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This is why I can't have nice thing  

CeriosEros 39M
615 posts
9/11/2016 8:11 pm

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9/11/2016 10:54 pm

This is why I can't have nice thing


I can't OM! If you're not familiar OM stands for orgasmic massage. It is a highly ritualized practice of stroking a woman's clit. Think of Yoga mixed with rubbing some clit. That's basically what it is. I recently finished a introductory online course on how to do it. It covers to basics of OM with all the rituals and etiquette that goes along with it and to the end of the course there is a section that tells you how to find a OM partner which is crucial because you can't do it alone and you need someone who has a clit which I am clit less and have trouble with finding a partner so I thought this would be useful. Now I'm going to paraphrase this section but this is basically what this section was comprised of.

How to find a OM partner

Step 1: Make a list of everyone you would like to be your partner it doesn't matter if it's realistic.
CHECK!

Step 2: Narrow the list you made to people in your area.
CHECK!

Step 3: Out of the people in your area pick 5 people who you trust and ask them to be your partner.
God damn it!

The Oming practice is presented as gender neutral, sexuality neural and being in a relationship isn't improtant but if you're a guy and single that's not how you ask someone if you can touch their most intimate area of their bodies. You can't just go up to women ask them to OM if you don't have a rapport with them. Especially if you follow the protocol for asking for a OM in the course. It's literally impossible for someone to find a OM partner outside of the oming community if they're single.

I think oming is a great way exploring sexuality in a different way but those who advocate for it are stuck in a bubble. With the rigidity of the rituals they lose the reality of the male female dynamic. The cultures of clitoris isn't a place for single losers like me.

CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
9/11/2016 8:14 pm

I don't fear death because I don't fear anything I don't understand. When I start to think about it, I order a massage and it goes away.

Hedy Lamarr


porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
9/11/2016 9:24 pm

ok dude really, putting yourself down isn't going to get you laid by a woman, if you don't have confident in yourself, you are wasting your time on here. people have their own problems or hang ups, most don't want to carry someone else. I read your blogs and all you do is put yourself down,


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