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No rhyme or reason, but douche bag sells!  

DarkMindDeepSoul 41M
28 posts
7/4/2017 9:51 am
No rhyme or reason, but douche bag sells!

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DarkMindDeepSoul 41M
25 posts
7/4/2017 9:52 am

And if you want to leave comments, all I ask is that you make them a quality contribution. I think we can all agree, there is an over-abundance of shitty people that leave shitty comments online (FriendFinder-x especially and sadly) just for the sake of being shitty. I don't know why they get off on acting that way. But that's a topic for another blog post! Keep it pithy!


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/4/2017 11:55 am

It works both ways. Women see good men falling for and groveling after the psycho bitch and just wonder why. It's usually if she's a hottie. Know that most women have encountered the douche bag at some time.
She sounds nice and mature with this. Maybe you both found a nice friend here if not more. And the beautiful thing is a new life she is embracing. Maybe the old douche will be worth something to her in the end.


DarkMindDeepSoul 41M
25 posts
7/4/2017 2:33 pm

That was some good insight all around, and definitely a quality positive outlook.

The reason guys fall all over the psycho chicks is that it almost always rings true that the more insane they are, the more insanely awesome they are in bed. "Psycho chicks fuck the best" is a maxim most guys know well. The only problem is that if you even get to a relationship with them, they burn hot and fast, and a crash and burn blow-up is the usual ending.

But in all honesty, a good majority of the most wild nights in bed I ever had, were with the crazies.

I keep holding out for kinda crazy but stable, but haven't found that unicorn yet!


porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
7/4/2017 4:19 pm

I have heard that a lot from male friends about the psycho chicks, but nothing is ever certain in life, but you are being kind in her time of need, and she knows she made the wrong choice and regret it, you didn't rub it in some would have. I know most of us have made the wrong choice when it came down to choosing the right one, it happens.


DarkMindDeepSoul 41M
25 posts
7/4/2017 5:21 pm

I totally agree, nothing is ever certain. But because of that, you've gotta rely on "the trends" as best you can.

I would certainly never rub it in. There is a difference between bummed and bitter.

At the same time, I make a point in my profile that I'm a good guy, not a nice guy. I know women hate to hear it and sometimes disagree, but nice guys do really finish last. It's mostly about self confidence and how you carry yourself.

While I will do more than most guys for a girl upfront, I always keep a qualifier mindset. I remind them about endless emails, and don't waste my time. And they don't get my undivided attention until I'm fairly certain they are quality and worth it After that, they get it in spades.

At the same time, I'm the first to say, I don't always offer that "wow factor" at the onset. I'm not "mysterious" or provide that emotional response of the bad boy thrill. I'm consistent, stable, and practice good thorough communication up front. These things are "not hot."

The difference is that what you see is what you get and that I am in fact a really great guy. And once I find someone worth my time and resources, is when the adventures start happening. If there's one thing that any girl that's dated me could say, it's that times with me are never boring.

I think at the end of the day, it comes down to instant satisfaction versus long term happiness.


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