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What I really really wanna... see in a first message and a profile?  

feelmeup1961 66F  
255 posts
4/10/2017 3:13 am
What I really really wanna... see in a first message and a profile?


Blokes often ask what women are looking for in their messages and profile.

So, here is some - entirely well-meant - advice...

First thing to say is that messages with just "hi" or "how are you" don't make any impression at all - especially if there are no photos. Simple truth is that every woman on here gets messaged 10+++ times a day. If you can't be arsed to tell a women something interesting (or even say anything at all), why would they bother writing back? True, it's hard to get a reply, so cut and paste is ok... but personalise it a bit too.

It's important to look like you've bothered to read the person's profile.

Second, make your first message friendly. Women aren't like blokes... Telling women that you'd like to fuck them in the ass is fine so long as you are getting off on it - because that's as far as it will ever go!

Third, any photos are better than no photos. If you want to include a dick-pic (much better if it's not your main pic) don't make it a limp dick shot! Hard dicks can look good if the pic is taken well. If it's a face pic, look UP at the camera not down. A gentle smile is nice... A grim face may suit models, but on here it just makes you look like a sex offender. Take a few until you get a good one. Remember, you'll usually only get one shot when you write to women on here.

Fourth, read your message before you hit send! Auto-correct can make an arse of you. I couldn't care less whether you can spell so long as I can understand what you're saying.

Finally, fill in the fekkin profile page completely! If you can't even be arsed to tick a few drop-boxes, what's the likelihood that you wash regularly?

If women click on your profile, make sure there's something to read... Inviting them to "if you want to know anything, just ask" is fine - but they won't bother unless you look like Brad Pitt. If you can't be bothered they won't either.

Happy hunting everybody!

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
4/10/2017 11:55 am

Good advice.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


davidleics2007 68M  
21 posts
10/16/2017 11:35 am

Very good thanks


whisperingtom 72M
27 posts
2/8/2018 2:32 am

Love to catch you


Gryghst1051 72M

8/12/2018 7:38 am

I love that you did that guy that hadn't had it in years and you were the third. Wow, my kind of woman with compassion for another human too.I think thats terrific.


castillo2580 32M  
4 posts
11/20/2018 2:50 am

very good blog


north_london_man 62M
7 posts
2/27/2020 6:28 am

" If you can't even be arsed to tick a few drop-boxes, what's the likelihood that you wash regularly?" .... hysterical


Jonoblueeyes 36M
1 post
11/27/2020 9:04 am

Taken what you have said on board tiger I’m still a new member on here and I’ve found this site a bit hard to get to grips with so far but I’m slowly getting to understand it. This site is a lot more advanced than most I have used in the past. Any ways sexy I shall hopefully have the whole of my profile completed by tomorrow night if you like the look of me.


Paul141901 71M
52 posts
2/2/2021 2:49 am

Thank you for all your interesting posts and of course awesome photos,keep them cuming delightful lady..😁😊😘


Paul141901 71M
52 posts
2/12/2021 11:53 pm

Loving how friendly sexy and of course how desirable you are.😁😘😊


Marshy1960 64M
16 posts
5/18/2021 7:54 am

What a fantastic blog. Great advice to everyone, and hope to continue our chat soon, especially as times appear to be improving with regards to travel, mixing, meeting. Love your great profile. See you soon!!!! xx


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