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Where's the male G spot?
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Where's the male G spot? We're creatures of habit, so it goes without saying certain sexual positions become our favorites or routine, but have you ever ventured into an unknown zone that you’ve never considered, well, intensely erotic? Sometimes the greatest pleasures are the ones we deny ourselves, and the male G-spot is the forbidden fruit of a man’s erogenous zones. If you haven’t explored that part of your own anatomy or maybe you’re used to being on top, it might be taboo and a bit freaky. And that’s what makes it so hot! You might have to be brave, but trust me, once you allow yourself to explore your own or another male G-spot, you’ll wonder what you were so afraid of before. While some bisexual and homosexual men are open to anal stimulation, heterosexual men can equally encourage their female partners to help stimulate their 'down-there' region. Here are some ways to find and stimulate the male G-spot… tonight! What Is The Male G-Spot? Everyone has a G-spot, male and female alike. An easy way to think about it is to consider those goose bumps you get on your skin when you’re surprised, a cool breeze contacts your skin, or you get scared. While uncomfortable at first, the sensation itself is enjoyable if you sink into the unfamiliar territory. Those goose bumps come from a shift in your nerve endings. When you target the male G-spot something similar happens ~ you’ll be shifting the nerve endings on one of a male's most sensitive body parts. A German gynecologist named Ernst Gräfenberg was the first to discover this area, and thus, it’s named after him. This wasn’t until 1950 - so if you’re still getting on the bandwagon, you’re likely not alone. A greater concentration of nerve endings are in both male and female G-spots which, when stimulated properly, can lead to intense orgasms in both genders. Where Is The G-Spot? There are many ways to ignite the pleasure of the male G-spot (more on that below) but first, you need to know where it is. You might be surprised to discover this special place is actually located inside of the male<b> prostate. </font></b>It’s a gland about the size of a walnut located right under a man’s bladder. When you start to seek it out, proceed with caution and don’t go too hard or fast. The<b> prostate </font></b>is located behind the anal wall in the direction of your belly button (2 to 4 inches from the sphincter). Be careful! The<b> prostate </font></b>is very sensitive. Do not poke and prod, instead caress and stroke. Press gently using feather-light touches. You’re looking for a walnut-sized fleshy ball hiding behind the anal wall. Finding it is a little like playing hide-and-seek, only you’re using your finger rather than your eyes. How Is The Male G-Spot Different From The Female One? When you go for a woman’s G-spot, you’re likely on a mission to not only find the sucker, but to work your best at pushing her to the brink of an orgasm. Every woman is different on how they react to their G-spot being stimulated. Some might find it incredibly intense to the point of where it’s not comfortable, while others encourage their partners to go there as often (and as thoroughly) as they can. The female G-spot is a sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina believed to be highly erogenous and capable of ejaculation. The female G-spot is also referred to as the Skene's gland, urethral sponge or female<b> prostate. </font></b>The male<b> prostate </font></b>is biologically similar to the female G-spot so it has been unofficially called the male G-spot because it can also be used as an erogenous zone. Although very little scientific consensus exists on exactly what the female versus male G-spots actually are, they're very similar and stimulation of both can lead to explosive orgasms for both men and women. I always cum like a rocket when my G-spot is stimulated and have the most intense and amazing orgasms that way. Why Should You Investigate Your G-Spot? Just like you appreciate when your partner takes the time to direct you around their body, your partner will enjoy the process of practicing something new on you that will make your orgasms and your sex life even hotter. Plus there’s something incredibly sexy and empowering about being unafraid to change the way you get to your personal finish line. Masturbating is a wonderful way to relieve stress and tension as a solo act. I've always felt masturbating leads to a more fulfilling sexual experience because I can maintain endurance and show my partner what brings me pleasure. The wise lover encourages their partner to masturbate and observes to learn their unique rhythm, amount of pressure, erogenous areas to focus on, areas to avoid, sensitivities to touch, forbidden taboos, etc. I love when a lover masturbates for me during sex - it's a beautiful way to communicate our likes ~ an erotic dance if you will. If you're not comfortable doing this with your lover, just search PornHub for solo masturbation (either gender) and observe where they touch, rhythm, speed, and how the pace changes as they achieve orgasm. It's an incredible turn-on as it should be (still MUCH better with a partner though, I'm just saying). The same goes for a G-spot: Why not add another layer of expertise to your already-overflowing sexual database? Stimulating the male G-spot can be an intensely empowering experience, whether for a male doing it himself, or a lover giving him a helping hand. What Your G-Spot Can Help With In addition to benefiting your sex drive, massaging and stimulating the male G-spot can also help relieve other troubles you could be experiencing. If you’re in the mood for sex play but have some performance problems, try massaging or stimulating your<b> prostate. </font></b>You might find that the sexual arousal from the male G-spot stimulation helps you relax and get an erection. How To Gently Stimulate It If you’re still a bit freaked out by exploring past your everyday masturbation (which is good for you by the way), then start small by using your own fingers to find your area. The easiest way to stimulate the male G-spot is to press gently on the skin that runs between your balls and anus, known as the perineum (or, more commonly, the taint). The perineum is a fantastic, clean and safe place for your partner's tongue to explore as they give you oral sex. Everyone is different. I actually prefer stimulation on the anus opening and eventually penetration for the most powerful orgasms. Stimulating the perineum doesn't do it for me in itself. If you’d like your lover to help you take that initial plunge into the G-spot unknown, guide their hand to massage this area during sex, applying rhythmic pressure with the fingers to add to your pleasure. Giving this spot extra attention right before you climax will add some mind-blowing intensity to your orgasm. Having my ass fingered while I fuck is my absolute favorite way to achieve orgasm! Don’t Be Afraid Of Using A Toy Toys work for guys too, especially if your<b> prostate </font></b>is positioned higher than average and/or your fingers are shorter than average it can get a little tricky. Try a commercial<b> prostate </font></b>massager like the Lelo Hugo (a personal fav), Aneros or the Male P-Spot Massager. They’re shaped to match the form of a man's anus. Get yourself some high-quality long-lasting lubricant specifically designed for anal play. Pjur Analyse and Pjur Backdoor brands are my personal favs. The brand is top-of-the-line so they're a little pricey (around $19 - $32 a bottle - available online) but worth every penny! There are even desensitizing sprays & desensitizing lubricants which help relax tight little first-timers or those who are very sensitive. When I use my pinkey toy, I prefer to place it upright on a pillow and mount it so I can control the depth, speed and intensity. Once pinkey toy reaches my G spot, I sensually and slowly gyrate my hips in a back & forth thrusting, fucking motion. I normally won't ride up and down the toy's length - I love thrusting & grinding on it as a personal preference. It's a matter of minutes before I'm quivering & spurting hot cum as I reach an intense orgasm. What If It Doesn’t Feel Any Different? Just like you probably struggled with finding a female G-spot, you might have trouble finding your own, even when you’re working as a team to stimulate it. It’s important that you’re already stimulated in some fashion - aka, turned on - before you go on the G-spot hunting mission. Why? Just like your penis becomes erect, so does your prostate, and thus, your G-spot is easier to locate. During arousal the<b> prostate </font></b>fills with semen fluid. The closer you get to orgasm the firmer the<b> prostate </font></b>becomes and the easier it is to find and stroke. You can also try different positions. For example, some guys have better luck laying on their left side and putting their right hand behind their back while bending the knee of the top leg. Add The G-Spot To Oral Sex One of the most powerful ways to ignite your passion is to receive a blow job while your lover fingers your G-spot. I have such intense orgasms that way. Once you feel comfortable with where your G-spot is located and what feels best to you, guide your lover to explore with you. Once you've had a blow job like this, you won't want it done any other way. A few precautions to prevent injury and a word about hygene. There's no reason for anal sex to cause pain. Go slow and avoid injury by taking a few simple precautions by using a high-quality lubricant designed for anal play, trimming fingernails to avoid scratching, or wearing "non-latex" gloves (to avoid allergic reactions). Warm, soaking baths work wonders for cleansing and relaxation. Even better, sharing a long bubble bath with your lover makes wonderfully relaxing foreplay. Before ass play, always ensure you're squeaky clean with plenty of soap and water followed by an enema which works best. Internal & external cleansing is also very good for your health by the way. For internal cleansing, I prefer the Fleet enema twin packs - they're inexpensive, disposable, easy to find (also available online), and they come with a pre-lubricated applicator tip. Follow the instructions and 5-minute waiting time. A happy "ending" I encourage you to explore & find new things you enjoy doing; then share those things with a lover (and feel free to add them to this blog). Everyone has a G-spot that longs to be explored and aroused; it's our nature. Each of us have our own unique sexuality, arousal patterns and erogenous zones; like snowflakes, no two are exactly alike. Since you've cum this far, maybe you'll cum a little farther? Slip it in, I won't mind. mmmmmm either will the G spot. >>! The End (pun intended). {=} ...\8 ...\8 ...\8 ...\8 ...\8 ...\8 |
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4/14/2017 4:41 am |
Gets me all hot and bothered just reading about what I've come to discover is a wonderful place to explore. Mmmmmmmm......\8
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I have not had experience with anal toys, but have had he-spot stimulation by a few male friends and quite a few women friends. I love the feel of having my ass "finger fucked". Certainly a great way to orgasm sooner and generally with more force. At least for me. It is interesting about enemas. I have read a few articles that basically say you only really need to clean between the outer and inner sphincter. It was recommended to use warm watter and something like a 60ml irrigation syringe. Anyone interested in conducting a study?
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Of course we all know the back door is naturally designed to be an exit for things our body needs to get rid of, so there's lots that can go wrong for both ladies and gentlemen if special care isn't taken for personal care before anal exploration occurs during sex. For the ladies, if bacteria transfers to the vagina, an infection can result. Anal and vaginal alternating penetration therefore isn't recommended - but if it happens in the heat of the moment, it's all the more reason to ensure cleanliness. It's a little more difficult for guys to get a urinary tract infection, but it happens nonetheless. Again, having everything cleaned out as much as possible helps. The anus is also very tender and the surrounding tissue can rupture easily. For these and other reasons, anal sex takes advance preparation. Just a minimal cleansing to the sphincter opening isn't sufficient in my opinion. The best advice I've read to prepare for anal sex makes total sense, here goes: The best time for anal play is after a bowel movement. I would argue it's the only time. A thorough saline enema cleansing is necessary beforehand. Rinse & repeat the process until the water comes out clear. It may take several iterations before that happens. From personal experience, some water remains deeper inside which is a problem if it exits during intimacy - so it's best to wait about 30 - 40 min. until the left-over solution exits your body. While you wait, take a warm, soothing bubble bath (best) or if that's not available, a warm, soapy shower. Take care to relax and wash the anal opening with whatever cleansing soap you use. A soapy finger inserted a little to ensure everything's squeaky clean plus it feels good. Finally, have a top-of-the line long-lasting lubricant available. The one in this photo is my personal fav.
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