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My ideal first date with a woman
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My ideal first date with a woman Hi, I am not totally inexperienced in having a date with a woman. Since my mid 20s, I have been on about 10 blind dates and 3 rounds of speed dating all of which were utterly and totally fruitless in terms of getting a normal heterosexual relationship with a woman. So far, my entire sexual experience has been just limited to self sex or masturbation which I have indulged in for the past 36 years since the spring of 1981 usually every other day. In a very pleasant hypothetical situation, since I haven't driven a car in almost 5 years on Long Island, I would probably take mass transit to arrive at the location of the<b> blind date. </font></b>We should have absolutely no problem in recognizing each other as we've both seen each others photographs on the internet. Of course, I know full well, when you see someone in person in 3 dimensions, the experience Is actually very different from just looking at a 2 dimensional photograph on a computer screen. Upon first meeting, we would then exchange pleasantries like talking about the weather or commenting on the appearance of the place we find ourselves in. My conception of having a first date is to maybe see a movie, a play or a musical performance or walk around sightseeing like on a beach or a museum. Then afterward, we could grab a bite to eat even at just a fast food restaurant which I do all the time. This ideal date would then conclude with just a very platonic superficial kiss. Any potential sexual relationship we might have would only occur after maybe several months of us seeing each other. The whole thing would be pure heaven to me. I went on my first<b> blind date </font></b>33 years ago in August 1984 and my last one was in January 1992. None of them obviously went very well as I am still single. I found that the main obstacle on going on a<b> blind date </font></b>was the initial first meeting. I have studied a lot of psychology and found that people will make their first initial impression and conception of what another person is like within the first 5 minutes or even less time upon a first meeting. I've read that most women will make the decision of whether or not they will have sexual relations with a potential male partner within a mere 3 minutes or so after first meeting them and exchanging initial pleasantries. On all the blind dates I've been on so far, they have all been in the evening and the activities we did together were limited to just going to a bar or a fast food restaurant and having a small amount of conversation to get to know one another. On one occasion in October 1989 we went to see a movie playing in the Commack multiplex in Commack, Long Island to see "Crimes and Misdemeanors" which I sort of enjoyed. I did have a<b> blind date </font></b>with a 29 year old woman named Carrie at a fast food restaurant in Bethpage, Long Island around noon on a sunny spring day on March 20, 1990. We didn't hit it off, for one thing she was a very physically large woman, 6 feet tall, bigger than me and I'm a rather large person at 6 ft. tall, 280 lbs., In addition to being on blind dates, since the autumn of 1981, I have been on numerous job interviews usually at electronic companies located in Nassau or western Suffolk county on Long Island, New York. On most of those occasions, the whole experience is an annoying ordeal as I have to wake up early in the morning, put on an uncomfortable suit and tie then figure out how to drive to the company building location from reading the directions on a street atlas and then drive over to make it in time and look for an available parking spot. Then upon arriving in the building and announcing my presence, some woman receptionist sitting at a desk gives me a job application to fill out which is often very lengthy and annoying to do so. Then after that, I will meet the job interviewer which is never, ever an attractive young woman but usually an obnoxious middle aged male interviewer usually dressed in an informal manner. In the course of the brief interview, we always never hit it off as being a very shy person, I obviously give this impression of being too socially awkward and clumsy to fulfill the requirements of the job description and that really pisses me off as I have gone to all the trouble to wake up early, drive over to that company location and I am wearing this very dignified appearing suit and almost everyone else I see in that building is usually dressed very informally in contrast. The job positions I have usually applied for are electronic technician and electronic assembler. I haven't been on a job interview since 2006.       |
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