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Chatroom Manners and Ediquit
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Chatroom Manners and Ediquit Since 1998 or '99 until now, I have frequented many chatrooms on different sites. Some were age oriented, some were subject or topically oriented and yes, some were even sexually oriented,( ie: sexual preferences, orientation and gender related). I've chatted with people from across the globe. Different cultures and all walks of life. I was lucky enough to have actually met some of the people I chatted with. Over the many years that I've been online, there has been one commonality that has linked all the chatrooms,, that is the lack of common courtesy and respect, especially towards the Women. For some reason, one that still eludes me, a lot of men, not all but a lot, think that women online are looking for sex and that they're just going to immediately jump on the first penis that comes in. Now that's not to say that there aren't, but the majority of women online are looking for more than just a romp in the hay. When you enter a chatroom, even on a site such as this, don't let your opening statement be, " Hey Lady's, wanna....." or "Hey, (insert name), wanna cam and see my,,,", just a couple of examples, I can assure you, you're not going to achieve the desired results you were hoping for. Chance are that you'll be put on "ignore" or told NO,, Seen it happen too many times. Instead, come in, exchange pleasantries such as "Hello Folks" or "Hi Y'all". Take time to look around the room at the people in there. Watch the conversation(s), join in when it's appropriate, and even IF the conversations do get sexual in nature, show some manners and while your at it, take the time to actually READ profiles, trust me, it'll save you a lot of wasted time and effort and it'll defiantly cut down on frustration. Instead of trying to impress a Lady with the size of you penis, try impressing them with the size of your mind. Intelligence and a sense of humor go a long with most of the women I know. While I'm on that subject matter, it might surprise you to know that a lot of women DON"T truly care about the size as long as you know what your doing sexually. Some women are actually scared of anything over 8 inches, after all, the vagina can only accommodate so much before it becomes painful. Now,, there ARE women out there who like men with 9,10 and even 12 inches but for most,6,7, and 8 inch are just as pleasurable if not more so. Back when I was single,(course I'm a widower now), I dated 19 different women in a 2 year period. Sure, it took anywhere from a month to 3 months of chatting before I asked them out but it was worth the time. I had sex, on the 1st date with all but 5 and some were even repeats. it was made clear, from the start, that I was only wanting company to share a meal with, to have coffee with or to just simply take a nice little stroll through the park, after that, IF and I stress IF, anything else happened, it was THEIR CHOICE. After all, it was their body and they have the right to decide who they wanted or didn't want to have sex with. I'm no expert on women, not sure that anyone is really, I just know what has worked for ME in the past. Respect, Dignity, and yes,, Honesty, not only with the person you're chatting with but also with yourself. Teat other as you would like to be treated and I can almost guarantee that you'll have more success. Remember, behind EVERY name,, there is a REAL person with wants, needs, desires, but above all,, REAL feelings,, just like you. |
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