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From here to there....  

secret_lade 49F
14391 posts
2/12/2020 3:14 pm
From here to there....


You know the woman...

The one that looks like she just stepped off the pages of a Glamour magazing. She has beautiful, flowing hair that floats away from her face in a breeze. The woman with perfectly applied make-up and an outfit on .

I'm not that woman.

I try really hard.... And, I kind of start that way each day. My long hair styled or straightened, button down shirts and black slacks with my smart girl glasses...

But somewhere along the way, it gets lost.

I look at myself in the rear view mirror of my car every day before I step to head into work.

Hair? Check!

Makeup? Check!

Shirt buttoned all the way? Check!

And, I head in.

My hair is NEVER blowing back in the breeze... It's blowing in my face, in my eyes, in my mouth. Its a constant battle of swiping hair out of my eyes, pulling hair out of my mouth, and maneuvering through water puddles I didn't see because hair is in my face.

I stumble through the front door,<b> stomping </font></b>my one wet foot as I always seem to manage to step in a puddle, and smooth down my shirt because I managed to have a temper tantrum right before I got to the door. I check out my reflection in the window as I step through and see my hair floating about my head like cotton candy.

Wonderful.

Hurrying to my office, I see 5 coworkers all want to stop and chat.

Even better.

I finally make it to my office and check my reflection in the mirror.

Makeup smeared on left , strands of hair fused to the lipgloss on my lips, and the top button of my shirt is now unbuttoned with a good portion of my cleavage crack now exposed.

What the hell happened between here and there?

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/13/2020 5:42 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    reality... SHE'S always there..
    SHE'S a bitch when SHE fudges with u.
    if all, SHE'S messing with... is your hair? 🤔
    no worries...
    consider yourself lucky
    you'll be fine...
    Nice images... I can see that.
    Yep... I'd brush the hair from your eyes and... 😘
I'd love to have you brush the hair from my eyes.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/13/2020 5:41 pm

Thank you


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/13/2020 5:41 pm

    Quoting wanna4playU:
    wow! a real honest to goodness, average, all American girl! perfect!
Yep, here I am. Kinda like the Tom Petty song...


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/13/2020 5:40 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Hi secret_lade

    just another day in paradise

    B+

    Phil Collins - "Another Day in Paradise"

    She calls out to the man in the street
    "Sir, can you help me?
    It's gettin' cold and there's nowhere to sleep
    Is there somewhere you can tell me?"
    Oh, think twice
    'Cause there's another day for you and me in paradise
    Oh, think twice
    'Cause there's another day for you
    You and me in paradise
    She calls out to the man in the street
    He can see she's been crying
    She's got blisters on the soles of her feet
    She can't walk, but she's trying
Yep... Could be worse.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/13/2020 5:39 pm

    Quoting h4rry66:
    Happy valentine's beautiful. Have a lovely day
Thank you Valentines day isn't usually a good day for me... It was my wedding anniversary, it now makes me feel a little sad.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/13/2020 5:37 pm

    Quoting Hawkfan533333:
    Where here looking for real people not the ones in the glamour magazines. Really liked what you wrote. Thanks for posting it.
Thank you, I appreciate that. It would be nice if someone in my real life was looking for someone real....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/13/2020 5:36 pm

    Quoting  :

I love Popeye! LOL

You're very right, though, I hear it all the time. Girl next door my ass.... I may be feeling a little disgruntled and hostile at the moment. The girlfriend usually isn't good enough unless his closeknit group of guy friends is eyefucking the girlfriend every chance they get.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/13/2020 5:27 pm

    Quoting fwblook4unow:
    Do you have a valentine's day date tomorrow night?
Nope... It's ok though...


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/13/2020 5:20 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh, you poor thing... You know my pain.


fwblook4unow 48M

2/13/2020 4:18 am

Do you have a valentine's day date tomorrow night?


fwblook4unow 48M

2/13/2020 3:55 am

Only 1 button? I envision 3 buttons so I can see that lovely black laced bra and full crack of your cleavage😘


Hawkfan533333 34M
688 posts
2/13/2020 2:54 am

Where here looking for real people not the ones in the glamour magazines. Really liked what you wrote. Thanks for posting it.

Feel free to message my private mailbox


h4rry66 57M

2/12/2020 9:53 pm

Happy valentine's beautiful. Have a lovely day


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
2/12/2020 7:57 pm

Hi secret_lade

just another day in paradise

B+

Phil Collins - "Another Day in Paradise"

She calls out to the man in the street
"Sir, can you help me?
It's gettin' cold and there's nowhere to sleep
Is there somewhere you can tell me?"
Oh, think twice
'Cause there's another day for you and me in paradise
Oh, think twice
'Cause there's another day for you
You and me in paradise
She calls out to the man in the street
He can see she's been crying
She's got blisters on the soles of her feet
She can't walk, but she's trying

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Good luck!!!


wanna4playU 56M  
265 posts
2/12/2020 6:06 pm

wow! a real honest to goodness, average, all American girl! perfect!


dante7320777 28M

2/12/2020 6:05 pm

Pts! Happy v day


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
2/12/2020 5:55 pm

reality... SHE'S always there..
SHE'S a bitch when SHE fudges with u.
if all, SHE'S messing with... is your hair? 🤔
no worries...
consider yourself lucky
you'll be fine...
Nice images... I can see that.
Yep... I'd brush the hair from your eyes and... 😘


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/12/2020 5:38 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Gotta love those shirt buttons!
I'm a little chesty, which means I've got a whole host of issues. They tend to unbutton themselves, if they stay buttoned and I reach the wrong way they pull, there usually isn't any give in the fabric.... Ugh!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/12/2020 5:33 pm

    Quoting pytimesx:
    btw: I came in thinking YES
    if you know the title
Um.. Hmmmm..... I don't think I know the title because I'm not sure what this means.


mc_justmc 63M

2/12/2020 5:23 pm

Gotta love those shirt buttons!


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
2/12/2020 5:11 pm

btw: I came in thinking YES
if you know the title


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
2/12/2020 5:00 pm

    Quoting secret_lade:
    It sounds like.... You don't like the high maintenance look.
No! I'd rather spend that two hours with her making her feel pretty and desired.

It's ok for looks and the occasional outing but most women truly underestimate thier own beauty as much as what is really considered beautiful by what kinds of people. Personally I think a light touch of makeup is more attractive but that's not beauty.

There's a relativity to it all and just like we can draw close conclusions to nationality by a persons features and general personality traits from nationality, there are also similarities in general rules of attraction and personalities behind them.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/12/2020 4:57 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    I'm going to say you were attacked by gremlins. That puddle you stepped in was actually a portal into another dimension and by the time you passed through the portal and resumed your walk to the building, the gremlins had attacked and wrecked all of your hard work. It would also explain the button that was previously fastened now being undone.
I can totally get behind that theory. That or alien abduction.... Lol


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
2/12/2020 4:40 pm

I'm going to say you were attacked by gremlins. That puddle you stepped in was actually a portal into another dimension and by the time you passed through the portal and resumed your walk to the building, the gremlins had attacked and wrecked all of your hard work. It would also explain the button that was previously fastened now being undone.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
2/12/2020 4:30 pm

    Quoting pytimesx:
    It didn't start at your car. It started at the house while you were pasting all the makeup on your face.

    Flashback to those models on the front page, they wear what is called pancake makeup - so you don't see existing flaws. The A/C is always perfectly tempered and that wind in their hair is positioned perfectly to 'create' a look. In reality, and I have dated/known more than a few of those high maintenance women, they look like the girl next door (and considerably young) until they've been painted. And that's where it ends with them - 'looks'.

    But that's not the problem either. Most high maintenance women suffer similar challenges imposed by media in an attempt to leverage female insecurities and buyer power. They put on so much makeup, everything smears and sticks to everything else. But that's not the problem either. They're all trying to be someone else, to look like someone else and I often wondered if they are someone else [once you get to know them].
It sounds like.... You don't like the high maintenance look.


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