Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service

Guys, NEVER do this ever!  

softsweets777 31F
197 posts
1/17/2018 5:55 am
Guys, NEVER do this ever!

I need to make something very clear to all the men on here:

NEVER BE LIKE RUSS!

I didn't want to call anyone out in the first week of me being back, but this outrageous! I am trying my best to interact with everyone on here that has messaged me, but this is by far the rudest and most inconsiderate message I got so far.

I set up a blog post and auto-response to be able to handle answering as many people's "how are you doing" questions. I can get over 30 plus messages in an hour by being on here, and that is way too much reading for me to handle in one sitting. I work and have a life outside of this, so please respect the fact that I do make an effort to give everyone a chance.

Russ on the other hand lost his chance by being beyond rude and rather<b> creepy. </font></b>No I have no intention of marrying you, and just because I like to show off my body does not mean you own it. You have to earn the chance to meet me first before you can just toss me in bed for your selfish use. And to cap this all off, just because I don't want to fuck, or heaven forbid I don't get to your messages right away, doesn't mean I'm fake. It means I'm human and can only do so much at one time. Sure I can multitask, but I can't answer multiple messages at once, or ready through... it's just sensory overload and it can give me a headache if I'm not careful.

I want to give a special shout out to all the men who have taken the time to actually read my profile and respect it. There are a lot more of you that I initially thought, so thank you for that. Again, I'm just looking to chat with people first and not make any moves until I feel comfortable. I don't need a traumatizing experience my second time here thank you.

Let's all just have fun together here for now and we'll see what happens next.

R E S P E C T!


Lucky71111 65M

1/17/2018 11:52 am

well I don't want to be like rus but I do love the profile pic very nice


perfectfitlgd 53M
1 post
1/17/2018 4:13 pm

Its just mind boggling some people can be so shitty... Sorry dear. What you ask for (deserve without HAVING to ask) is basic and simple. I would bet those same idiots would have a shit fit if someone did the same to them.

So you know when you run into those wastes of space you don't have to try to be nice to them... Just block and be done sweetie... You don't need to explain anything because that's an interaction they are hoping for.

RESPECT!


morefuntogive2u 59M
1 post
1/18/2018 9:53 am

Well I read blog and profile and would love to have a cup of coffee or a glass of wine some time to see if there is a mutual connection. Paul


boneuhard2012 46M  
3 posts
1/18/2018 2:58 pm

You look amazing and any man would be lucky to have you. It would be fun to get lost exploring your body for hours. Yes, it should be hours. I wouldn't want to leave one inch of your body unattended. Would be an honor to get the opportunity to show you what I mean. If we ever met, it would be all about you. I would want you to explode over and over again. Anyways, thank you for sharing your images, you look incredible.


troyman38 54M
1 post
1/19/2018 7:24 am

I just want to take you to lunch...


MoeFunLetsPlay00 42M
3 posts
1/20/2018 7:43 am

It seems there are so many GUYS like this on FriendFinder-x. I see numerous complaints and/or stories from woman who are bombarded with this. It's unfortunate. Pay no attention to them. Although ... I'm sure that's tough. It would piss me off!


oralfixated74 49M
9 posts
1/25/2018 10:05 am

He's a real keeper.


vrgrn2982 41M

1/25/2018 7:52 pm

Let's be honest a lot of men are skeez balls. If not you wouldn't need a women's march or a MeToo movement. It's been long overdue for society. When you give all people equal footing it's best for everyone. Guys on here and I do get to some extent why they believe that as it is an adult site, believe that the women on here are here for one thing. And you're here to just kinda cruise around, dip your toes and see if anything interests you. He clearly thought he was king shit and you should just bend to his will, but when you call them out on it, guys like him get all flustered. Can't handle a woman telling him no, where as I am completely used to it! Lol


HardAsABROCK101 31M

1/27/2018 11:16 pm

you're a couple miles away we should chat..


etipok18 51M
161 posts
2/8/2018 5:14 pm

oxygen-thieves like Russ will always be around. Anyway, I hope you don't get offended if I tell you that your profile pic is incredibly sexy


BriddiB 41F

9/8/2019 4:55 pm

Interesting blog and it appears Russ was really hot for you. So hot that the blog was in the way. Well hope you keep up with your blog. I’m new and just trying to get to know people and came across your pic and intriguing post. I was initially interested in learning more about what prompted you to leave , come back and start this blog in the first place. However there appears to be too much drama around and about you. Being new to this and having a busy life ..this may not be where I want to be. I don’t agree with the Russ person but understand his impatience with the situation....he’s interested in f..... and wants it to be you. I’m not interested in this blog...I want a friend not this.


Become a member to create a blog