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Anal For Beginners  

Dscpl6969 56M/41F
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7/30/2016 9:56 pm
Anal For Beginners

Guys, go slow. If you hurt her she will never want to do it
again.

Communicate constantly!! You may think this is a mood killer
but really its not. Your partner does not want to hurt you
or be hurt by you. If yiu start to feel the muscle pulling
or pinching, tell him!!! Guys, if she feels the discomfort
stop where she told you it hurts and theb slowly go in and
out to the point until she says its ok.

Ladies, BREATHE. relax. The more nervous you are the tighter
you will be.

Get a princess plug. My husband got me 1 and made me wear it
every day for at least an hour. If it hurt or was uncomfortable,
i could take it out. This helped stretch those muscles and
got me ready for his cock.

Start with the princess plug and then have him rub with his
fingers and then go a finger at a time. Try smaller toys like
a thin vibrator.

Use an egg, wand, or vibrator and<b> stimulate </font></b>the clit while
you are inserting anything in your ass at first. It is a great
distraction if you are still working passed any discomfort.

Ladies, you can also get yourself ready without him. Use
toys on yourself. You can go at your own pace and make it as
comfortable as possible.

Lube is extremely important. You can never use enough lube.
Lol. Make sure though that you keep a towel available and
or baby wipes. This is to keep your hands clean and able to
hold onto things or grab things like her hips. It sucks having
lube all over your hands and not being able to grip anything
lol.

Have fun with it. If you are conflicted about anal and whether
it is right or wrong, dont do it. You have to be willing and
want it or you will just cause yourself pain. I know that
may sound stupid to some but it happens. I was conflicted
about anal for a while. I thought it was wrong in the eyes
of God (sorry to offend anyone). Then i realized that the
job i was given was to love, honor, worship, and obey my husband.
I am supposed to do whatever he wants (that is good in Gods
eyes) to please my husband. Thinking of it that way allows
me to believe that anal is okay and not a sin because i am doing
my wifely duties by honoring my husband.

Now, after putting in some work and a lot of communication
with my husband, i am always ready for anal. I am so ready
that he can stick his cock in my ass in the shower with nothing
but the water. Its hot. I am able to orgasm from anal and i
love it. I think i crave it just as much as he does! Lol.

Anal is some that is intimate. It creates a bond with your
partner because you have to trust each other and work together.
If you dont, it will be a disaster. Good luck and remember
to breathe!!!

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