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Ripping off that bandaid...
Ripping off that bandaid... I took this picture quite some time ago to share with someone I'd been casually seeing. I never ended up sending it to him... He was the type of guy that brought out all of my insecurities. I heard stories about ex's... I heard stories about beautiful women he wished his family would set him up with... I heard stories about sexual trysts he'd had in the past... With each new story I felt a little less attractive, a little more like he was using me until someone better came along, and the thought of sharing this photo with him slipped further and further from my mind.... Along with my desire to spend any time with him. Here's the thing guys... A lot of us women don't want to hear this kind of stuff. We already have all those nagging worries in the back of our minds about whether or not we are attractive or good at sex and those types of conversations only manage to heighten that worry. Rational Mind - There must be something to me that he finds attractive or he wouldn't be here. Irrational Mind - Why does he keep talking about this beautiful woman he wishes his would set him up with? I'm sitting right here, on a date with him, and all he can talk about is another woman.... I'm not good enough. Once a guy plants that seed of doubt in our minds, it's impossible to remove. I was cleaning some junk out of my phone today and I came across this old picture. At first I felt silly, and thought... what was I thinking? Then I thought, you know.... That picture isn't half bad. It's a very flattering view of me, I wish I'd had the courage to share it with someone... Someone who would actually like to see this view of me. And, my blog came to mind. I write a lot about my daily happenings. The funny, the bizarre, the sad... But I share very little about my appearance. I've always managed to keep that private. Sometimes... Sometimes you have to rip off that bandaid, though. So, here you go readers, a tiny peek into the realm of the Secret_Lade. |
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I see a beautiful lady Now I have you complete From head to toes Xoxoxoxoxxo Thomas I'm sure you look beautiful In the shower . PS. I have alit of your blogs to catch up on.
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I see a beautiful lady Now I have you complete From head to toes Xoxoxoxoxxo Thomas I'm sure you look beautiful In the shower . PS. I have alit of your blogs to catch up on.
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Yes. Anyone who is not completely enthralled by you is a bonafide fool. I have to tell you that I've become a fan of your writing. The author's voice really speaks to me.
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Yes. Anyone who is not completely enthralled by you is a bonafide fool. I have to tell you that I've become a fan of your writing. The author's voice really speaks to me. *. *. *
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Very flattering pic, showing just enough to weg anyone's appetite
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Hello! This is great! I have a bit of experience in this and hoping for me. Will you help? Local availability all the time and will travel for the right reasons. Smile, it could be you. Can't wait hear from you.
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Hello! This is great! I have a bit of experience in this and hoping for me. Will you help? Local availability all the time and will travel for the right reasons. Smile, it could be you. Can't wait hear from you.
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Very flattering pic, showing just enough to weg anyone's appetite
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11/27/2020 5:35 pm |
Hi
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luv ur boobs
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Thank you for sharing the beautiful picture of a beautiful lady. After a few dates, IF the women asks, in the interests of honesty, I share how many and how long. Any more than that is pretty stupid (or at least arrogant) of the guy. Probably wanted to build himself up from a weak ego. You deserve better, and it is good that you got out. Now you just need to get him out of your head!
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Thank you for sharing the beautiful picture of a beautiful lady. After a few dates, IF the women asks, in the interests of honesty, I share how many and how long. Any more than that is pretty stupid (or at least arrogant) of the guy. Probably wanted to build himself up from a weak ego. You deserve better, and it is good that you got out. Now you just need to get him out of your head!
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Great topic. I have some experience in this and would enjoy chatting with anyone on it. Thank you for the cool post on it. I am also available for local meetings with short notice and will travel for right circumstances. I look forward to hearing from you and hope to see you soon and have some real fun! Wonderful pic.
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Great topic. I have some experience in this and would enjoy chatting with anyone on it. Thank you for the cool post on it. I am also available for local meetings with short notice and will travel for right circumstances. I look forward to hearing from you and hope to see you soon and have some real fun! Wonderful pic.
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Thanks for sharing that pic...phew! That idiot guy must have really poor eye-sight
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This guy did not understand at any point that I felt uncomfortable when he did this. I did tell him, but he made it seem as though I was somehow being dramatic because, after all, "It's just sex." I finally told him my needs changed and I was looking for something different than he was willing to offer. He still doesn't understand, to this day....
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Thanks for sharing that pic...phew! That idiot guy must have really poor eye-sight
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11/15/2020 3:16 am |
Absolutely stunning Secret_Lade. Such a beautiful sexy pic....would have been a huge turn on for me if you sent me that pic😘 Have you done any sexting efore?
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Nice pic.But I have to say I like the profile pics better. Nice feet and toes. What can I say.Got a bit of a foot and toe fetish!
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Nice pic.But I have to say I like the profile pics better. Nice feet and toes. What can I say.Got a bit of a foot and toe fetish!
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First of all. That is sexy pic and you should be proud of it. Secondly, what he did was horrible, no one should be taken for granted like that. I know when I’m with someone, I give 110% of my attention to that person and expect the same in return. That’s mutual respect. I make sure she feels special because I think she is special. That’s what you deserve also so kudos for ending that relationship. His loss.
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11/11/2020 3:05 am |
Absolutely stunning Secret_Lade. Such a beautiful sexy pic....would have been a huge turn on for me if you sent me that pic😘 Have you done any sexting efore?
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First of all. That is sexy pic and you should be proud of it. Secondly, what he did was horrible, no one should be taken for granted like that. I know when I’m with someone, I give 110% of my attention to that person and expect the same in return. That’s mutual respect. I make sure she feels special because I think she is special. That’s what you deserve also so kudos for ending that relationship. His loss. PLEASE COME AND CHECK OUT MY BLOG AND IF YOU ENJOYED IT LEAVE ME A COMMENT. KEEP IT SEXY!!
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Thanks for sharing. Nice pic. 👍
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a lovely pic..............you deserved better......
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11/10/2020 2:35 pm |
a lovely pic..............you deserved better......
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Thanks for sharing. Nice pic. 👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Be thankful for the warning signs when you get them before getting in too deep. Much better to know before than after you have become invested. Nice picture.
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Be thankful for the warning signs when you get them before getting in too deep. Much better to know before than after you have become invested. Nice picture. Vive La Difference
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I think this is as much as I'm going to share. Lol Have to leave something to the old imagination!
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Thanks for sharing that pic...phew! That idiot guy must have really poor eye-sight
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In the early stages of dating, there is no place for talk of other men or women. When you built that trust and respect, then you get into discussions of your past. We all have baggage. Those past relationships have helped form us, but still do not need to be brought up on a date. Also, the picture has just the right amount of sexy and class. Beautiful picture of a beautiful lady, inside and out!
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Thank you... I needed to hear that! I did end things, several months ago.... I internalized it though, and took it to heart. I knew if I wrote about it here, I'd be able to get some closure. I so appreciate the input I get.
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Ah McLade.....ye've no need ever to doubt your looks, your attractiveness or your sex appeal.......but then you wouldn't be the lovely, gorgeous woman you are if you were over-confident.
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Insecurities also applies to us guys as well
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Thanks for sharing that pic...phew! That idiot guy must have really poor eye-sight
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In the early stages of dating, there is no place for talk of other men or women. When you built that trust and respect, then you get into discussions of your past. We all have baggage. Those past relationships have helped form us, but still do not need to be brought up on a date. Also, the picture has just the right amount of sexy and class. Beautiful picture of a beautiful lady, inside and out!
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Ah McLade.....ye've no need ever to doubt your looks, your attractiveness or your sex appeal.......but then you wouldn't be the lovely, gorgeous woman you are if you were over-confident.
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Insecurities also applies to us guys as well
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Looks pretty damn good to me!
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I have had previous relationships before my wife but those relationships never are brought up!
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i agree nice pic but now i want to see more
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I have to say you are so right. I am one who does not want to hear about other women. That's the past and should stay there. That is a nice sexy picture of you and you are a beautiful woman inside and. I can see that in you when I read your Blogs. Hugs.
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Thanks for sharing
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It's kind of like a jigsaw puzzle. Lol. Only the regular readers will know where all the pieces are.
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This is so classy!!!
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11/8/2020 12:45 pm |
I have had previous relationships before my wife but those relationships never are brought up!
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i agree nice pic but now i want to see more
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I have to say you are so right. I am one who does not want to hear about other women. That's the past and should stay there. That is a nice sexy picture of you and you are a beautiful woman inside and. I can see that in you when I read your Blogs. Hugs.
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Thanks for sharing
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It’s a great picture and it’s too bad the man was so disrespectful. It does actually reflect on him but my mind would think the same as yours. Casual or not, I don’t want to hear about other women.
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Ms Lade, that's an excellent picture! Tastefully sexy 100%
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Sometimes quality of life is way more important than any amount of money we could earn.... In 2015 I quit a job that I'd been happy in, but wasn't paying me enough to live, for another job that paid way more. I worked that job 6 weeks but it felt like an eternity. I cried every single day during that 6 weeks and for the first time ever, I quit that job without having another job lined up. My quality of life was worth way more to me than money. In the end, it all worked out. Having worked with the public for as long as I have, and knowing as many people as I do.... I was able to find a job immediately, still making more than the first job I'd left. I had quality of life and the extra income I needed.... Plus it turned into the stepping stone I needed to get my current job.
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Ms Lade, that's an excellent picture! Tastefully sexy 100%
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11/8/2020 5:01 am |
It’s a great picture and it’s too bad the man was so disrespectful. It does actually reflect on him but my mind would think the same as yours. Casual or not, I don’t want to hear about other women.
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Good morning Secret This guy was so obviously wrapped up in himself, to talk about ex'es and other women he wanted was unforgivable!! Your assessment of him was correct, if he isn't talking about you, your hopes and desires he isn't worth your time!! That is a lovely pic, I would be really pleased to receive a pic like that from a lady. My bandaid moment was when I decide to return to the UK from Hamburg. After nearly 17 years living there, it was like starting a new life, scary
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Good morning Secret This guy was so obviously wrapped up in himself, to talk about ex'es and other women he wanted was unforgivable!! Your assessment of him was correct, if he isn't talking about you, your hopes and desires he isn't worth your time!! That is a lovely pic, I would be really pleased to receive a pic like that from a lady. My bandaid moment was when I decide to return to the UK from Hamburg. After nearly 17 years living there, it was like starting a new life, scary Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"
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I'm not a fan of the brutally honest approach. It's just tacky, in my opinion. I'm 100% onboard with all out honesty, I just feel there are less harsh and tasteful ways to be honest. This guys mantra was, it's just sex. It was because of him that I realized, I think I want more than just sex.
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once the meeting of the minds happens sharing can begin to each partner's comfort zone that is a nice pic thanks for sharing Sofia Karlberg - "A Bible Of Mermaid Pictures" Spinnin' 'round in a violet beam Upside down there's no gravity In a shadow, I'm loosing grip Moving 'round in a dream, in a dream Feel like IMAX all over me In a wave I'm on my way I'm breathing in nowhere slowly I'm riding a fictional cloud A pilot of starship fables And I am his passenger now I'm diving in endless oceans I'm chasing a tide in my mind A bible of mermaid pictures And I am it's painter by hand
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Ripping off my bandaid was walking out naked for a photo with 3 women who stood behind me and all you could see was their hands on me. I had to just say "fuck it". This is a good pic, very profile worthy. More please.
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Throughout all my years on here, I have always had a feet profile pic. On my old profile, all you could see was leather boots. Lol I'm glad you liked the pic.
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you look good, secret! unfortunately, some guys talk so much they ruin shit before shit even gets started. smh. yea, his loss
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once the meeting of the minds happens sharing can begin to each partner's comfort zone that is a nice pic thanks for sharing Sofia Karlberg - "A Bible Of Mermaid Pictures" Spinnin' 'round in a violet beam Upside down there's no gravity In a shadow, I'm loosing grip Moving 'round in a dream, in a dream Feel like IMAX all over me In a wave I'm on my way I'm breathing in nowhere slowly I'm riding a fictional cloud A pilot of starship fables And I am his passenger now I'm diving in endless oceans I'm chasing a tide in my mind A bible of mermaid pictures And I am it's painter by hand To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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11/7/2020 8:29 pm |
Ripping off my bandaid was walking out naked for a photo with 3 women who stood behind me and all you could see was their hands on me. I had to just say "fuck it". This is a good pic, very profile worthy. More please.
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you look good, secret! unfortunately, some guys talk so much they ruin shit before shit even gets started. smh. yea, his loss
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When was the last time you ripped off a bandaid?
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