Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
| Blogs > CeriosEros > The life & times of Zero Mega |
Trust and the submissive
|
Trust and the submissive The word submissive seems to have a negative connotation in western societies. When people think of the word and the people who choose to identify with it you usually will get descriptions like weak, exploited and sad. If that's the case why do millions of people usually with high responsibility, high stress jobs engage in these types of relationships? Is it something we've missed? I'm not a submissive. I guess you could say that I'm a dom but only in theory. The thought of me being a submissive gives me the same feelings I have when I put my right shoe on my left foot. It just doesn't feel right and is a little annoying but I do know that people don't engage in risky behavior without a reward. So what are the rewards for a submissive? Well the dom gains power and<b> authority </font></b>and with that comes responsibility. So it would make sense that with the loss of power and<b> authority </font></b>comes a form of freedom. Maybe the submissive gets a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction from completing simple tasks that the dom has set forth in a world where simplicity is rare. Or maybe being hit and humiliated actives some adrenaline that our sanitized lives don't provide. It is extremely rare that our fight or flight mechanism is active and their are some primal rewards systems set up in our brains. This is all great but why I decided to write this is the relationship between the dom and the sub. It's 100 percent based on trust. I have been open about my thoughts that trust is the most important part of a relationship. And I stand by that. It seems that men and women don't trust each other anymore. There once was a time where we trusted but those days are long gone. We don't need each other for survival anymore but we still need each other. The dom and sub have such an intense bond because the sub trust that if things get to intense the dom will back off a little and the dom has to trust the sub to tell them what they need. I think we should take notes. |
|||
|
Is this the end of trust?
| ||
|
You took one element and made it seem like my entire post was based on it. Some submissive enjoy being hit and humiliated that is a fact. I made it clear that the relationship is about power exchange. Why try to slam me on an example of that exchancs ?
|
Become a member to create a blog
