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How to handle me
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How to handle me Well, I've learned a bit from other people's profiles, and the ones I appreciate most, even when they appear to exclude me, are those that state explicitly what that person(s) do and don't want in partners and outline the process by which a meet/invite can be had. Often there is an explicit request for civil respect, courtesy, and decency. I like it, love it, and respect it. One thing I have noticed about myself is that when I make the decision to engage sexually, there is little or no internal drama, and I haven't been overwhelmed by lust. The actual touching has created those feelings for me. I didn't have tortuous waves of guilt. I knew what I wanted to avoid: STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and abusive relations. I have no problem engaging in safe sex and accept the responsibility for good hygiene and sexual health under a doctor's care (the same doc who would prescribe Viagra or Cialis for me). I would also try to learn best practices from the people I played with. A simple rule is to make sure the ground rules are known and shared: Your house, your rules. So, when you contact me, say what you mean. Don't linger on niceties, but politely pave a straight road to what you want to say. I will not make inferences to fill in what you could have written. My schedule can be made quite flexible in order to make a first and subsequent meets. I'll inconvenience myself as much as I want. Although my wife knows I am exploring, I cannot host for a number of family reasons. Inanimate family reasons and a who lives at home. So, if you can't host, we can work around hotel/motel rooms. I am willing to<b> bear </font></b>that cost on occasion. Treat for dinner, too. If you're the outdoor type, we can go camping...in a tent...and I can cook. Distance. Ideally, the closer the better, and it can enhance my flexibility and be more easily inserted into a pattern of normalcy, which I would love to establish. That does not mean that I wouldn't travel either for an initial meet or for an event. My schedule can be made flexible...and I like to travel. Even then, I think my range has to be measured in hundreds instead of thousands of miles. Sexual orientation. Yes, I'm bisexual. No, gents, you are not in automatic danger if you stand near me or look me in the eye. I spent most of my life not touching other men intimately, and being bisexual, I can happily focus my attention on your wife or partner or whatever woman we are both interested in. Your house, your rules. However, if your profile says bi or bi-curious, I might be testing, verbally first. If I like your profile, I might just write you a message to compliment you. I'm beginning to write messages that express my interest. |
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