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Why women take long time to judge men are they suitable for them  

sam197pulsar 37M
0 posts
2/6/2018 4:18 am
Why women take long time to judge men are they suitable for them

Why women take long time to judge men are they suitable for them?
They want to be treated well
foolish to make quick judgments about Anything
usually/hopefully I've soon after, seen their true colors
trust issues
Afraid of making mistakes
to find someone with whom they are truly compatible
Lack of confidence
extra sensitive extra carefull
Shy nature
Other


Have a wonderful day


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/14/2018 2:35 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    You cannot love someone if you cheat on them! Love is tantamount on respect. If you cheat, you do not respect your girl. If you do not respect them, you cannot possibly love them.

    He may feel that his girl should meet his every whim and desire, sexual and otherwise, 24/7, regardless of how she feels at any particular moment. When his expectations are not met, he cheats!
That is correct, "Cheating" is not a mistake. "Cheating" is a survival mechanism. When the Yak , you have, stops providing milk , you find another Yak that will provide milk.

"Cheating" is a response to a given reason to cheat. To "Cheat", a man [or even a woman] only needs an opportunity.

Don't get all sentimental and romantic over "Cheating". "Cheating" is what a man [or a woman] does, to answer a "Reason".

You cannot love someone if you cheat on them! .... You're mistaken. Possibly blinded by romantic foolishness. To "Cheat", this does not require a loss of love.

Love is tantamount on respect. ... No it isn't. Love is only an intimate loyalty that exists as long as they provide what you need. Once they stop providing what you need, your attachment has not vanished, but you do seek what you need with someone else.

If you cheat, you do not respect your girl. ....No. You're mistaken again.... if you cheat, your girl gave you a reason to cheat. She does not respect you.

If you do not respect them, you cannot possibly love them. ... .And again you are mistaken.... You can respect someone and not have intimate loyalty.
You respect your boss at your job, do you not? But you don't have intimate loyalty to your boss.

He may feel that his girl should meet his every whim and desire, sexual and otherwise, 24/7, regardless of how she feels at any particular moment. .... Within reason , yes.

When his expectations are not met, he cheats! ... That is correct.

Anyway... back on topic.... women can take as long as she wants to judge a man, however that man, is only allowing her one chance, up to 3 chances to show him she wants to have sex with him.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/14/2018 2:09 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    Women are free to get in and out of relationships until they find the right guy.
    If a man fails to deepen his woman’s feelings, she will gradually disconnect with her feelings of love for him and then dump him.
Women are free to get in and out of relationships until they find the right guy.

I have always agreed with that. I've never said they can't. I have said, "Don't pretend you're in a relationship. Dating is not a commitment. Having sex does NOT make you committed to the other, you don't owe them anything for sex. ....Males and females should date as many as possible, to either; find the right one, or just have fun. "

Today, most men are opting to "Just have fun" with these women they find.

If a man fails to deepen his woman’s feelings, .... Not "His" woman yet. "Dating" is not exclusive. But again....the man should only give her one chance, up to 3 chances to acknowledge she has sexual feelings for him. If she does not, within that time period, he should dump her time-wasting-ass.

she will gradually disconnect with her feelings of love for him and then dump him. .... Meanwhile, the man goes out with her once, maybe 2 more times, and if she doesn't show any desire to have sex with him, then he dumps her.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/13/2018 4:26 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    When a man cheats, it is most often because he feels like a loser in the relationship. He feels like he is constantly disappointing his woman and nothing he does is good enough
When a man cheats, it is most often because he feels like a loser in the relationship. ... When a man cheats, he was given a reason to cheat. Now all he needs is an opportunity.

He feels like he is constantly disappointing his woman ..That doesn't cause a man to cheat. Maybe suicide, or maybe throw her out, but not cheat.

And don't use girly memes. Most girls never take the blame for their man cheating.


sam197pulsar replies on 2/15/2018 1:14 am:

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/13/2018 4:18 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    Multiple profiles play aggressively once in a while. some of the most aggressive creatures on the planet -- routinely hitting, kicking, biting, pulling, pushing, and cyber bullying -- because they're frustrated by not having control, power, or the ability to say what they want. This behavior isn't normal and we shouldn't let them go. We need to help your profiles learn how to deal with their emotions in a more productive (and civilized!) way.



    We must Act promptly. As soon as you see (or feel!) your most profiles biting or act aggressively, we must say, "No biting. Biting hurts." To reinforces aggressive behavior. We must TEACH THEM to APOLOGIZE, have your multiple profiles to say sorry to whomever they hurt. At first, they'll just be mimicking the words and won't type the word " SORRY",but the more they does this, the better they'll understand what (SORRY) means to be sorry and why apologizing is worthwhile.
You need to stay on topic. The male takes control of the situation with the woman, because if does not, she will have no incentive to quicken her answer.

And eventually she'll either "Friendzone" him [no sex], or dump him.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/12/2018 3:12 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    Nobody is 100% perfect and everyone makes mistakes. Therefore, try to analyse your own grey areas .
    Maybe you are over possessive by nature, a bad listener, or over dependent on sex.
    Try to figure these out, work on your grey areas and become a better person.
Nobody is 100% perfect ... This has nothing to do with perfection, only appropriate reaction. If she shows no sexual interest , dump her.

and everyone makes mistakes. ... Not his concern. He is attracted to a woman, he invites the woman to bed [essentially], and she has 3 chances to say "Yes". If not? Then he should move on.

Maybe you are over possessive by nature, ... Bombay, there's nothing to possess. She has to say ,"Yes" or "No" , to sex with him. If she doesn't want to have sex with him, then he is wasting his time waiting around. Being possessive isn't a factor, at this point.

or over dependent on sex. .... Your dad invited your mom out on a date because he wanted to have sex with her. The 1980's was a good time to "Date".
Your grandfather and great grandfather wanted to have sex with their women.... you exist because men wanted a woman for sex, and nailed her.

Of course, today, "Sex" is more of a hobby, for most men.

Try to figure these out, work on your grey areas and become a better person. ... Go have a talk with your Granddad.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/11/2018 6:38 pm

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    if you’re holding out for a response from her, who you messaged over a week ago, don’t. She probably has her hazel eyes and quirky hair cut set on other sites. It’s time to message someone else
if you’re holding out for a response from her, .... You're not holding out for her response. You've given her a time limit for her response.

At the end of that time limit, and no response , or not the response he wants, then the man walks away ...... Why? Because she isn't interested in being with that man.

who you messaged over a week ago, .... I see, you're confused. You're way back at the messaging-phase. Really retarded. You haven't even met her yet.

My comments regard having met her, already. This is way past the messaging-phase.

Going back to the messaging-phase; you never wait until she responds, you continue to message other women to meet you. Don't waste your time either way.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/11/2018 4:20 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    Is he truly confident in himself, or is he just putting on an act and trying to trick her into thinking that he believes he is good enough? When a guy crumbles under the pressure of a woman’s test, she realizes that he’s not strong enough to handle a women like her.
Is India vaginized now?! Seriously, you, as the male, have to take control of your sex life . You decide what woman you want. You decide the scheduled time limit she has to make a decision on you.

The longer you give her, the weaker you are perceived.

This isn't about what the woman wants. This is about what the man wants.

Remember , she already decided within 10 seconds if she ever wants to see him naked. After that 10 seconds, HE, the man, makes a move on her.

Yes or no. If "Not yet"? Then he allows her 3 times to be in his company. At the end of 3 times, and she's still undecided....then he moves on to date other women.

Is he truly confident in himself, ... He should be confident in himself. The longer he allows her to think about this, then the less confident he is.

or is he just putting on an act .... Either way, she is only allowed one chance or three chances to decide to be with him intimately.

and trying to trick her into thinking that he believes he is good enough? ... ... The woman has 3 chances to figure him out. Meanwhile, the man allows her only 3 intended dates with him, to show him she is sexually interested in him. If she is not? Then he has to let her go, and stop wasting his time on her.

When a guy crumbles under the pressure of a woman’s test,....Her tests , are not important to him. He wants this woman, he allows her 3 chances [with him] to make her decision to have sex with him or not.
She better complete her tests within that trial period of 3 chances.

she realizes that he’s not strong enough to handle a women like her.... Sometimes that happens. So she has no sexual interest for him anyway. Decent and attractive women don't want a weak, dependent, vaginized man.

The man gives her 3 chances to conclude her tests, because at the end of 3 chances , he will drop her if he is not satisfied, and he should because the longer a man allows a woman to decide, the higher the chances of her becoming bored with him and not interested in seeing him. Clearly he is weak.

The stronger man sets the time limit on how much time he is going to waste on a woman.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/9/2018 3:40 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    In this day and age, for a women its extremely important to choose someone she can trust. She definitely cannot lead a happy life if she cannot trust each other or have faith. its also crucial to be with someone who gives her enough time and who she would love to spend time with.
In this day and age, for a women its extremely important to choose someone she can trust. .... Time will tell, and some people get married, after years of dating, and still discover much later, they cannot trust.

She definitely cannot lead a happy life if she cannot trust each other or have faith. ...That isn't that man's concern. The man establishes his rules so to not allow a woman to waste his time.

its also crucial to be with someone who gives her enough time .... No.
A woman knows within 10 seconds if she will ever have sex with a man.
Her issues regarding trust , is her problem. Not his, unless he has the same issues.....and if he does have the same trust issues, you can be sure she is going to lose interest in him.

The man puts in place time-rules of dating, as not to be time wasted with a woman who really has no sexual intentions.

and who she would love to spend time with. .... Not if she isn't showing any sexual interest in him. Again.. if her reply is, "I'm cautious"? You dump her.
She has your contact information if she changes her mind.

Meanwhile , you go date other women.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/8/2018 5:52 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    A women obviously cannot spend their life with someone who has no respect for them or their dreams/goals /personality. So, women choose someone who will acknowledge them for the rest of their life.
A women obviously cannot spend their life with someone who has no respect for them .... A man can't spend his life with a woman who has no sexual attraction for him. Unless the guy happens to be gay and trying to fit into heterosexual society.

Anyway , the concept of life-long-marriages is a concept of the past. Right now, regarding your original posting, we're basically talking about dating. You have clear that hurdle first.

So, women choose someone who will acknowledge them for the rest of their life. ...Sometimes women can be really stupid about men.

Men are not going out on dates to get married. Especially today. The primary reason men date women, is to get some ass, not commit to her.

So again. You set your rules, or you are letting her pull you around by the short hairs.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/7/2018 3:15 pm

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    Because a lot of them are very indecisive and a lot of them doubt themselves and also because a lot of them are afraid to make a mistake and a lot of them have trust issues as big as houses.

    All you can do, as men, is be patient, go with the flow.
Because a lot of them are very indecisive .... She being indecisive is not your concern. You - the man - must establish the ground rules with which he will hunt by. If he doesn't have rules? She plays with him as a cat plays with a mouse.

and a lot of them doubt themselves ... Again...NOT YOUR CONCERN!

and also because a lot of them are afraid to make a mistake .... Not your concern. She has to say "Yes", before you can do anything, BUT, your rules say she has 3 chances. ....Maybe less.

and a lot of them have trust issues as big as houses. .... Doesn't matter. Not your concern. You are the hunter.

All you can do, as men, is be patient, go with the flow. ...NO!!!

You establish you hunting rules , and you stick to your rules.

Legally, she has the power of "Yes", or "No", to get involved with you, HOWEVER.....you have the power of how much of your time you are going to allow the woman to use up. Don't be a pussy Bombay.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/6/2018 1:29 pm

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    A woman should take her time to choose a guy. if you rush in doing something, always there is a chance to make mistakes.
To judge a man, find out his education and what he does for a living.

A woman should take her time to choose a guy. .... That's why men allow the woman 3 times to go out with him. If she hasn't decided to fuck by the end of the 3rd time out , then he should dump her and move on.

if you rush in doing something, always there is a chance to make mistakes. ... Bombay, there's a chance to make a mistake even if you go slow. Just trust your visceral intuition.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/6/2018 1:21 pm

Why women take long time to judge men are they suitable for them... Women take 10 seconds to judge you. She knows within 10 seconds if she wants to have sex with you.

So really, any time after 10 seconds is her, waiting for you to make a move on her.

If a woman says, "No", to your move. She's really not attracted to you. Go find another.

When women say , "I'm being cautious". Dump her and move on. She's been abused, and she will be damaged goods with you.

If a woman is on a sex site, looking for something serious, dump her , too. She's on the wrong site. She has a screw loose, or something really tragic happened to her.


sam197pulsar replies on 2/11/2018 7:31 am:
We hide your darkness, fears and run!

Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
2/6/2018 4:48 am

Different reasons for different women. If mean from this site for sex it could be they don't want a one time fast f. Some women is ok with that. Others like me no. Doesn't matter how good the man thinks he is.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


gandchodh 39M
62 posts
2/6/2018 4:44 am

All ladies want someone to whom they date treat her in best wanna fuck best


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