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Relationship Roadmap 1  

Gunit0731 49M
3 posts
9/6/2017 3:16 am
Relationship Roadmap 1

Being in a relationship, It's not easy, birds chirping, sun shinning, and everyone is dancing and<b> singing. </font></b>It takes work to keep a happy and healthy relationship. But if you just pay attention to your other half, then you will pick up on clues. They might not even know that there giving out these.. "helpful pieces of information". If they are tired that's easy. its stay home get take out or home cooked meal if you can cook. Don't try something new and mess it up when she is hungry and tired. That will put an end to the night real fast. So set a nice table, sit down and conversate. No devices, just one on one time, giving each other your undivided attention. Ask about her day and how such events made her feel. Just listen don't be the hero, you ask is there anything you can do, if you really can do something to rectify the situation. There's always situations, and she just want confirmation from you that support her choice or decision. After dinner let her retreat to the living room while you take care of the dishes, left over's, just all the dinner mess. Join her in the living room and give her a shoulder and back massage. Give her control of the remote for the rest of the night. Yes you probably will watch reality TV, women yelling at each other. Women get worked up watching these shows, it's another clue. Talk to her about the show get her take and why she like and dislikes. who and what she gets her worked up about the series. Just stay focused and hear her, pay attention to her issues. A lot of times they hit close to home, she may be giving you information on what her dislikes are and you now can work with that later. Once again side with her about everything on these shows, just listen and agree. When you adjourned to the bed room, her being tired was a clue. No sex tonight, as you lay there keep communicating, talk about the tomorrow and your guys plans. You can hold her, spoon, cuddle, stroke her hair. Just no hanky panky stuff, if she not in the mood all you doings tonight are lost. You'll have plenty of time together for relations, one night of putting all of her feelings, issues, and emotions first..will go along way. Go to sleep and you will have embedded this night of selflessness into her memory even if its subconsciously. Putting her first and hearing her grievances and option's is huge to women.

Till next time..show and let her know your love!


Love is a living breathing thing, it has to be nurtured and feed to grow healthy and happy.


nice_guy2130 37M
14 posts
9/6/2017 5:15 am

nice blog!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
9/6/2017 5:59 am

Ummm, I wonder if you can be cloned.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/6/2017 7:36 pm

This is fine if you're one of those stay-at-home wife-husbands. Your behavior is exactly as her behavior to her husband should be.

She should allow at least 30 minutes of silence when you get home, or until such time you speak to her requiring a reply.

However, you mentioned only being in a "Relationship" , not specifically married.
So really you're technically single. You should not be living with her.
That would be stupid.

If she's tired upon her returning home, you go out and find your booty calls, or fwb's , or some other women.

You don't want to sign a contract of marriage with a woman who is going to be too tired to be your wife.


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