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Hello cruel world....  

secret_lade 49F
14389 posts
8/26/2016 6:59 pm
Hello cruel world....


Starting next week I'm back to nearly 40 hour work weeks again.

Ugh.....

I have so enjoyed my summer schedule of working 3 or 4 days a week. It's going to be tough transitioning back. Working retail can really suck sometimes.

Working weekends, nights, holidays.....

It's a job, though, and I'm paid well. There are a lot of jobless folks out there right now who would kill to work weekends, nights, and holidays.

On an entirely different subject - Question for those of you who may be reading this blog.

When it comes to 'dating', is marital status a consideration when you are making your choices?

There was a time, when I was married, I made the decision to only consider other married men as potential lovers. I felt it was a level playing field, we both went in with the same expectations and knew where our priorities lay.

With my divorce, my feelings have changed.

I have been contacted by a few married men on here and found my conscience wouldn't even allow me to consider the thought anymore. It becomes complicated when one person is married and the other is not, with complication comes strife.

Have you ever had to turn someone away because of their marital status?

Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
8/27/2016 1:00 am

How much is it a safety thing. Both married less chance of complications and more chance of discretion. No guarantees of course.

As to working in retail the saying is "it would be great if it wasn't for customers". I got out when I could not stand them anymore.

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secret_lade replies on 8/27/2016 3:52 am:
I have noticed, on my days off, the last thing I want is to be around other people. That is definitely a byproduct of retail. Thanks for the input!

BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
8/26/2016 8:15 pm

I don't do married, attached, or separated men even if they have a hall pass. Aside from it being against my ethics, if she doesn't want you why would I?


secret_lade replies on 8/26/2016 8:20 pm:
Thanks for the input! I hadn't thought of it that way, but that's a great way to look at it.

docdangerous4 59M
45 posts
8/26/2016 7:46 pm

i never swim in another mans pool unless he invites me to do laps with his wife .


secret_lade replies on 8/26/2016 7:52 pm:
That's a wise policy. Thanks for the input!

scott6250 61M

8/26/2016 7:32 pm

Very definitely a consideration for me.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


secret_lade replies on 8/26/2016 7:37 pm:
thanks for your input!

Furbal1972 51M
18571 posts
8/26/2016 7:26 pm

I have not turned away because of marital status. Or at least not that alone. .. I've learned that things can be complicated. .. Each case must be evaluated individually, by the individual. .. Fortunately, I have never had a marriage or kids to complicate my own situation. .. I say that jokingly, but I also know that kids and spouses can be blessings.

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secret_lade replies on 8/26/2016 7:36 pm:
Thanks for your input. I do agree, each case should be should be evaluated individually.

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