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the elusive bi widowed mature female revealed  

CityLightsCpl 66M/68F  
90 posts
8/30/2016 11:43 am
the elusive bi widowed mature female revealed


I have to say I have met more male and female lovers over the years at either the gym or yoga class and even at a zumba class. That ever elusive single bi female exists, but she is more likely to be a woman in my age range these days. Most of my single female lovers range or have ranged in the 45 to 75 age bracket in the last 10 years or so. I seem to meet more and more single,widowed or divorced women in my age range these days at social events or through volunteer work with who I have flirted with and or gone further with. I think it is our boomer ,or zoomer,generation who are more open and interested in exploring our sexuality.
However, I have been exploring my sexuality since my early days working in a modelling career in Toronto. I gave that up when my husband and i got married in our mid 20's ( my husband and I were actually introduced by an an older female modelling colleague of mine who was a lover of both my husband and I. She thought we should meet,we did and a year later we were married !
Meanwhile,these days my husband and I belong to 3 gyms,one for him,one for me and one for the two of us to attend together. it has become quite social for us, I have brought young men home from the gym,my husband has surprised me by bringing fellows home with him to play with me or us. I have met a few woman at the gym who have become lovers,my long term girlfriends I've all seemed to meet through social or volunteer activities.
I'm not ageist, while I enjoy young men,often 2 or 3 at a time I do enjoy a gentleman (and I stress gentleman) my own age or older as well.
My husband and friends who have known me for years say I am quite flirty. I do love to dress for social occasions . Speaking of social occasions,my husband and I try to attend church regularly and we are part of a congregation. We were at a function after a service this past Spring and we were chatting with an older quite strikingly attractive woman at our church who is in her mid 70s. Ortrud used to be a dancer once upon a time,originally European she retired here from Montreal several years ago and her husband passed away last year. Ortrud prevailed upon us for a drive home after the function and we obliged,when we arrived at her home she invited us in for tea. It was a quiet Sunday afternoon for my husband and I and we were enjoying her company and her quick wit so in we went. Once inside she said that for her it was almost cocktail hour and did we want a G&T , I said sure while my husband asked if she had any scotch,she said she did and pointed my husband to the liquor cabinet and asked him to make us drinks. After my husband had made us drinks she suggested he go and entertain himself in her late husband's splendid library,he did,it was a gorgeous room,Ortrud led me to a small cozy parlour and we sat together on a little settee. Ortrud had on a deep navy silk dress that buttoned up to the neck with dark navy stockings and matching heels, he long thick silver hair was pulled into a tight chignon,with her angular beautiful features she looked like the elegant European beauty she is. We chatted and sipped our drinks (rather large ones as my husband likes to freely pour) and she told me how cute she thought I was and what an attractive couple my husband and I make. I smiled and told her how elegant I thought she was and we had a conversation like that and then she put her hand on my knee, I was wearing a quite short dark gold linen dress with burgundy heels and matching burgundy chunky necklace & ear rings, and Ortrud told me she " fancied " me, her word exactly. I was caught off guard but curious and aroused at the same time. I didn't know what to say but Ortrud took my hand and led me into the next room which was her bedroom,it is very feminine,girly ,with an old 4 poster bed and all that. She took me firmly in her embrace and began to kiss me and then I was standing there in my heels and black lace thong and she was telling me to undress her. I did as I was told and unbuttoned her dress to reveal a vintage black corset with garters holding up her expensive stockings. I undid the corset as we kissed and caressed each other and revealed her soft white body,her skin is so soft,her breasts are still amazingly firm (exercise she told me ) ,and like me,she is shaven down there We moved to the bed and we made love,gently at first and then Ortrud became more passionate and aggressive. We both came to orgasm and then Ortrud produced some toys, a flexible double headed dildo that we inserted in each other and made love again. Finally we collapsed into each others arms,kissed and then got up and I dressed and she put on a dressing gown. We went out and found my husband on his 3rd scotch and engrossed in a biography of Winston Churchill. I thanked Ortrud for a lovely afternoon and told her I would have her over to our place soon
Since then I have introduced Ortrud to a lovely young woman,she is 29, who is a gal I met at yoga who was a lover of mine and she now lives with Ortrud as of the past month. Ortrud has also enjoyed and been enjoyed by my husband, our friends Ari and Sylvia and some other couple and single friends friends of ours. So, there exists the single,in this case widowed,elusive bi female Meredith

CityLightsCpl 66M/68F  
32 posts
9/1/2016 6:50 pm

This is my favourite post thus far, I really enjoyed sharing it and Ortrud read it this afternoon and approved and she'd like me to write about a couple of our other adventures together,I may just do that Meredith


CityLightsCpl 66M/68F  
32 posts
5/1/2017 6:09 pm

Watch for an update on this story coming soon May 2017


Trapper69 67G
2657 posts
6/6/2018 12:47 pm

I just stumbled across your blog today, and I've been enjoying reading about your experiences Meredith! You're a gifted writer, and your words have painted wonderful pictures in my mind. I agree with you about meeting people in certain social settings/occasions. My friend, Sue, and I have met many lovers over the years while volunteering with service clubs, fundraisers, and other social functions, and yes, even at church! Another place we've met people is at roadside fruit and veggie stands when I've/we've stopped for fresh fruit or veggies. Sometimes, I've met women and couples just from helping them in a time of need. Mostly, it's been older women, but we've met quite a few couples of all ages, as well a several men. We're very selective, or the numbers would be much higher.

A few years ago, I was coming home from Ohio when I stopped at a farm stand to get some late season corn. I'd stopped at this stand often over the years, and had become friends with the farmer and his wife (non sexual friends). While I was visiting with the farmer, an older lady stopped to get some early apples. She was quite beautiful and sexy despite bein in her 70s. I was loading the corn in my truck, and as she was walking to her car, the bag of apples slipped from her hand and fell to the ground. I helped her gather her apples then put then in the new bag the farmer brought over. I then got into my truck as she got into her car. When she tried to start her car, the battery was dead. I got out, and offered to give her a jump. As I hooked up the jumper cables, I found the one cable was loose. I tightened it as best I could, but told her it needed cleaned and tightened better. I offered to follow her home to fix it properly. She looked at the farmer, he nodded his head to assure her I was an OK guy. Once at her house, I cleaned and tightened both cable then went to tell her to leave her car idle for about 1/2 an hour to recharge her battery.

She offered me money, but my parents had taught me long ago that you don't take money for doing a favor for someone in need. She insisted she had to repay me in some way, so she asked if I'd join her for dinner, adding that she disliked eating alone. Over dinner we talked, and she told me about losing her husband a year before, and told me how she gets lonely at times. She got a bit emotional as she talked, so I held her hand to comfort her By the time we finished dinner, I could tell that she had another need that needed taken care of, but wasn't sure if I should offer to help her. As I was contemplating making a pass at her, she came right out and asked me if I could spend the night with her....

We enjoyed a wonderful night of passion.... We've since become great friends, and I've introduced her to Sue, and a few other friends. There are so many women out there, and couples, who are searching for others to add to their sexual excitement.....one just has to be in the right place at the right time, and behave in a proper manner....


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