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Disposable Human Beings
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Disposable Human Beings are times when I feel as though I've been used up and tossed aside.... Discarded like one of the Spawn's juice containers with the straw half chewed, left to idly sit until someone returns get those last few drops of liquid from that chewed up straw. my ex husband, I'm a disposable human being. One day, he will not the hide behind and be such a cruel asshole me. When that day comes, I hope he languishes in his bitter misery. I picked the Spawn up tonight after work and she hopped into the car with two grocery bags full of snacks. "What is all that?" "Dad bought me snacks. He said you can't any, so don't even think about ." "I wasn't going *eat* your fucking snacks!" (Yah, I was pretty salty in my response.) "You know dad, he doesn't like...." "He doesn't like WHAT?!? FAT PEOPLE?!?" Oh my feelings were so, so hurt...... We sat in silence for a good, long moment. I could hear her sniffling, she really didn't mean hurt my feelings, but she had. I hate that fucker for showing her what 's like be a callous, hateful human being. I hope she can remember, going forward, that everyone has feelings. Even me. |
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I agree with what boobwhisperer69 said. Maybe the time you sat in silence made your daughter think a little about how we can hurt others feelings. We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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I sense you have a lot more going for you than he does. She will figure it out with maturity. I know as a mom you hope she doesnt end up with a man like him.. The fat thing, piss on it. You are successful in life. Give him no power over you with it.
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He's an ass. And he's waging emotional and psychological warfare and chances are it's going to back-fire on him. It will take a while, but it will happen. I don't understand parents who are so toxic that they try to use their kids as pawns/weapons against the other parent. She will also discover that him buying her "things" is not love. Sorry to hear about the booster shot and flu shot causing problems. I got the booster yesterday. I'm pretty sure someone ran over me with a bus shortly after that. Ugh....
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Hopefully, one day your Spawn will wise up to the fact that her father is using her to get to you.
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You're right, it does lean toward a fake theme. She sees only the things she wants to see in regard to her dad. "Like my new coat? Dad bought me a new coat." He did, in fact, get her a new coat last weekend. "Isn't he a sweetie?" This is the man who also made a giant white power sign and put it at the end of his driveway to piss off his neighbors. Yep, sweetie alright..... I don't say anything, maybe I should, but deep down she's got to know, there are some issues there.
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He's an ass. And he's waging emotional and psychological warfare and chances are it's going to back-fire on him. It will take a while, but it will happen. I don't understand parents who are so toxic that they try to use their kids as pawns/weapons against the other parent. She will also discover that him buying her "things" is not love. Sorry to hear about the booster shot and flu shot causing problems. I got the booster yesterday. I'm pretty sure someone ran over me with a bus shortly after that. Ugh.... Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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11/2/2021 5:37 am |
WOW! I have an ex like that, my son was 13 when I told him I had to leave, suffered that many years until he was old enough to make own his choice. His response was "Dad if your leaving put me in the truck with u, I ain't living with BITCH either!" Even now he refers to her as his EX-Mother! My lawyer told me u have two choices, U can divorce her or just shoot her, the legal fee's will be the same, BUT in 3 to 5 you'll be done with the Bitch...LOL! I look back now and say "Damn I'd be on parole by now" Good Luck!
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Mom's house dad's house. Its a fair book but the concept is he lives in a hateful world while you reside in the more intellectual space. Your job is teaching her the difference in ways that opens her eyes without imposing your rule of law (ie: opinion - the unedited version  ) . Shouldn't be too hard, kids tend to have their own view of family and the world despite what we put them through. And it tends to lean toward the [fake] disney theme...Yep, sweetie alright..... I don't say anything, maybe I should, but deep down she's got to know, there are some issues there.
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forgive them for they know what they do... but lack the intelligence to edit their desires. there is a world of difference between insane and stupid
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11/2/2021 2:16 am |
I hate people like that. When I get the chance to get them for some fault or trait I don't, and they still come back to do that shit to me and others.
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Your only response needs to be.................That's why I'm not married to your father anymore!!!!!!! Then smile, smile and smile some more!!!!!
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Ex-husbands suck. I have one too.
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Damn. Just...damn. I know I'm going to sound hyperbolic but what your ex did was nothing short of pure evil. The worst thing any parent can do is infuse a child with hateful thinking and to essentially use your daughter that way was unconscionable. As someone who grew up in a toxic household where hate was spewed on a near daily basis, your post triggers a lot in me. I'd like to be a vindictive sort and wish upon your ex a nice painful incident but I won't. Karma does indeed exist and I suspect he has done and said enough to warrant something "wonderful" Your daughter is at that age where a certain level of thoughtless comments are par for the course. I also hope she learns that words can have a brutal effect on others. I wish I could send a hug your way. My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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If I remember correctly you've mentioned your ex has addiction issues as well as an asshole. I think boobwhisperer has a great response. Positive conservations with body positive girl power wins every day. Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
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Mom's house dad's house. Its a fair book but the concept is he lives in a hateful world while you reside in the more intellectual space. Your job is teaching her the difference in ways that opens her eyes without imposing your rule of law (ie: opinion - the unedited version ) . Shouldn't be too hard, kids tend to have their own view of family and the world despite what we put them through. And it tends to lean toward the [fake] disney theme...
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He is a sorry, sad man.... He does know my weight is a hot button and something I feel most insecure about, he was very calculating with his actions. I won't talk to him anymore, since the SC trip, so the only way he can convey those messages is through our daughter. What a horrible human being. I wound up telling my daughter that from now on, we'll focus on conversations that build ourselves up, not tear ourselves down.
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Not much anyone can do about hurt feelings. But your feelings can't get HURT if the comments come from someone you don't RESPECT; they're simply random words strung together. You'll burn yourself up — and others —unless you can channel your hate (of your EX) and ignore anything he says. Think about it and the time you have left with your daughter, before she grows wings and leaves your nest. I know — easier said than done; it's a challenge, for sure. Count to twenty? 🤔 WTF do I know? 😶❗
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Your only response needs to be.................That's why I'm not married to your father anymore!!!!!!! Then smile, smile and smile some more!!!!!
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Ex-husbands suck. I have one too.
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Not much anyone can do about hurt feelings. But your feelings can't get HURT if the comments come from someone you don't RESPECT; they're simply random words strung together. You'll burn yourself up — and others —unless you can channel your hate (of your EX) and ignore anything he says. Think about it and the time you have left with your daughter, before she grows wings and leaves your nest. I know — easier said than done; it's a challenge, for sure. Count to twenty? 🤔 WTF do I know? 😶❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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There are times when I feel as though I've been used up and tossed aside.... Discarded like one of the Spawn's juice containers with the straw half chewed, left to idly sit there until someone returns to get those last few drops of liquid from that chewed up straw. To my ex husband, I'm a disposable human being. One day, he will not have the kids to hide behind and be such a cruel asshole to me. When that day comes, I hope he languishes in his bitter misery. I picked the Spawn up tonight after work and she hopped into the car with two grocery bags full of snacks. "What is all that?" "Dad bought me snacks. He said you can't have any, so don't even think about it." "I wasn't going to *eat* your fucking snacks!" (Yah, I was pretty salty in my response.) "You know dad, he doesn't like...." "He doesn't like WHAT?!? FAT PEOPLE?!?" Oh my feelings were so, so hurt...... We sat in silence for a good, long moment. I could hear her sniffling, she really didn't mean to hurt my feelings, but she had. I hate that mother fucker for showing her what it's like to be a callous, hateful human being. I hope she can remember, going forward, that everyone has feelings. Even me.
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