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Virgin Sex Expert: Lesson 1.3 The key to the lost art of fingering  

CeriosEros 39M
615 posts
8/20/2018 4:17 am

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Virgin Sex Expert: Lesson 1.3 The key to the lost art of fingering


Fingering, The forgotten sex act. For most people fingering conjures up memories of awkward hormone fueled nights. You look back on it fondly but you're an adult know and you won't accept such an juvenile act as apart of your sexual menu today. But I'm here to say that whether you're a giver or receiver fingering can be a fun and satisfying addition to your sexy time if you know what to do.

I know what most people are going to think. Fingering? Come on, once you get over the excitement of "Whoa, somethings in me!" Or "My fingers are inside someone. THIS IS THE GREATEST DAY OF MY LIFE!" Fingering is not that interesting or pleasurable. If you think that then you moved on to sex without learning the key to fingering. Which is simple yet profound. It's a internal massage not a penis substitute.

Think of fingering as an internal massage rather than a penis substitute changes everything. It is no longer a juvenile act. It's a mature why to give your partner pleasure. Looking at fingering as an internal massage also exposes what is missing from most people's fingering sessions. Pressure and pace. Just imagine a massage that is just rubbing someone's skin quickly. It seems annoying right. Now imagine a massage with great pressure and pace. I bet you imagined a satisfying experience.

Now that we've established what is missing from most people's fingering sessions let get into a couple of basic techniques to get you started.

The Jack Lordes Stretch:

This is a good why to measure the right amount pressure for you or your partner. It's really simple. Slide your fingers about a inch or two inside of vagina and and press downward. If you're a woman going solo press upward because downward is much tougher but for the best results it should be done with a partner. There should be a weighty, stretching feeling. If it's too much lessen the pressure.

Rock and Roll

Another simple beginner technique. Slide two fingers inside about 2 to 3 inches. Apply pressure. Now at a pace about 2 seconds or move you're fingers to left then the right of the vaginal wall while maintaining pressure.

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</font></b>Turn your palm so it's facing the sky. Slide two fingers inside about two inches. Apply pressure. Now at a pace that's comfortable use a "come hither" motion.

Armed with this information go and experiment just remember that unlike with massage don't try to get rid of tension by working through it. If your partner tenses up back off or stop. And don't forget to have fun you crazy .

CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/20/2018 4:22 am

If you read my blog you would know that I'm a virgin and I've done extensive research on sex and sexual behavior. I've done two other of these kinds of post but I don't think anyone read them but I have to get this stuff out of my head some way.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
8/20/2018 4:53 am

old faithful...that always get me to cum...i even squirt, if i get played long enough...


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
8/20/2018 4:54 am

Nice to have your input, but if you are a virgin, you don't know what couples get up to when they have moved beyond the initial fumble stage. People pleasure their partners in a wide variety of manners.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/20/2018 12:57 pm

    Quoting RavenGB:
    Nice to have your input, but if you are a virgin, you don't know what couples get up to when they have moved beyond the initial fumble stage. People pleasure their partners in a wide variety of manners.
This is only a suggestion. I'm not arrogantly telling people what they are doing wrong and I have the only true way of giving pleasure.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/20/2018 1:06 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    old faithful...that always get me to cum...i even squirt, if i get played long enough...
Lucky you. Squirting is actually really rare.


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