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When they ask for "ALONE" Time  

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2/18/2017 3:15 pm
When they ask for "ALONE" Time

Whenever you are in some type of relationship with a significant other and the other party gets aggravated and states they just want to be alone then you should take a step back and allow them to have some time to themselves.

When doing so it will allow you to look back at how that relationship has evolved and assess how you can make things work going forward at the same time giving the other party their time to be with themselves.

That shows you have the ability to see that there are two sides to a relationship and that it is not always about you. You have to talk to one another for things to work and you can't expect one to read your mind as you will not be able to read theirs.

But here is when you have become the problem. If that same person has told you that they want to have alone time yet when you give them that time to be alone they are hanging with others then it is not alone time they seek it is time away from you that they want in the end but can't find a way to say that to you for obvious reasons.

There is no need to be jealous but there is a need to assess that relationship overall and realize that what you thought was there has long gone, so either walk away and cut<b> ties </font></b>completely or try to maintain the friendship you had from the start. Either choice will be tough because there have been some trust issues crossed for no good reason other than a way to express frustration without using words.

Many friendships have turned into serious sexual relationships and have ended nasty because one of the parties was unwilling to talk about how they were feeling during the process. The fact that they can't talk to you speaks volumes and really probably from the start the so called friendship you thought you had was nothing more than a courtship to get you in bed and nothing more. After that you were just another lay. The quicker you realize that the less it will hurt when the truth raises its ugly head.

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