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JeffOdyssey - JeffOrgasmos - Part II, Insane Marine!  

Banana_Canyon 46F
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11/7/2018 11:17 am
JeffOdyssey - JeffOrgasmos - Part II, Insane Marine!
As you might all have seen from a prior blog, I have been dealing with this loser over a period of time and across two separate screen names he goes by. Currently, I'm dealing with the JeffOdyssey name. For those unfamiliar with the history discussed between us both in the past, please refer to my other blog and see how it all began. This new blog picks up on where that other one left off as this plot thickened.

So, as I have said in the other blog, this member made false accusations against me, claims things that are not true and that he cannot back up with proof, he was beyond rude and has an extremely short temper. For that he was exposed on my first blog here, along with doing so on his profile. I pretty much thought that was the end of it. He was a dick, he got exposed, we both moved on...or so I thought. That was a month ago.

Suddenly out of the blue, he writes me again the other day and continues on his idiotic and irrelevant ranting over nonsense that I'm some psycho, yada yada yada. ..read it all below in the pics, this is where he reignites conversation after a month. Bottom line here is this: How does someone deny and ignore solid proof when it's supplied to them in the form of a screen shot, yet table turn the event, as if I'm the crazy one here. Again, read the past blogs and the attached screen shots. The proof does not lie and the accusations here keep getting grander and grander, escalating things to the limit and making me out to be a terrible monster! Fact of the matter is that his idiotic military mentality and humongous ego is smashed by the fact that someone is smarter than he is, that person is a female and he has lost the power of his control factor, knowing that his foul behavior is now out here for all to see.Suddenly, the translation to that is by childish retaliation...now I'm a stalker, a racist, a psychopath, someone who calls cops on for selling lemonade, etc... Too funny! On top of it all, he claims I'm violating the TOS here and that he reported me. Oh, big whoop. As if a woman such as myself gives a damn? Let's not forget, this site is 100% a business. Being that I'm here almost every day and that I'm an active member on this site makes me an anchor to their success. He feels that his reporting me is going to impact this site's main ingredient as a profit making tool ( myself...or any active women in general on this site ). Looking at the situation, who is coming out on top? Is it the ignorant guy with the short fuse, horrible personality and attitude who is being exposed publicly for his ill behavior or is it the woman who minds her own business, receives an IM, opens it, is kind and respectful, gets talked down to and then exposes him....and who is an anchor to the site itself as a profit tool? Too funny! It's laughable! Worst that can happen, I'm booted off. Again, is it honestly any big loss for any woman? Look at what we deal with here. Comical!

Now, I've come across some real losers in my time here, but this one is really taking the cake. I'm really speechless as to what more to say here. The attachments tell the story. Read it carefully, people. Tell me who is making sense, who is the psycho, who is the rude one. The conversation doesn't lie.

I'm told: "Think of what you're "trying to prove." You were a complete bitch to me, and then I was an asshole back. That's what your crusade is about.". Ok, let's think about this a second logically. The blog was posted a month ago. I moved on and forgot about him...a month passes and he reaches out to reignite the drama, but this is a crusade I'm starting?? Also, review the initial screen shots and tell me if, in any way, I was a bitch to him at all FIRST, BEFORE he was an asshole to me. It goes as follows ( I'll narrate as I go through this ):

JeffOdyssey: "How are you today"?

Banana_Canyon: "Hi, hun. Doing fine here. How about you"? ( Anyone seeing me being rude here? )

JeffOdyssey: "A black square with a white dot in it. How am I supposed to interpret that"? ( Does anyone here see that claim of a square seen in the pic being sent from me to him? ).

* ( At this point I assume that there was a brief lag time OR that I was merely pre-occupied in chatting to another chatter(s), so a few moments pass by. )

JeffOdyssey: "Okay. This is ridiculous. It would be one thing if you didn't accept the friend request. That's usually an indication of actually paying attention". ( I didn't accept a friend request from him because first of all, I check that friend requested list like once every 6 months and nearly everyone on that list are random people who I have no idea who they are...and hundreds of them, at that. Secondly, judging from me having issues with this member in the past [that I thought we cleared up], would I honestly have a need to add this person as a friend? Has nothing to do with paying attention, but rather that I could care less about my friend's list and for who this member is ).

JeffOdyssey: "You've completely ignored me every time I've tried to talk to you. So... go fuck yourself. Fuck off". ( First: To anyone who knows me well or who follows my blogs, you'll all know that ignorance is my pet peeve. I ignore nobody at all on here, so that comment is completely false. If he's written to me and I didn't answer, then other factors must have existed { I was busy, his IM didn't go through to me, I stepped away for a few moments, my internet was down, etc... }. Could have been a multitude of factors...I don't ignore people. Period. Secondly: Even if that truly was the case ( and it's not ), does any woman need to be talked down to with "fuck you / fuck off" language, simply because she willingly wishes not to talk to someone or isn't interested in him for some reason? NO! )

* ( I resume the chat for whatever the brief delay might have been { potty break, lag time, internet blip, busy IM'ing other people, etc... } ).

Banana_Canyon: "I'm here, hun". ( Then I realize what has been said above during my brief time away... ).

Banana_Canyon: "Omg, what????? Why this attitude and rudeness"?

Banana_Canyon: "I had trouble with your shitty attitude the very first time you wrote weeks ago. I let it slide and I thought we patched things up. Apparently you have big mental issues that trigger this level of anger and rudeness. What is exactly the issue here for the f-bomb being thrown at me"?

* ( From there he simply ignores infinitely { of course, as all ignorant and rude idiots do } ).

He later writes: "I still love how you think I escalated all this". Let me ask the crowd here...who started and escalated this all?

So, that's what kicked this entire ordeal off. Ladies and gentlemen...was I at all rude in the above IM that you read? Am I to blame for someone being a complete asshole to me like that?

...And of course, this all comes to a close as he shoots of another rambling series of incoherent and irrelevant paragraphs and accusing me of all sorts of things as he builds up his macho man ego. AT the bottom of one of the ending paragraphs he describes to me that if I'm reading this far into his rant, then I'm the stupid one for doing so.....yet he took his time to compose all of that just for me to read. Makes sense ( add plenty of sarcasm! ).

As you can all imagine, the finale to this is that he ends up shooting me off paragraphs of irrelevant ranting that makes no logical sense and is void from anything relevant that pertains to facts and proof of what the story entails. So then he simply sends off all these paragraphs and like a coward, blocks me so I'm unable to respond....which is why he ends up here for you all to see his erratic and unacceptable behavior. His ego and control was smashed by a girl who exposed him. That's entirely what this is all about. His idiotic military set mind lost that battle. He goes on: "You didn't even fight in a war, like I did". Ok, and...??? Only an idiot WOULD join the military and fight a war. Duh! Intelligent people don't do that because we actually aren't sheeple and we realize who are Masters are and why you're put on the battle grounds for. Hint: It's not to protect us. Anyway, his military mind cannot handle<b> rejection </font></b>or loss of control and ego. This is exactly why I never sought people in these fields when I was active and my profile outlines that. They all have deep mental issues by the way they're trained to fight, kill, take no for an answer, be bullies, have all power/control, etc... . Translation...losers!

Congratulations, JeffOdyssey. Your sorry ass now made it's second appearance on my blog for all to see and to know who to stay away from.
There you have it, folks. This is again what you get for being a respectful and genuinely nice person here. As always, the reason very few women exist here or even talk to men at all is a direct reflection of this sort of every day behavior we deal with as women. Give us a reason to be here and a reason to talk to you men and we will. Simple. Be assholes to us and expect no mystery as to why you find yourself exposed on these blogs and why nobody exists/talks/meets with almost any of you losers.

JeffOdyssey

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
11/7/2018 11:31 am

 My question: Unless you enjoy chatting with this idiot, why not just block/ban him ? I get women on here all the time asking if I want to chat with them off site, always on a pay to chat cam site place, I just block them, and they are gone ! They are prob not women, maybe not even people, just bots! I can recognise any name I ask to contact me, and I always check their location if I dont recognise the name. My block/ban list is long, but it does reduce some spammer/idiots at least !


Banana_Canyon replies on 11/7/2018 12:24 pm:
"My question: Unless you enjoy chatting with this idiot, why not just block/ban him ?"

You obviously are overlooking the entire reason that I do these blogs. The idea is to NOT ignore people. Everyone blocking each other on this site solves nothing in the social structure. What it does is fuel and accelerate the already explosive level of ignorance in society that already exists and blocking each other encourages more ignorance. We're at the point on this site where nobody can even chat to one another. One word or question that's given to someone here and it's reaching straight for that ignore/block feature. How is this helping society? It isn't! Big part of why I blog is to encourage that people communicate with each other in an adult and civil manner. If there are issues, sort them out together, don't just ignore or block someone because they say one wrong word or have pushed the envelope a page too far. That's not what this site is about. It's a personals site and a social media outlet. That being said, it's designed for human to human interaction. Blocking / ignoring each other solves nothing on a human level. It only encourages more ignorance which ultimately hurts everyone here who is genuine, nice and who is seeking what they came here to find. Being adult is about sorting out issues and communicating.

"I get women on here all the time asking if I want to chat with them off site, always on a pay to chat cam site place, I just block them, and they are gone ! They are prob not women, maybe not even people, just bots!"

What you and I are talking about is apples and oranges here. First and foremost, let it be made clear that generally speaking, women are "responders" here. We almost never initiate conversations with men at all. So if you're getting lots of women writing to you to chat with and for an off-site and pay to chat deal, you have to realize that you're being baited into some sort of gimmick by bots or paid chatters as a profit scheme and these so-called "women" aren't legitimately writing to you to get to know you as a person and for who you are for any reason. They want your wallet. Period. I feel the block feature is indeed a good tool for bots/scammers like that. This is not at all the same as what I'm talking about in my story here. I'm talking about the real men here who write to me and who then retort in some way or another against me after I've been kind to them and have done nothing wrong to initiate the behavior.

"My block/ban list is long, but it does reduce some spammer/idiots at least !"

Well, unless they are spammers or people who have really taken you to hell and back again, I feel as if you contribute to the problem of ignorance through the block feature. You're not helping society in that sense if you're encouraging the acceleration of people to go around continually blocking one another. I beg to ask: For those on your block list who don't seem to be bots/spammers/catfish...why would an entire list of regular people be blocked by you? I'd love to know the reasons. I feel the block feature is abused by most people here. Lot of it is a reflection of the ignorant and lazy society we reside in. Much more simplistic to block than it is to communicate to someone like an adult, sort a matter out or to form a respectful closure with. And so we have it...a complete society who blocks each other and a shell of a site filled with individual people in individual bubbles whom nobody can talk to one another. Kind of ironic to me. This place is supposed to be just the opposite. It's supposed to be a site where everyone mingles, communicates openly, and is a network of friends. That's what a personals site / social media outlet is designed for, but the reality is contrary.

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