017 5:01 am

 You're a Good Mom...Keep up the Good Work


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 5:12 am
    Quoting  :
Thanks. I always feel weird posting about the obvious. But after several different guys asked the same thing, I kind of have to put it out there. I didn't really want to say it, but since you already did, I do feel like these guys are predators testing the waters to see how far they can go.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 5:15 am
    Quoting JimmyB7474:
    Anyone who isn't willing to put in the time to make time for you isn't worth knowing. Trust your gut girl. Kick them to the curb. There are too many good men in this world to have to put up with that kind of crap. A real man knows that meeting your child is a BIG step forward and will NOT happen until You decide it is right. Wantingsexymind2 has it spot on in her assessment. Be careful and be safe. Jimmy B.
Trust that those guys weren't even a consideration after asking that. But when it happens more than once I have to post what my stance is on it, so that in the future I'm not approached with the BS


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 5:19 am
    Quoting GimmeAThrill:
    I'm not a parent myself, so it has always felt odd to have sex with kids in the house, even when I was in serious committed relationships. It seems the attitude your describe is a strong indication that these guys have absolutely no concern about anything but themselves.
See even you without kids feel uncomfortable with the thought. Sometimes people have to draw a line at how far they are willing to go to get a nut.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 5:19 am
    Quoting HamburgDave2:
    Stick to your Guns, your child comes first. If a guy can't accept that, he is not worth the time you give him!

    Hope everything goes well for you
Thanks for the support


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 5:19 am
    Quoting benard69:
    You're a Good Mom...Keep up the Good Work
Thanks


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 6:15 am

 Unfortunately,no you can't


heartshapedcock2 40M

5/25/2017 6:50 am

 Any man who would want to do shit in front of, around a kid isn't a real man and not worth your time.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 7:02 am
    Quoting heartshapedcock2:
    Any man who would want to do shit in front of, around a kid isn't a real man and not worth your time.
Agreed


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/25/2017 7:04 am

 Being a Mom comes first 99% of the time. Adult fun can wait until it's convenient. Protect your self and your child. Any guy who wants to interrupt that precious relationship is not worth it
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positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/25/2017 7:32 am

 Good for you. A smart classy woman will not bring random men into their home around their childen. Time and place for everything.


backseatrider911 69M
49 posts
5/25/2017 8:03 am

 I had a sister-in-law that would lock her daughter in her bed room, lock on outside of door, just to screw guys while my brother was at work. Got so bad that guys came in front door and out the back. Thank God that didn't last long....you are a GREAT parent!!!


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
5/25/2017 10:30 am

 stick to your guns, you are correct in how you approach the situations


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/25/2017 11:38 am

 I'm a single parent of a toddler. .... And men should be avoiding having sex with single moms. Just not a good idea. Not because she has a child asleep in the next room, but because if she get's pregnant, she is more apt to keep it, and he is on the hook for child support. The other peril is, if he commits [not get married] to the single mom, and years go by, some courts will make him pay child support for the other mans kid.

I'm only posting this after several different guys have asked to do sexual things while my child was present, .... Well at least they asked, and the option of saying , "Yes" or "No" , is still yours.

When a guy approaches me in this aspect, I wonder what the fuck is wrong with this person. .... Well he doesn't know he should not be having sex with single moms, for starters. But really there isn't anything "The fuck wrong" with him. The child is asleep, in another room, and you're pretty. Anthropologically, and biologically , the entire situation makes sense.

I wonder at their own parenting skills if they feel like it's acceptable to fuck people around their children. ....When you say "Around their child", does that mean the kid is asleep in another room, or awake right there, and watching along with the pet cat?


Before I asked if guys know that they are being creepy. ... No they don't. And I can't agree they're being creepy if the kid is asleep in another part of the house. Same room? Yes, creepy!


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 12:04 pm
    Quoting pocogato12:
    Being a Mom comes first 99% of the time. Adult fun can wait until it's convenient. Protect your self and your child. Any guy who wants to interrupt that precious relationship is not worth it
Always


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 12:06 pm
    Quoting positively4you:
    Good for you. A smart classy woman will not bring random men into their home around their childen. Time and place for everything.
But it makes you wonder who previously did this to make them think it's alright. I always set a time and a place away from my little one. She doesn't need to know what mommy is doing


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 12:08 pm
    Quoting backseatrider911:
    I had a sister-in-law that would lock her daughter in her bed room, lock on outside of door, just to screw guys while my brother was at work. Got so bad that guys came in front door and out the back. Thank God that didn't last long....you are a GREAT parent!!!
Omg. It's not worth it. At least, she should have had the decency to get a sitter.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 12:09 pm
    Quoting  :
Always. Like another comment they could always be a predator. Dick is a dime a dozen, I only have one child


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 12:17 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    I'm a single parent of a toddler. .... And men should be avoiding having sex with single moms. Just not a good idea. Not because she has a child asleep in the next room, but because if she get's pregnant, she is more apt to keep it, and he is on the hook for child support. The other peril is, if he commits [not get married] to the single mom, and years go by, some courts will make him pay child support for the other mans kid.

    I'm only posting this after several different guys have asked to do sexual things while my child was present, .... Well at least they asked, and the option of saying , "Yes" or "No" , is still yours.

    When a guy approaches me in this aspect, I wonder what the fuck is wrong with this person. .... Well he doesn't know he should not be having sex with single moms, for starters. But really there isn't anything "The fuck wrong" with him. The child is asleep, in another room, and you're pretty. Anthropologically, and biologically , the entire situation makes sense.

    I wonder at their own parenting skills if they feel like it's acceptable to fuck people around their children. ....When you say "Around their child", does that mean the kid is asleep in another room, or awake right there, and watching along with the pet cat?

    Before I asked if guys know that they are being creepy. ... No they don't. And I can't agree they're being creepy if the kid is asleep in another part of the house. Same room? Yes, creepy!
Usually I'll say you're pretty spot on, but not this time. If I ever get pregnant again I'll go to the nearest clinic and have it dealt with. I barely want people around me unless we're fucking and he got good dick. Not looking for an relationship or a new daddy for my daughter. He is creepy cause regardless if the child is a sleep in another room they can always wake up and come looking for mommy so yes I think it's creepy. Why not wait until I'm without my daughter to fuck me? Why does she have to be in the area? There are whole weekends set aside for my hedonistic tendencies, where she is not present. Btw I would never get dick if guys avoided single moms, why would you want that?


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/25/2017 12:44 pm
    Quoting nerdygirl721:
    Always. Like another comment they could always be a predator. Dick is a dime a dozen, I only have one child
, I only have one child ... You are a fine mom. Many women don't worry about what dangers might happen.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
5/25/2017 12:54 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    , I only have one child ... You are a fine mom. Many women don't worry about what dangers might happen.
Thank you, I appreciate that.


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