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Should I feel bad?
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Should I feel bad? I thought I would see what people thought or if I'm really wierd, or if this is normal. But I seem to be a lot more turned on by people I "shouldn't be". What I mean is I get hot for older women and men sometimes.... like even married ones or people who are family friends or go to my church (I go, but only bc I have friends there lol). THis is even worse, but I am attracted to my younger sisters friends...she's a lot younger and it's probably bad, but I can't stop having....let's say 'naughty' thoughts about her friends. One of them is so cute I think about her constantly. Is this really strange, or is it pretty normal - I mean being turned on by people a lot younger or a lot older? I'm sometimes attracted to my own age, but recently it's mainly way younger or older. Be nice...lol |
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What turns you on turns you on. The question is what do you do about it?
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Do not feel bad at all!....welcome to blog land!!!
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Question is - what is "normal"? I have been attracted to women lots older than me and lots younger all my life - but, I know others who aren't attracted to anyone more than a very few years younger or older. Biggest thing is to set personal parameters that you can live with, and then, just have fun. The age of attraction is pretty random, so, guess there are no "normal" parameters. For me the parameters simple - don't have sex that will land you in prison or that will cause irreparable damage to family or friends. - So absolutely no under age sex - in your case as you say she is "a lot younger" that could be a problem. Not sure, but my memory serves the age of consent in Nevada is 16 years old, so if she is younger than that - definitely stay away. But, either way double check the Nevada laws too. BTW 16 wasn't just for intercourse that was for all sexual acts, so under 16, everything is illegal. - Next thing - family and friends - if having sex with her would bust you and your sisters relationship or you and your family members...is it worth it? Caveat: before I get jumped on for knowing the statutory seduction law age in Nevada... I was stationed there and was a First Sergeant - had to brief my troops often on not only the state statutory age, but, remind them that the military statutory age was 18.
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to me you like what you like, only you know what make you feel good, we put to much into what others think, as long as you don't harm a child or someone who isn't able to make sound decisions, have your turn ons,
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Enjoy what you are feeling; you are not weird or alone in what turns us on. What turns folks on can change from day to day.
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to me you like what you like, only you know what make you feel good, we put to much into what others think, as long as you don't harm a child or someone who isn't able to make sound decisions, have your turn ons,  As for feeling bad ... as in embarrassed or ashamed? You're aware you're not harming anyone so don't give it a second thought.. However, you should be careful with whom you share such secrets in the real world. Not everyone is openminded and some actually believe that societal norms should determine how you live your life.  Be careful and have fun!
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I guess thoughts are 1 thing and acts or another. If your sister in that case is like 12 or something than I'd say- Stranger Danger! you are still learning things about yourself. Who knows, next year maybe it will be only 21-25 yr olds! - fyi, having naughty thoughts about ur breasts right now. 
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2/25/2017 12:51 pm |
wow, love ur big sexy boobs, would love to cum to reno n pleasure them for u, mmm hehe
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You claim to be only 20 on your profile, that concerns me when you say you, "I am attracted to my younger sisters friends...she's a lot younger and it's probably bad, but I can't stop having....let's say 'naughty' thoughts about her friends." How young is much younger? If it's 17 or 18, that's not a big deal they are in your age range. If you are talking about pre or early puberty, you have a problem. A big one. You need to find a good therapist and discuss these feelings or you'll end up in the newspaper one day. I'm curious, if I follow you, you don't have a sexual attraction to people about your age. I'm curious what's behind that, is there some kind of fear or trauma with being romantic/sexual with people in your general age group? It's normal to look at someone who is older, younger, or otherwise different from us. But it sounds as though you're going beyond that and nurturing crushes and strong sexual feelings toward these people. to nurture those feelings is a choice and you might want to figure out why you are making that choice. If you have concerns that something is off, sand you must if you are asking, something is probably off and you should probably talk to someone about it.
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No don't feel bad. Do what makes u happy. Go sexy.
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you don't have to beat yourself up about wanting things you can't have. but as others have said above, don't go to prison over this. it's not just doing the time nowadays, you also get put on the sex offenders' list which can make your life miserable forever. -the ghoul
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1 post 2/22/2018 2:06 pm |
Not weird at all, your'e exploring your sexuality!
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