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10/21/2016 12:23 am
Standards
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5/1/2018 7:23 pm

 Here are my standards.
1) Be Classy. A woman who is classy, has style, and takes care of herself is a real turn on for me. Since I take the time each and every day to take a shower, shave, smell good, put on a tie and work my ass off, I would expect you to do many of the same things.
**I think you already know the truth to this one, even though it's all be via our cells, you have gotten a feeling for things. I feel I have some style and the pictures to prove I take care of myself. I may not be a gym rat as far as taking care of myself, but when it comes to hygiene, I'm good. I shave and shower daily. I Always smell good. I will work my ass of making and keeping you happy.

2) Be communicative. I really like to talk and take the time to get to know a person. Please be able to spell, able to write, able to read, and able to carry on with a conversation. Saying," Hi" is just not enough. Tell me something interesting about yourself and I will do the same. Get into my mind with some intelligence and you will be surprised as to how much you will gain.
**I think we have fulfilled this. We have chatted quite a bit. I feel we know each other well. There are always new things to learn about each other, but that's what makes it exciting is learning new things about each other. I think I spell well, maybe not always prefect, but I do my best, I can write and read and carry on a conversation. "HI" sexy, I've told you some pretty interesting things in our late-night talks.

3) Be nice. This is a big one for me too. As I put in my profile, I'm the guy every mom wanted their daughter to marry. There is a reason for that and it was because I was kind and a gentleman. I took care of all my dates by being sophisticated and this was back in high school and college. Today, I see that as quite the complement. So be nice and kind, and it will go a long way.
**But I dont want to be nice babe. I want to be punished for being naughty. You seem like someone that is worthy of being taken home to mom and dad, and to marry. You have been kind, and a gentleman.

4) Be an FWB. Now it gets harder and this will eliminate a lot of people. Be discreet and patient. Yes, I am married and on this site for numerous reasons. Too many to put in this blog. What I can tell you is that I never wanted to be in this position, but to simply put it, it’s very complicated and I am willing to share my story with the right woman. Please note that I said FWB with much emphasis on the "Friend" part. The benefits can come much later. If you take the time to get to know me as I will take the time to get to know you, you will be shocked as to how loyal a friend I can be.
**I’m trying to be your one and only FWB. I have been very discreet and patient. As I am married too, and on here for a few reasons of my own, that we have discussed. Not too many to write about just don’t feel everyone needs to read about them. No one ever wants to be in a position that they must go outside their marriage to fine what they need. Well I feel honored that you have sheared a lot with me, and I can’t wait to shear a lot more together. Our needs, wants, desires and ourselves. I take the “friend” emphasis serious and am looking for the same. Well I don’t know if I can wait long for the benefits as I know you can’t either, but if we are on the same sheet of music as we are than we will be good. We have taken a lot of time to get to know each other and each other’s wants and needs. I fall hard when I make friends, which isn’t often, so when I loss one, it affects me hard.

5) Be Monogamous. I am NOT looking to screw the planet. LOL. If you have a spouse, that's fine by me and of course you should take care of him, just as I try to take care of mine. That said, if you're having sex with multiple people, I'm not your guy.
**I am working on that. Me either. Well I am, and I do take care of him, as I know you have done what you can for your spouse. I’m not having sex with multiple as seeing that I’m picky, and I don’t want to have sex with multiples. I want you and you only.

6) Looks and Personality. I have dated all kinds of women. Typically, I am attracted to women who are shorter than me (I'm 5'8"), very busty (Just my thing), Full kissable lips and long hair. I have dated ladies that are a size 0 and some that are plus size. So, if you're a stick, or a BBW, I'm good. There MUST be an attraction and chemistry. One thing I know, is that if we are not feeling it, then we need to move on.
**As I have dated a few men and they have had their pros and cons, and they have taught me a lot about them and a lot about myself. Well we know I am shorted than you at a proud 5’ 2”, busty enough at a 38D/40D (not to big and not too little), I have full kissable lips, (that I do enjoy using). Well you know from my pics I’m not a size 0 but a full size 14. Well I feel we have we have attraction and chemistry thus far, and feel it’ll get stronger when we finally meet in person. I hope we can be open enough with each other when we meet face to face that if we’re not feeling it, that we will let each other know.

7) Be funny, I love to laugh. Have a big personality and enjoy yourself. I may be a little shy at first, but I can assure you that once a conversation gets rolling, it’s hard to shut me up and I will make you laugh and have a great time. I love it when you're smiling and that is a huge thing for me.
**Once I get used to you and feel comfortable, I think I can be funny, sometimes it’s my shyness that brings out the funniness. So, we’ll see how it all goes down. I have a very big personality and enjoy myself and looking to enjoy my time with the person I’m spending time with. Same here, shy at first, but then I don’t shut up, again my shyness is my what gets my chatter box going. I love making other smile and feel good and I love when someone makes me feel good and puts a smile on my face.

8 Be somewhat local. My goodness, do you really think I'm going to travel around the world? However, if you're within 125 miles, there is a good chance I'm willing to make a road trip or meet halfway.
**Well I don’t think I can get much more local than being in the same town and being less than 20 miles apart. I don’t expect you to travel around the world unless we are doing it together. I’m definitely within 125 miles of you. Well no need to make a road trip, again unless we’re doing it together.


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