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FWB- does it work?  

Goddess8531 32F
31 posts
3/23/2017 7:22 pm
FWB- does it work?


Hey fellow adult friends! So what are your thoughts on FWB? Is it possible? Can you really fuck someone for a long period of time without catching feelings? What are some of your experiences? The last FWB I had, I married and had 2 sons with lol but I've had others that I used solely for sex and that was it. I'm just curious as to what people's definition of a FWB is. Have fun and be safe sexy friends

Prof10001 63M  
4094 posts
3/24/2017 5:59 am

I'm curious to discover the answer to your question. I have a FWB of just a few months now. I'm on the other end of the spectrum from you, I'm married, for many years, and my two offspring are now out of the house. I'm hoping the FWB lasts. The friendship and the sex are special.

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JimmyB7474 59M

3/24/2017 10:10 am

LOL My life has been a long line of FWBs and even a few EWB's (enemies or Exes with benefits) Some of the hottest sex I have ever had was with persons who disliked me very much. (the feelings were mutual) Lee Ann comes to mind. We had a love/hate relationship that lasted several years. That being said, if you are ever in the FriendFinder-x neighborhood come on over to my blog - INTO THE WOODS (erotic tales) - it's a collection of stories about some guy named Jimmy and the sexual miss adventures he has. Here's a hint: some of the stories are actually true. You get to guess which ones by leaving a comment. I also enjoy honest reviews (both good and bad) as they help me get better at my writing skills. Come on by and I will entertain. Did I mention sex? NC-17 (rated X for us older folk) stories available! Jimmy B.

My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
3/24/2017 1:09 pm

IF both parties adopt a common understanding of FWB then it can work wonderfully. If there is a disconnect in the definition, and by extension, a disconnect in definitions, the entire situation will fall apart. That said, I will add that too many confuse FWB with near-annominity.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


Goddess8531 32F

3/24/2017 8:41 pm

Yes I believe there has to be boundaries set before embarking on this type of relationship. Sometimes lines can be blurred and I feel like if two people really are friends that have amazing sex, someone is bound to catch feelings. Then it turns into a relationship and 8 times out of 10 it's doomed. As in my marriage lol that's why it ended in divorce. Some people do confuse great sex with the possibility of a great relationship but it usually never turns out that way. I do understand the love hate sex. Has been some of the best sex of my life as well.


CamFun_47 55M
33 posts
4/5/2017 9:08 pm

I had a fwb for 7 years. Then she got pregnant with an 18 yr. old...she's 37. I work a lot of hours a week so I only saw her on Sat. night and Sun. She was a waitress that worked nights except on the weekend. She broke the news to me and I was so happy for her. I haven't seen her since. Which is where you come in...


boneuhard2012 46M  
3 posts
4/7/2017 7:21 pm

I had a FWB for 2 years and we both agreed to move forward and try a relationship...10 years later we got divorced. Never imagined a FWB would turn into a marriage!! lol... She blessed me with a son and we are still friends but now I'm only seeking one booty like yours to worship!! lol


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
6/2/2017 12:27 pm

I'm not sure FWB can be done without feelings but provided everyone is consenting there's no problem.


fordfire4 48M  
284 posts
7/25/2018 9:12 pm

I think it can work. I had a fwb for years. Still great friends, but her job moved her to Arizona last year. From experience, some things are key to make it work. Communication is huge! Also, we both lived busy lives, so we only got to see each other about once a week.


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