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Blogs > jljewels > How I Became a MILF

Mind blowing  

jljewels 52F
29 posts
1/9/2017 5:48 am
Mind blowing

As much as I love sex, it is very hard for me to have an orgasm. I will moan with pleasure and many times come really close but I've learned to accept that if I don't have one, it is all ok because it still felt great.

Sometimes I think it is because I try to hard and put too much pressure on myself plus I love to please so I never relax enough to let myself go. I am a writer so that makes me a thinker, a contemplator, an analyzer. Anyone who possesses creativity knows what I mean when I say that my mind never stops.

Basically I am on this site to hook up because I love sex. I've made it no secret that I am looking for a FWB that is truly that...a friend being the scarce word. I do want more than just the benefits part but not looking for a full blown relationship or finding a soulmate or love. I figure that will find me when the time and person is right.

So despite the F in FWB, I take what I can get and never go into it expecting the friend part because I feel it is a rare find on this site. I understand most times it doesn't happen because women can be crazy, too emotional, get attached too easily, etc. which is why I keep feelings separated from hook-ups. I'm smart and strong enough to do that.

But there is one thing I learned recently. Too many hook-ups go without the stimulation created by conversation. Maybe some don't need it, are afraid of it, or just don't want it but it can make the sex so much more amazing.

My last hook-up didn't consist of a lot of talk before we planned a get together. It also didn't consist of any talk about sex. We didn't discuss what we liked sexually or what we were going to do to each other. We started with a hug and talked for a while getting to know each other a little bit, still no talk of sex. We put a movie in and kind of cuddled up on the couch. Then gentle caresses led us to the bedroom and it was mind blowing.

I'd like to attribute that to the conversation, it stimulated more than just my mind. It relaxed me enough to let go, clear my mind and enjoy the moment. And I enjoyed it over and over! It didn't hurt that he knew how to eat pussy. And he actually did eat pussy, he didn't just put it on his profile or tell me all about how great he was at doing it and how much he loved it. He was a man of action, not all talk.

My only regret was that I felt selfish after round two. I totally took advantage of the enjoyment. But that's what I needed. Don't feel bad for him, I am almost positive he walked away satisfied too but I just cannot wait for the next round because it is my turn to blow his mind!

rakordubro 58M
26 posts
10/31/2019 6:39 am

 A good conversationalist is not easy to find. He has to be interested in what you say, and be experienced enough to have something relevant to say. That way you know he's listening. "Yes, uh huh, right, tell me more" isn't listening.
Nothing changes faster than the speed of love.
- Rush


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