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Cheating isn't the answer  

softsweets777 31F
196 posts
1/26/2018 10:15 pm
Cheating isn't the answer


Women and men, please never cheat on some you love.

I recently started chatting with some you told me easily of the saddest stories I've read through chat. She told me that her husband, although he loves her very much, hardly shows her any love at all. He spends most of his time ing video games in the basement, not treating his wife well, avoiding getting an education because he believes that he can land a job without a GED, and so much more. Their sex life is nearly nxistent because she doesn't want to have to give up her body to him, and add salt to the wound, they have a . Did I forget to mention that they live in his parents house? That's right. We are living in his parents house and he doesn't even have a job, and doesn't try to get a job because he s so many video games.

So she came on here to cheat on him because she's not sure what else will make him understand that he has to not be such a lazy bum. This is easily of the saddest things any has ever told me on here.

I recommended that she do anything besides<b> cheating </font></b>on her husband, but the more we chatted it truly sounds like he's devoid of the idea of putting any effort they're giving her the proper attention she deserves. Not only that, but any other reasonable means of trying to get his attention all be pointless. This truly breaks my heart like no other.

If you are on this website only to make your significant other hurt, please do both of yourselves a favor and just break up or get the most professional you can from either therapist or counselor. No family should ever be ripped apart because the ignorance and selfishness unless there is truly no other answer.

If you ever run into some like this, please do everything in your power to stop them from making a horrible mistake. I don't know who this woman truly is, but I know that innocence I already love and care for her, and want to make sure that she doesn't make a mistake that will hurt her family.

lyavu 50F
1538 posts
1/28/2018 9:12 am

You nailed it. I wish the married pple could read this . A lame excuse to sleep around


Imakehermelt 33M

1/28/2018 3:08 pm

I completely agree! I know someone who is married who has been sleeping around, but has a loving husband and kids to look after. Husband doesn't know anything yet she apparently had a mental break down before we had a chance to meet. I feel like too many people stress themselves out too much by trying to fill the voids in their marriage as appose to just talking it out with each other.


classycocolady 51F
17 posts
2/4/2018 10:52 am

I agree. I refuse to get caught up in someone who is married or even separated. That is a complicated situation and usually involves some form of drama.
I once dated a man who told me he was divorced. I didn't find out the truth for months. He had his own place and everything, turns out he was separated and going through a divorce. He was still having sex with his wife leading her to believe they were getting back together, he was wrong for deceiving me and her. It led me to be very careful about the men I become involved with. There is no fun when the other party discovers they've been played. I know there are a lot of married men on here who like preying on and trying to trick women into entertaining them sexually in their homes or in cheap hotels.


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