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Hoping for more colleagues like this  

destinyguy88 45M
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5/26/2017 11:43 pm
Hoping for more colleagues like this


It's a bizarre setup and I still can't get my head around how it's worked out the way it has.

My female colleague, 28 and I work together on a daily basis, but in different offices, so when I say 'work together', it's 80% emails and 15% phone calls. And then we have a monthly catchup, which I go to her office for. I worked with her for 3 years before I ever met her. When my old boss left and my new boss started, about 6 months ago, he couldn't believe this was the case and insisted we meet monthly.

So she came to our office one day to meet me and my boss, kick off these monthly catchups, and work through some things - then the plan was for the 3 of us to go out to dinner. Immediately thought she was cute (and noticed she had an absolutely banging body), but she was also very professional, so that set the tone. As it turned out, my boss wasn't able to come to dinner but insisted the two of us still go. So we did. But it didn't happen the way you're probably expecting it happened - i.e. we didn't hit it off, have a great time, get drunk, lose our inhibitions and hook up.

How did it happen then? Like I said, the whole thing is bizarre. We went out, ate, and made small talk all night. The kind of small talk you'd make with a colleague you've just met. She was really nice, but the whole thing was still pretty awkward. Neither of us drank much, because the<b> vibe </font></b>wasn't there - she was acting super professional and I was following her lead... Although the more time I spent with her, the cuter I thought she was.

We were through with the restaurant about 8pm. I walked her back to her hotel and she suggested we have a quick drink in the hotel lobby before saying our goodbyes. Under different circumstances, a guy might see this as a green light - but there had been no flirting, no build up - this would be our third drink of the night... so I when she suggested it I didn't think anything of it.

We each got a drink and continued the small talk. Half way through the drink she, randomly, asked me if I had a girlfriend. I said no. Some more small talk - this time we're talking shop about a project we are working on together. Finished our drinks and I suggest I should be heading off. She asks if I'd have any interest in going up to the room to 'hang out for a bit'. This is the only point throughout the entire night that I figured anything might be on the cards. This was a pretty direct proposition, and completely from out of nowhere. I say 'sure', and we head up to the room together, the whole time just chit chatting about nothing. There is no chemistry whatsoever, but I don't care. She's cute as hell and I'm pretty sure we're about to bang.

We get to her room, close the door, she kisses me and it all happens from there. No build up, no nothing. It wasn't on, and then it just... was. This is someone I've just met that day, and in a business environment. At 8.45pm we were having an incredibly professional conversation about a company project, at 9.00pm her face was buried in a pillow while I took her from behind and at about 9.15pm I was ejaculating across her back (at her request). Sorry to be vulgar, but I'm trying to convey how insane the whole thing was.

Afterwards, back to awkward small talk. So I leave.

I didn't see her again until the first proper monthly catchup. On email, she's just been completely normal - no change since before the one night stand. So I'm not sure what to expect. Until she texts my work phone. The catchup is on a Monday and she's asked if I want to head up on the Sunday and have dinner that night. So I do. I'm hopeful the whole<b> vibe </font></b>will be different now that we've f*cked.

We go out to dinner, and its no different. Awkward. SMALL TALK. There's just nothing there. We're just not compatible, or she's not feeling it, or something. And I'm cut, because she's put more effort in tonight and she's gone from cute to hot. By the end of dinner, I'm thinking 'well, we tried', and assume its a dead donkey. But no. We pay the bill and she asks if I'd rather stay at her place than the hotel tonight. I don't get it, but I'm not going to not fuck her, so I say sure and we go back to hers and we fuck.

We fuck again in the morning and then we head in to the office. We work together the whole day, completely as we would have if we'd had no contact outside the office. Again, I follow her lead on this. I go home at the end of the day.

Since then, I've had four more monthly catchups with her. Every time I head down the night before, have an awkward meal, and then fuck this girl's brains out. And every time we follow that up with a weirdly normal day of work, never getting any closer and never discussing it. I don't have an issue with it, because it's purely a physical thing. We just don't click in any other way. But it'd be cool to at least be able to talk about what we're doing. She doesn't bring it up, and I don't want to bring it up either because, to be frank, I really, really, really like having sex with her and I don't want to do anything that might unsettle the arrangement.

But fuck me... Ive never been in such a bizarre situation in my entire life.

So there.

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