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i am an unabashed prude...looking for sex.  

smg991 48F
14 posts
6/22/2020 10:13 pm
i am an unabashed prude...looking for sex.


i know, i know, i'm on this site, for fucks sakes'.

but i don't like random nudity. i really don't. in movies (the regular movies) i don't like to see people going at it. i might like a sweet romantic kiss and then seeing them wake up in the morning together and we can infer what happened. but i'm not into seeing a hot n' heavy scene. no thank you.

i used to be like the stereotypical girl in a horror film with her bf, averting or closing my eyes and asking my companion to tell me when the sexy sex scenes (rather than the scary scenes) were over. they would laugh. i was serious.

i'm still like this and usually i listen for the heavy breathing to be over before i look at the screen again.

and nudity? random nudity? omg. do. not. get. me. started.

i hate it when movies and tv shows don't prepare you for what's coming so i can turn away. like damn, give a girl some warning. game of thrones was difficult. like really difficult. sigh.

is it any surprise that i've not watched a porn movie? ever? and from what i've heard, i don't intend to.

i can't say i've never seen porn b/c i'm on this fucking site and i can't seem to get away from it. i appreciate the filter thingy here where i can block most of the random nudity. thank goodness.

but i really don't like it.

the funny thing is, i love sex. and i love my lover naked. i'm totally ok with that. that is totally sexy and hot and fun. his nudity gives me access. but random nudity? of strangers or randos or people i am not intimate with? (and i'm strictly mono so i'm not intimate with the vast majority of people. like just about all the people on the planet, really.) no thank you. oddly, i was rather uninhibited with sex with my last partner. he seemed to love it and i loved it and i don't think he would ever accuse me of being a prude.

on this site...well i talked about how i handle it earlier, right? this place should be enough aversion therapy for me. it's a strategy but it's not working for me. cause i like the damn sex so much. sigh.

so yeah, i'm a pervert. and sexually adventurous with my partner if i'm allowed to be. and a prude. i'm ok with it. but you might think it's<b> weird. </font></b>not surprising. aren't we all a wee bit weird?

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