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Blogs > Curiousthatsall9 > My Blog

Why I Ghost  

Curiousthatsall9 50F  
90 posts
8/21/2018 5:12 pm
Why I Ghost

.... because y'all can't take it. Whine and cry and tell me all day that you want a polite<b> rejection. </font></b>When I give you one you can't take it, you go apoplectic, and you assure me that it was YOU who was doing ME the favor even after you sent me weeks and months of begging messages.

Don't worry, I let it roll off me as I block you from even viewing my profile so this never has to come up again. However, I don't need to go through that in the first place.

So guys, sorry that others have ruined it for you but I'm gonna make heavy use of "delete" and "block" for the duration.

GreenD7 41M
1 post
8/21/2018 5:35 pm

 People should really look at your profile before attempting to contact you. Its rather extensive and informative from what i read.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
8/21/2018 5:58 pm

 While i could use the argument, not all guys are like that, I'd be willing to bet the majority are..so hard to argue against your decision.

Will never understand why guys can't just say, thanks anyways, have a great day.
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/22/2018 1:29 am

 Why are these boys sending weeks and months of begging messages? A man is suppose to :
Find her profile.
Today [within the first 10 minutes Tell her he wants to meet her.
Tell her when and where.
... Shit!! There's no begging , no asking.... you just tell her today what you want. She's on a sex site , put it together.

And you..... you don't ghost men without a good reason. You buck up , and show up .... or just tell them you're not interested before agreeing to meet them!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/22/2018 1:35 am
    Quoting Platosgames:
    While i could use the argument, not all guys are like that, I'd be willing to bet the majority are..so hard to argue against your decision.

    Will never understand why guys can't just say, thanks anyways, have a great day.
Will never understand why guys can't just say, thanks anyways, have a great day. ... What for? She doesn't want to meet. It's done.

What moron is going to tell a chick , "Thanks anyways"[ for turning me down,]....that's just stupid.

Ha... "Have a great day"? LOL .... the bozo suffers from low self esteem.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
8/22/2018 2:23 am
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Will never understand why guys can't just say, thanks anyways, have a great day. ... What for? She doesn't want to meet. It's done.

    What moron is going to tell a chick , "Thanks anyways"[ for turning me down,]....that's just stupid.

    Ha... "Have a great day"? LOL .... the bozo suffers from low self esteem.
LOL, thanks for making my point. Have a great day.
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/9/2018 9:52 am

 Hey... It's all good... It's a fricken hookup site, and really ... who takes this place so seriously? Of course, when they do, the babies show up, and they can't handle rejection ... Oh well...


WanderingEye 63M
10 posts
11/8/2018 12:37 pm

 They're babies. I can take a rejection. I have many, many times. lol I much prefer a woman to say straight up, "No, thanks. Not what I"m looking for." than to just disappear. Logically, I know it's the same thing but it always leaves a little doubt. Saying outright leaves no doubt and I'm free to move on.

Overall I feel that ghosting is just rude behavior., but I can understand why you do it.


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