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"That Guy"  

Curiousthatsall9 50F  
90 posts
5/2/2019 12:11 pm
"That Guy"


Are you " that guy"? You know who I'm talking about. You could be anywhere from your 30's through your 50's. But usually you're in your late 40's to early 50's. You could be rich, poor, college educated, blue collar, whatever.

No, what makes you " that guy" is you're on a website trying to hook up with women, when the truth is you really, really hate women. It's probably one woman in particular - your ex. And the closer you are in time to divorce, the angrier you are. You're so angry you spend 30 minutes of the first meet expounding on how the judge screwed you over when there is a live woman, who otherwise was thinking about letting you fuck her on the first date, sitting across from you.

OR, you could be " that guy" if you are a member of the "men's rights" movement. You know, the one convinces your average white guy the patriarchy just hasn't done well enough by him and women are screwing him out of all the things he is entitled to. These men aren't interested in "rights" - they're interested in bellyaching like whiny little bitches and -more notably - restricting women's rights just for the hell of it because, well, it makes them feel better.

Then there is the third type of " that guy" - incels. One the one hand, those are the ones women should be most worried about, because they are the ones tend to be psychopaths and might actually kill you. On the other hand, there's a reason these guys are incels, and chances are I'm going to be able to filter out before I would meet with them to begin with.

Now I'm sure all you angry men out there will want to whine and moan about some "angry woman" they met - probably the one they met, stayed married to until they had a couple of dependents and a small business 's got to be carved up like community property, OR, maybe just some rando they went on a date with. Save it - or, go write your own blog post. I'm not woman. I am drama and baggage free. No man ever screwed me over and ruined my life. I am merely venting about a handful of men who have<b> wasted </font></b>a few hours of my life here and there (but they did buy the drinks).

Some friendly advice - well, don't stay married until you've got a couple who will cost you years of support and you have a small business she's going to get a chunk of. Don't wait until you're in your late 40's to be " that guy." But, if 's how it shakes out, until you are over it you don't need a date - you need a .

Myiarchus21 53M
4 posts
5/7/2019 1:29 pm

So it's obvious you have experienced "that guy". Kinda looks like a broad brush here. I fall into the age range and social situation you describe, however I don't project. And I'm sure that goes for many others. The circumstances I deal with due to the decisions I made are mine alone. Perhaps you need to "vet" your dates a bit better to avoid "that guy".


hunsrugger 61M  
34 posts
9/1/2021 10:30 pm

The stories I hear from my female friends just on the regular sites like Match and EHarmony are frightening, the way the are often treated. It takes guts to get on this site and meet someone I imagine. At least they made it easy on you not to have to experience a 2nd round with them. My friend says it can take up to 9 months for someone's crap to reveal itself! I've experienced that and I am sure there is someone I have dated that probably feels the same about me. I do try to keep my misogyny in check. My friend's daughters got me the hat in my profile photos that say "This is what a feminist looks like", which I was please to get!


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