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Is it me or is the concept of an asian fetish really strange?  

CeriosEros 39M
615 posts
6/3/2019 3:06 am

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6/12/2019 11:55 pm

Is it me or is the concept of an asian fetish really strange?


I love rom coms...fight me. I actually own a<b> physical </font></b>copy of "Good luck Chuck" which is one of the worst movies of all time. Yeah, and it's my jam. I love that festering turd of a movie. That's how deep my love of rom coms runs. They're basically underdog stories. And I never met a underdog story I didn't love because I consider myself a underdog and they speak to my soul as a loser.
That being said, I hit the rom com jackpot. Asian rom com tv series on Netflix. It's everything a rom com lover could want. Instead of one 90 minute story. You get 35 or more 60 minute stories It's amazing, I'm addicted, send help.

Anyways, My sister intimidated me into the use my account because I'm still afraid of her from childhood even though I could take her now. And when she saw all these Asian rom coms in my recommendation she called me up and asks what was the deal. She asked if "I had an asian fetish or something". I explained that why there was all these videos on there. She didn't understand.

It took me about half an hour before I got hit with an realization of how strange a concept asian fetish is. Go ahead and think about it. Being attracted to and or only dating an asian person is considered a fetish? How odd is that. That unqiue in the pairing of human beings. It applies only to people who are attracted to asians. If a latino only dates someone who is white, they aren't perceived to have a European fetish. If a black person only pursues a relationships with a Latinos they aren't considered to have a Latin fetish. If a Asian person exclusively has sex with black people they aren't considered to have a black fetish. So why when other races do the same to an asian person they are perceived to have some sort of kink?

I'm genuinely stumped. I don't have a theory for this one. Does it stem from racism? Like did people back in the day decide that asian features and asian bodies couldn't possibly be sexually desirable and those who do that aren't asian must have some kind of fetish? It that's true then why doesn't it also apply to black people who weren't considered humans by most of the world? You can't get more undesirable than that. Also it doesn't explain why Asians themselves consider exclusive sexual desire and attention because of their race to be a fetishization. Black people in fact lean into our desirability because of our race. Everyone has heard "Once you go black you never go back" but there's no "Once you go Asian you'll pick us for all occasions". I know that the term jungle fever was a thing for a couple of years but by the time the O.J. trial started it was gone. Or maybe it's because Asians themselves feel like their interchangeable with any other asian in the minds and beds of the asian fetishists because of their race. But isn't the first step of human mating and pair bonding is a shallow<b> physical </font></b>attraction?The initial attraction maybe someone's features and race but only a true psychopath would continue to be with someone they don't like just because of their race. Also in every other scenario other than another race going after asians isn't that calked a "Type". Like if someone only dates someone with blonde hair, blue eyes and over 6 foot tall no one is concerned about being replaced.

There's obviously something I'm missing here. So I'll just go back to watching the "Oh my ghost " series on Netflix for the fourth time. The Korean version not the Thai one. It's so much better. Again, send help.

CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
6/3/2019 3:17 am

Homework:

Good luck Chuck my actually be good luck but I need your help.

Every time my roommate would bring a lady back to the house he would borrow my dvd of good luck Chuck and it never failed to get him some action. So, if you could watch it with your lady and report back if you got any. It answer a question I had for years. If was his game or the movie that got him action. He was really dumb and not too good looking so I supect it was the movie. I would do it myself but...I'm me. And if you're a lady report if it put you in the mood.


Pleasureinc 60M  
2200 posts
6/3/2019 4:33 am

I think you answered this one pretty well, Yourself, Cerios. Some men just like the look of an Asian woman. As for "Good Luck Chuck",......many men will watch a lousy movie if they are infatuated with a beautiful female actress!


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