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Time for an Affair?  

hotscarrie 42F
23 posts
9/22/2017 10:24 am
Time for an Affair?


I am not in the habit of this, but personal events recently have lead me to look for some fun, discreet fun that is as i am married.
I am considering and affair. At this point i am just putting out the feelers here and shaghunter to see what is out there.

marriedcretin 54M
1324 posts
9/22/2017 6:44 pm

Ok...its not that simple. Suddenly you have two sets of responsibilities, one of which you have to fulfill while keeping it a secret. Where will you meet? Do you have anyone to cover for you and explain the absences or are you doing this alone?
You can't just pick some bloke off this site and go to a hotel. You need to be careful. Don't be seen.
Oh and if this is all sorted and you are having regular mind blowing sex. You can't tell anyone.

Good luck.


BULL_4_HOTWife 38M
915 posts
9/22/2017 10:25 pm

Wel CUM to Blog land

Life offers many pleasurable choices.....and giving it a try is always Welcome decision

Wishing you good luck in your Hunt

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Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
9/23/2017 3:39 am

Be really sure that you want an affair before you start one. The grass is not always greener and things can lurk in it.

You have to be extremely lucky to find the correct partner and may find yourself kissing a lot of frogs before you do.

I have been lucky on here and had the same partner in crime for 2 years.

Good luck and happy hunting

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neilcoates 48M
1460 posts
9/23/2017 3:57 am

good luck, with a body like yours you will have lots of offers, easy if you want NSA fun here


The_Committee 57G

9/23/2017 7:50 am

From your splendid picture it would appear you are putting more than the feelers out !

Regards

The_Committee


windsweptguy 61M
20 posts
9/23/2017 5:13 pm

If you keep your wits about you, keep first meets to coffee only and get a good idea of the possible partner's discretion, you should be fine.
Purely as an example, I have a family that I wish to stay together as a unit, but I am here seeking fun and interest, just like you.
I have been targeted by several scams, which I have avoided, a few interesting but brief dialogues, and no meetings - even for coffee!
I am optimistic, however, as you should be x


coolcanbeaver 67M

9/25/2017 2:52 pm

Welcome yo this site and blog,
I wish you good luck..you are very nice..may I suggest the 100 miles rule from your home...especially if you live in a small town where people all know each other..
Of course, sometimes the temptation is there..and hard to control..we need to explore something else..different..


OldDirtyMan2019 70M  
57 posts
10/2/2017 1:10 pm

Wise words from the other guys. I had an affair, while I was married, which ultimately led to the marriage break up. I'm single now and understand the need for discretion sour secret would be safe with me.
Bob
xxx


Bosscommando1 58M  
18 posts
11/5/2017 1:12 am

Carrie,
I have mailed you several times since you added me as a friend.
None of them have been opened.
Please read my mail and reply,
Thanks
David xx


Bosscommando1 58M  
18 posts
12/7/2017 8:00 am

I have mailed you a few times Carrie, but they are not opened!
Please chat on IM or reply, David xx


Happy0675 47M
1 post
3/28/2018 2:56 pm

I think you have to be certain of doing this. I ended up having an affair and while it was such an amazing experience the ending was tough and almost ended my marriage. Also if you have an affair and you do get caught, never try to make it work with your husband. I tried this and it didnt work, and we just grew apart.


Nada_Rien 47M
1 post
6/8/2018 11:57 am

you are right about the need to be discreet. For me, it is more pleasant to keep secret if I have an extramarital affair. Anyway so far in this website I was not so lucky to have a meeting. Good luck !


Teamsnafu5 67M
18 posts
9/18/2019 9:08 am

would be happy to have a discrete affair with you


jimmy6969x 54M
12 posts
9/29/2019 4:39 pm

id like to shag you,get in touch


jimmy6969x 54M
12 posts
9/29/2019 4:40 pm

ps ive tried to message you on im but it rarely works


Luckeylover8 66M
118 posts
10/9/2019 5:15 pm

Well sounds like your sex life needs spicing up. Myself i,m into threesomes(but not always) so have you ever spoken to him about doing something like that/ Or even get him involved in some sexy kinky camming or watching porn ..or swinging.? but if not I,m a standard member only and if you can get in touch who knows? Good luck in your search honey. x


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
10/18/2019 5:41 am

Hi Carrie, wish you luck in your search, love to chat with you sometime.

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Married50M 54M

4/3/2020 2:42 pm

{=} Take your time Carrie and when you're ready for the next step, the affair, let me know so that we can take that step together, as I'm in the same position.

Looking forward to hearing from you soon - meet up over a drink see if we click and go from there - walk away, think it over carefully and let each other know on this site if we want to take it further, nothing to lose


SilverFoxMark66 69M
286 posts
10/25/2021 10:15 am

Hi Carrie, I agree with all of the above plus consider do you your own money to stay discreet, an alibi eg night out with the girls, a "friend" or relative "in need" (both pref female too) & where will you fell safe/ discreet, eg near home or farther away eg London? Finally attempt to talk to "him" about spicing thinsg up, changing things around? Good luck &/or reply to any of us here if you decide to go ahead, big warm horny hugs Mark


SilverFoxMark66 69M
286 posts
10/25/2021 10:16 am

P.S. what are the "personal events " you describe?


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