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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

I'm done with this conversation....  

secret_lade 49F
14389 posts
10/9/2019 11:16 pm
I'm done with this conversation....

A co-worker and I got into a heated conversation today, one in which I ended with, "I'm done with this conversation" and hand motioned him out of my office.

I dismissed him like he wasn't worth the effort of spoken word.

Now I'm feeling terrible.

My anxiety has kicked in and I've replayed the conversation over and over again, knowing I could have handled everything a million different ways better....

Instead I chose be angry and handle it like a bitch.

Add that to weird personality quirks and social anxiety and I can fully understand why I'm still single.

On a personal level, I'm just a fucking mess.

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/11/2019 3:05 pm
    Quoting 19me66:
    Sometimes a little space gives clarity. It takes two to have any argument. It also takes two to repair the damage, collaborate and move forward.Self reflection is only the first step.
I don't work with him again until next week. I guess we'll see how it goes after a little time apart.


19me66 M
19 posts
10/11/2019 5:45 am

 Sometimes a little space gives clarity. It takes two to have any argument. It also takes two to repair the damage, collaborate and move forward.Self reflection is only the first step.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/10/2019 4:06 pm
    Quoting HermanG67:
    sometimes we have to walk away... conversations... relationships. its not about THEIR worth... it is all about YOUR worth
You are right.... I was angry at his treatment toward me and told him off. The message was necessary, I deserved better treatment, I just wish I'd handled it a little better.


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
10/10/2019 11:54 am

 sometimes we have to walk away... conversations... relationships. its not about THEIR worth... it is all about YOUR worth


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