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I think it might help if you wrote down how you are feeling and what you would like to change about the relationship. Then read him what you wrote and talk to him about it. If he reacts in a bad way then it is probably time to end the relationship.
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7/10/2021 12:04 am |
If you read back what you typed the answer is staring you in the face.
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" It's crazy because I stay thinking maybe the person I've grown to care for will come back. I know it's stupid." seems like you know the answer ... run! do not look back, do not stop to rethink your reason. just run, and do not stop!! but, butt it is so hard to run when the mind is spinning, and the flesh is lusting there is a world of difference between insane and stupid
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If he is not of a marginalized community.....then yes...the slave reference may be strong. As you said there is a difference. Even the patriarchal attitude can be damaging to ones psyche. Deep inside you know what you must do. This is classic bait n switch...and if a good friend disclosed this scenario to you, what would you tell her. The mere fact that you are here asking....tells me that you know the answer. Know your worth and let no one diminish that. Good Luck as i know its not easy ~
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Run (do not walk) away from this toxic relationship.
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7/10/2021 5:32 am |
Yep Bad Karma...Run as fast as you can...
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Yeah yeah some good advice but you already know what to do . So let me offer a suggestion if you want I come up there and we show him how you should be fucked not this macho demanding bullshit he is trying to get you to do . If he sees you hotter than a firecracker on the fourth of July then just maybe he might take the hint . You know the old monkey see monkey do theory . Don't laugh it is a tried and true method . If that don't work you just get me hard again and I fuck him that will straighten his ass out so to speak . Either way baby you are a treasure and want you to always remember that . 
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You should probably talk to a professional. Most people would not tolerate someone else to make them feel "Less than", or "Worthless". What does he do to you to make you feel that way?
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He did fill a void. Most men are sexual Doms. I needed more. He was that at first. I don't mind giving up control but he was too controlling. For subs there are soft and hard limits, with him there was none. I agree about not reading what I wrote to him. I've been so secretive about this relationship cause he didn't want me talking about him. But I needed clarity. I always value your advice. Thank you
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If you read back what you typed the answer is staring you in the face.
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" It's crazy because I stay thinking maybe the person I've grown to care for will come back. I know it's stupid." seems like you know the answer ... run! do not look back, do not stop to rethink your reason. just run, and do not stop!! but, butt it is so hard to run when the mind is spinning, and the flesh is lusting
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If he is not of a marginalized community.....then yes...the slave reference may be strong. As you said there is a difference. Even the patriarchal attitude can be damaging to ones psyche. Deep inside you know what you must do. This is classic bait n switch...and if a good friend disclosed this scenario to you, what would you tell her. The mere fact that you are here asking....tells me that you know the answer. Know your worth and let no one diminish that. Good Luck as i know its not easy ~
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Yeah yeah some good advice but you already know what to do . So let me offer a suggestion if you want I come up there and we show him how you should be fucked not this macho demanding bullshit he is trying to get you to do . If he sees you hotter than a firecracker on the fourth of July then just maybe he might take the hint . You know the old monkey see monkey do theory . Don't laugh it is a tried and true method . If that don't work you just get me hard again and I fuck him that will straighten his ass out so to speak . Either way baby you are a treasure and want you to always remember that .
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You should probably talk to a professional. Most people would not tolerate someone else to make them feel "Less than", or "Worthless". What does he do to you to make you feel that way? I had this walking buddy. He met her and wanted her to join our "fun". While I didn't mind that, I minded how he approached her. After I assured her I didn't mind. They started talking. He wanted to have sex with her but she didn't. They just didn't click. He got very upset that I wouldn't pressure her to have sex with him. He spent an hour berating me about how stupid I was and how I wasn't a good friend to the girl. This was when I start pulling away. But I didn't leave. Honestly, I haven't spoken about him. That was one of his rules. But writing about it now, getting feedback.....Yeah.
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I think it might help if you wrote down how you are feeling and what you would like to change about the relationship. Then read him what you wrote and talk to him about it. If he reacts in a bad way then it is probably time to end the relationship.
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Run (do not walk) away from this toxic relationship.
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Yep Bad Karma...Run as fast as you can...
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You are not less than. He is. Take your power back. You have started already just by talking about it. Be thankful that he may have just saved you from some really painful times. It may not feel that way now, but it wil when you meet someone who builds you up.
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Seems to me you were Fwb-zoned, and he expected you to be his wing-woman, to get other women to have sex with him. Enjoy your walks. I'll bet that the guy just fades out pretty soon.
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