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Focus, Feedback, Fix it. Trying the 3 F's to get F'ed
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Focus, Feedback, Fix it. Trying the 3 F's to get F'ed I'm re-reading Anders Ericsson's book Peak. It's similar to Malcome Gladwell's book Outliers which popularized the 10 thousand hours idea. If you're not familiar it's the idea that it takes 10 thousand hours of practice to become exceptional at a skill. Which seems to be true if you want to be the best in the world at something but Ericsson goes into detail on how a person can become great at a skill by breaking down the process of learning itself. Well this made me hopeful that I could become great at the only skill that matters. The skill of love making. So where to start? Ericsson explains that the key to learning anything is practice. Not just but what he calls deliberate practice. Which is the act of identifying and correcting mistakes while preforming the act. Okay, I'm in so where does Ericsson say to start? Step one of deliberate practice: Find a good teacher...GODDAMIT!!!! You can see why this is a problem. The female gender isn't known for their willingness to teach in the bed room. Once the clothes come off their goal is to get off not to engage in practice where they have to teach. This is a bed room not a classroom. And I'm at a age that women who would be interested in teaching are retired but Ericsson has a contingency. If you can't find a teacher use the 3 F's. Focus, Feedback, Fix it. Okay I can do that. I can focus on what I'm doing. Refine it by her moans and body movements and fix it if I'm not getting the desired results. And there it seems I have hit a brick wall. Finding a partner. Requires the same process but I get no feedback except for<b> rejection. </font></b>It's like playing pin the tail on the donkey in the dark. Most guys use the spam method where they just ask a bunch of women out and hope a handful of them are lonely or horny enough to say yes and at least one likes them enough to sleep with them. I've tried that but I'm much too sensitive to deal with the mountains of<b> rejection </font></b>that comes with it. I've asked for feedback from blog land and I've gotten some, not much but some (thanks to those who give me any feedback) but mostly from guys and it's pretty vague. I wish I could get some good feedback but I won't hold my breath. I guess I have to develop a<b> rejection </font></b>callous. This is really gonna hurt. |
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Who can take a sunrise, sprinkle it with dew Cover it with choc'late and a miracle or two The Candy Man, oh the Candy Man can The Candy Man can 'cause he mixes it with love and makes the world taste good Sammy Davis Jr.
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