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Another one bites the dust  

mayhem8Too 65M/60F  
2 posts
12/19/2021 9:23 am
Another one bites the dust

So, I just wound up shooting down yet another single guy. I'm not saying that because I take pleasure in it. I do realize how hard it can be for single guys in the lifestyle (LS), but 90%+ just keep making the same stupid mistakes.

For example, our profile indicates that the male half is<b> straight </font></b>and that he is the one online 100% of the time. In this last case, this guy asked if I was Bi.

Sometimes guys will list as<b> straight </font></b>when they do actually engage in Bi play. I'm not one of them, but I let that slide. Then he asked if he was chatting with the Mrs.

Bzzzt. Next contestant please. I don't get why these guys expect me to share my time chatting with them when they can't be bothered to take a few minutes to read our profile.

The way that comes across is that the guy has no interest in us other than a means to get his needs/desires met. Speaking for us, this approach will fail 100% of the time, and it is likely to fail with every other couple he engages,

Our profile indicates that we are really only looking for couples, but once in a while, I will chat with a single guy online and have even arranged to meet them at a party, but it is probably 1 out of 100 guys. That isn't because we're so picky as it is that 90%+ guys shoot themselves in the foot.

If you are reading this then you are not likely part of that 90%+, but then, you probably are already successful on your own and don't need us to tell you all this

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