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SEX- A female's perception Sex is often called "making love". Is it really making love? I am a widow and I had experienced sex as well as I have heard many detailed stories regarding the experience of my lady friends.Every one love sex,girls love sex much-much more than men.It is said that a girl is difficult to arouse sexually and many times difficult to satisfy.Do men think about the lady partner,during or after the sex? No ,..I think,men are very selfish when sexual satisfaction is concerned. I have seen in porn films,heard from my female friends and experienced myself as well that men do what they want during sex.You want your cock to be sucked,kissed,loved...but very few guys go for licking the pussy.You want to take the female to take position when you are ready to fuck,but you never ask whether the girl is ready or not.You want us to come us on top of you,then you come on top of us.You want doggy style ,slap our hips hard.Sometimes you want anal penetration too.Finally, you ejaculate,dismount and most likely go to sleep.Did your partner also attained climax?Was she also satisfied? Who cares... React to this guys and girls and I will further write about many more things but, with the perception of a female. Guys, I am not writing it to malign your clan ...If you ponder over, almost everyone of you will find me as telling the truth, which is no secret but very few women say it publicly... By the way, I am Charu Mathur,30,married for five years and widowed just six months ago.Hello... |
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11/10/2017 10:29 am |
If you want a male's perception of sex ... well I got over a hundred of them...... Me? well I am on this site because it is the one place I can post my erotic stories without getting banned or put in Facebook jail. I enjoy sharing with others and it' all for entertainment. Welcome to blog land~! You needed one comment to move your blog from the "new blog" list to the regular list that everyone reads. Looks like you got that covered... Now if you have a moment, swing by my blog and say hello in the comments. WARNING content is rated X and will involve reading 4 letter words and references to sexual situations~! So don't come by if this doesn't interest you. And if it DOES......................... Leave a message so I will see you there. Jimmy B My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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yes, much of the sex I have experienced is like that. You know you have found a keeper when it ISN'T just wham bam, "let me do what I want to do when I want to do it", kind of sex!
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11/10/2017 10:45 am |
I don't think you can speak as "the Female Perspective" I am female and the man I am married to always thinks of my sexual needs before his! He is wonderful and more than attentive before, during and after sex. If your man is not doing it right, don't wait and complain in your blog, tell him what you want or need, because he can't fix it if he doesn't know its broke!! Mandy
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What you are describing is the kind of sex I find to be so boring. I have found that if my partner cums 2 or 3 times she is much more relaxed and playful. Much more open to exploring and enjoying. When the people involved are tired, floating in a blissful haze, then it was good.
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I love cats, I love every kinda cat I just wanna hug all them but I can't hug every cat
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I think it depends on the situation. Yes I have occasionally had selfish sex with little or no consideration for my partner. However normally I am a very considerate lover ensuring my partner comes at least twice before I consider penetration.
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Sex is often called "making love". Is it really making love? .... No. It's an attempt at "Making loyalty". The thinking that can occur behind having sex, and also explains why some men and women think they are in a relationship because they have sex is; if I give sex , he/she will be loyal to me. Because there are children, certain adult meanings have to be "Child-safe". "Making love"....That's what you say to your child, when they open the door on mommy and daddy fucking. Another term is , "Dating".... there's the child version, and there's the adult version. Only Websters doesn't include the adult version of the meaning because of protecting the children's innocents. Adult version , "Dating" a joining of two or more for sex. Every one love sex,girls love sex much-much more than men.... Really it's about equal [although at different ages], just that women choose to be more reserved about with whom they do it with. Men? Not so much. It is said that a girl is difficult to arouse sexually and many times difficult to satisfy. .... That's true. Some females can't even do it to themselves. Do men think about the lady partner,during or after the sex? .... You mean think about the woman he's doing it with? Yes, most of the time, but some of the time, and women too, think of other people. He may be thinking [fantasizing] about a woman he saw earlier in the day, and does not know. Although women tend to fantasize about men she knows, or has known. No ,..I think,men are very selfish when sexual satisfaction is concerned. ... Well, no, we are just easier to satisfy. I have seen in porn films, ....Don't put a lot of knowledge-stock in what you get from porn. Most all porn is strictly fantasy-based driven. On the set of one of these productions , real things happen, things that wouldn't be put in the finished video, but likely could be seen if they make a "Blooper reel". For instance, premature ejaculation, women actually coming and losing control of herself, women just realizing she's having her period, or men not being ready yet [can't get hard], farting, .....basically what you see in porn is pretend. ...The moaning you think they are doing? Many times that's dubbed in later. To make it look like the woman came, sometimes they use some lube mixed with milk to simulate her cum. You want your cock to be sucked,kissed,loved...but very few guys go for licking the pussy. .... To each their own. You want to take the female to take position when you are ready to fuck,but you never ask whether the girl is ready or not. .... So speak up, say, "I'm not ready yet". Finally, you ejaculate,dismount and most likely go to sleep. .... Sure, that's normal, especially if you are having sex with him later in the day. But go ahead and google , "Why do men fall asleep after sex". Did your partner also attained climax? ... You mean, did your woman have an orgasm? .... Women don't always climax. Again, porn is pretend. Was she also satisfied? Who cares....... A woman isn't always going to be satisfied sexually unless she uses her own toys before or after. Men and women are anatomically different. Men are toasters , women are the cooking egg.... unless the egg gets a head start in being cooked, the toast is going to pop up in a matter of minutes long before the eggs are ready to eat.
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Hey Charu I really enjoyed reading what you wrote on the blog. I do agree with you that men can be selfish when it comes to having sex. But you need at both sides of the coin. I would like to share my thoughts on what you wrote about. I have always love to go down on my woman and give her the best oral pleasures & orgasms for me it's like a ritual without going down on my woman my act of love making or having sex is incomplete. It's true for a woman to get aroused she needs her time as her body is very different from a man. Men gets aroused easily than women. What you see in porn in very different than the natural sex as porn is edited stuff and shot over a period of time. I think we should talk about this in length do write me or you can add me on chat on k!k at the same name.
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I, Charu Mathur, is grateful to all of you for the wonderful comments.I want to clarify that yes, it is not exactly "A female's perception". I am not blaming all the guys or trying to convince that this is experienced by every woman...but, i beg to stand by of the things I have written in this blog.A few gentlemen have highlighted that they are taking utmost care of their female partner and fulfilling their needs .Its great...but, this blog was a generalised view of mine based on my experience and the incidents told to me by my friends as well.Of course, films,porn or normal do not always reflect the actual image but,it can not be denied that ,now a days, most of the couple imitate or try to imitate,what they watch.It is also possible that I have taken into consideration the things prevailing in Indian perspective. I extend my apologies to those, who have disliked or disagreed with the title and/or the contents of my blog. Well, I am not a writer and actual reason of writing this blog was just to kill the boredom and to ease the loneliness,which I am,as a recently widowed female, is going through. If permitted, i would love to write some more experiences of mine and others. Awaiting response. Thanks to everyone.
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I agree some men think about themselves sexually and it's annoying. Sometimes I just don't bother like fuk it even when they call coz u know all u will get in no satisfaction . It's Hott when u cum together just my opinion .
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I, Charu Mathur, is grateful to all of you for the wonderful comments.I want to clarify that yes, it is not exactly "A female's perception". I am not blaming all the guys or trying to convince that this is experienced by every woman...but, i beg to stand by of the things I have written in this blog.A few gentlemen have highlighted that they are taking utmost care of their female partner and fulfilling their needs .Its great...but, this blog was a generalised view of mine based on my experience and the incidents told to me by my friends as well.Of course, films,porn or normal do not always reflect the actual image but,it can not be denied that ,now a days, most of the couple imitate or try to imitate,what they watch.It is also possible that I have taken into consideration the things prevailing in Indian perspective. I extend my apologies to those, who have disliked or disagreed with the title and/or the contents of my blog. Well, I am not a writer and actual reason of writing this blog was just to kill the boredom and to ease the loneliness,which I am,as a recently widowed female, is going through. If permitted, i would love to write some more experiences of mine and others. Awaiting response. Thanks to everyone.  The Blog matter was a generalised view expressed by you over here! It was not meant for all 100% sexually active peoples over here!  And yeah no need to extend your Apologies to those who disagreed with your views. Its an open platform where one is free to express his views and his / her thinking's ! I would like you to continue writing  Keep Blogging 
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Thanks for the encouragement...I really need it...
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sex works both ways. if any one partner looses interest in another then the problem arises. I am here at FriendFinder-x since i have lost interest in one particular partner though i have lots of sex drive left. be the river keep flowing. all the best and all the luck to charu mathur
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you have written a very true thing and thats a fact, even i have came to know that maximum guys among whom i have interacted didnt liked licking pussy!!! i agree a women must be satisfied properly.
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this is basically an art and not all are artists its a reality and along with that there are many factors whcih contibute to a great love making scenario.
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9/11/2021 2:19 am |
reading this blog after more than 4 years now, but I dont think this is true. Communication between partners can make everything amazing. Sex is boring just as you said, rather try making love. I always make my partner cum first, sometime multiple times through hands, tongue, massages and only then I go for actual penetration
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