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Blogs > married2kink > What's Gabbenin'?

Patterns of IMing  

married2kink 45M/47F
19 posts
3/16/2017 7:24 am
Patterns of IMing

Despite me being a lover of all things green (money, nature, and weed... especially weed... and nature, but mostly weed, and I actually hate money, but have I said I like weed? especially when out in nature.. sorry I digress, ADD #reallifestruggles) I am finding this recent nor'easter particularly beautiful as we have not seen one in years. I, however, have been unable to enjoy this welcomed beauty as our house has been inflicted by the plague.

With this invasion comes an unwelcome week at home taking care of sick ones and doing your best to lysol every inch of your body after every point of contact with those infested. In my time of being at home I have had the "pleasure" of hanging out on IM (I say "pleasure" because most of the time it is a lesson in patience or some weird coping skill exercise... again I digress... My ADD is in high<b> gear </font></b>when trapped inside for weeks). In this time I have noticed certain traffic patterns. Patterns that I am sure will be of no surprise to anyone.

Mondays are pretty high traffic as most people are checking in after the weekends events, sharing stories, posting photos, updating statuses etc.

Tuesdays are fair traffic, probably mostly regular chat with 'friends'.

Wednesdays are DEAD! Super duper dead (this is a bit of a bummer for me as that is one night I am usually on). Turns out hump day might not be "hump" day... or maybe it is, that is why no one is on. One can only surmise

Thursdays are super high traffic, much like an LA freeway. I invision the behavior and attitudes much like closing time at a bar, as people scramble to make that last minute hookup/date. Cue Semisonics 'Closing Time'

Fridays have traffic but its pretty mellow. Most likely shoring up plans/details or last minute cancelations. All business...

The weekend is much like Wednesday, absolutely dead. Dead like Zed....
But, I would hope so on that because I like to think that most people on here have regular lives, and the person consumed by the life is a rarity.

Anywho... that is my synopsis of IM traffic based on recent observations. Maybe I could write a grant and do some research. I have been spending enough time on here I should be getting paid!!

Oh.. and if you like what you have read... follow me! I don't blog every day but when I do there is a chance it will be pretty fucking entertaining. Except for maybe todays geeked out moment.

Not as exciting about hearing all the kinky things I want to do on our next date... That we had to cancel due to this FUCKING cold. I am convinced it is biological warfare from Russia. Fuck winter, fuck Russia... blame Canada!
UpstateNY2003 49M/42F  
1 post
3/29/2017 8:39 am

 So true. Always need to stop myself from getting disappointed when I compulsively checking for profile 'hits' after like Tuesday. We're kinda new so the novelty is definitely a thing - but damn, can a couple get a profile view on a Wednesday?


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