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I know many friends that just want a snuggle, cuddle.
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 Same here Slave rick
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Yeah I can relate to that. Looking forward to being able to hug my lady friend again in a few weeks.
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Snuggling is the best. And yes it leads to a deeper more restful sleep. MDonson Kiik Myonguy
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I'm the wrong person to ask; I'm a very restless sleeper and wake up three or four times in the night and I've gotten used to a bed where I can spread out. Hmmm... So you can sleep while someone snores? lol 😂 Good for you! ❗❗😎 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Years ago I had a female friend whom was having issues in life and one day came over and we were talking before going to watch a movie on television. She talked about her issues and cried and when she was done we started the movie and into it, she fell asleep on me and had her head in my lap. I later fell asleep and was laying on my side when I woke up and her head was on my tummy. and an arm around me. When we woke up neither of us thought anything sexual by it and were just like HEY GOOD MORNING ... lol A few days or weeks went by and she was still having isues to deal with and came over and we were talking and she said something to the effect of When I was here last time and we fell asleep on each other, I slept really well and I know there is nothing sexual between us so would you be ok with me just sleeping with you as a friend .... like going camping ? At first I was a bit put off by it but said ok. Well, as it turned out that first night, I did not sleep all that well having someone new there next to me but did not let on to that fact to her as I was trying to comfort a friend. A week or so later, she came over again and again we tried that on another Friday night and this happened a every week or so and I got use to it and slept really well aslso. At first we just kept our distance a bit but that changed to us being able to spoon with each other or her head on my chest as she wanted to hear my heart beat. It never was sexual in any way at any point and she came over maybe 20 times that year and then said she was feeling safer and better and we just kind of stopped doing that. Though after having her do that so many times, it was something I noticed I missed in a way. Later in life I had another female friend talk about a group of people that just cuddle. Nothing sexual and with boundries but they got toether on the weekends and whom ever needed to share that would. She wondered if I would be interested in just cuddling with her sometime and I said sure. Months or so went by and one day she called me and said she had a shit day and wanted to know if I would still honor what I said and so we connected on a weekend and she came over and we cuddled for a few hours while talking and then she went home. It was a recharge of energy for us both I think. I shared that with her maybe 5 times and that just stopped .. not sure why but I guess she got what she needed from it with me though I know she had met someone she wanted to date so that could be a good reason. Anyway ..... I have not looked for such a group in my area though can see how it can be a help to those that need human touch or a person to listen to them. Would I do it again with the right person ... YES ! With Covid and many of us out there not having any contact with others, I would think there is a need for a long hug, someone to snuggle up to or even fall asleep with ..... I know I would welcome all of the above.
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I sure have sometimes wanted to just share a bed with someone just for the comfort of it. I suspect most people have. (The gremlins seemed to be exta active.) If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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I can not deny, having someone with me makes things so much better
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Human touch is very impt in development and is why they have programs in hospitals for babies to be cuddled when no parent is available. With this pandemic the absence of that exacerbates every other thing that is lacking in our lives. There is a book Our Souls at Night...and it was adapted into a movie with Fonda/Redford.....both widows and lived in the same neighborhood knowing of each other but not really knowing each other. She approached him and just asked could she come over to just sleep, he was reluctant in the arrangement but it worked and they kept it going until she moved away to help her son with his child. Its a poignant book and speaks to just what you say. No sex needed....just touch , just cuddles does a soul good ~~
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Cuddling is nice. It’s not too much to ask for. Have a great day! 💋 Staci
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7/28/2021 6:59 am |
I love the cuddling, kissing and all the other stuff too.
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