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I need to vent a bit...
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I need to vent a bit... So there are a couple things that I've learned while being back, and in no particular order, I'll list them off: • Too many men/boys (age is no factors, only maturity) send dick picks and crummy messages that are by no means appealing. For goodness sakes, get a little class and approach women with some tact. • Women have some pretty terrible double standards. No offense ladies, as much as I'm on your side, I'm all too familiar with the fact that you jump at me messaging you "Hello" but will shoot down just about every guy who send you the same thing. I'm probably one of the rare cases though where i actually can bring something of substance to the conversation so it's not just a bland discussion about how wet we can get. • This site pampers women and hinders men. I've been able to get a glimpse as to how a male profile is set up versus a female one and it's pretty significant. For standard members, women have much more freedom to roam this site where as guys are blocked by "buy buy buy" the moment you try to do too much. Granted I think guys may of lost their right to do so ages ago because of a great deal of idiots, it's still seems somewhat unfair. • Why are there so many women on here shopping around for their man? I don't understand why the guys can't just come on here themselves or heaven forbid you figure out why there was even the desire for someone else in the first place. • If you have a significant other already, who doesn't know about this site, you should probably delete your account. Seriously, why are you hear? Cheating will just make life suck. • If you have been on here for a more than five years and you still can't find what you're looking for, just quit. You obviously have bigger problems you should deal with. No offense. • Just because someone wanted to talk a lot doesn't mean you should always block them, but don't be the person who always nags someone else. • If you haven't read a book in over a year, do yourself a favor and do so. We're already dealing with Governments all around the world trying to make the average person dumber, especially in the United States thanks to the GOP. • Get your head out of ass.... • I need sleep... Be back with more at some later point. |
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2/14/2018 7:54 am |
Vents are vents. They are neither right nor wrong. It's what you feel-how can that be wrong. It can be wrongheaded on points but again feelings are feelings. In the words or the princess from dorne on GOT "we don't control what our heart feels or who it feels for." Guys show their junk on here because they can. If they wanted the conventions of ordinary life they wouldn't be here they'd be in a bar where most junk stays hidden. As to the fairness here...well women got it dicked here like that hey have it dicked in a bar. Good looking ones can plop down and all sorts of men will write them endless missives filled with bad grammar or buy them drinks and spout horrible pick-up lines. One is real and one is virtual you tell me which one. I have met/encountered many ladies on this site and more than you care to admit can "bring something to the conversation" so let's not be so quick to dismiss or judge. As to cheaters, there are a ton on here. Again, I won't judge (because I don't believe its a healthy way to self improvement and I, myself, don't want to be judged) but if this helps them be a better husband, wife, bf or gf...well have at it. Who am I to ...you know the rest. Also, I haven't read a book since my favorite, Watership Down, many years ago. I have though seen a ton of movies, read a lot of news & kept current on all things political so again I don't judge those who are different from or do different than me. That said, you seem hot, I like hot and who knows. I hope you got the rest you needed. Be well and have a great VD day...lol
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I find that reading through glasses is not very enjoyable.. and without the glasses very un-enjoyable I use to buy a month or two worth of books often; I have not bought a book in years. I do follow the news on this computer,,I can enlarge the text! Yippy. Happy Valentines to you.
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If more people on here would do have of what you have said and stop making everything so complicated, many would be definitely having a lot more fun. Figure out what you want. Find people that you are attracted to and seem to want the same things. Chat and then meet if things look promising. The rest will take care of itself.
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2/15/2018 8:40 am |
Venting is a very cathartic thing to do. So yes it is a different world on here for men. I can send out a bunch of hellos! And get nothing response. I can try and be forward and get oh look nothing in response. Now you could say oh well us ladies get so many messages it's just hard to get through them. Well I say awww really?! Here's the world's smallest violin playing just for you. You know what's at the other end of that spectrum and dare I say worse then that? Getting nothing back, not knowing if your message got through, if it was read, just nothing. Now is part of that on this dumb site being from like 1999, and never updating a damn thing, probably. But some of the onus has to go on you ladies, two simple words could end a lot of frustration on here, not interested, or if you prefer to not be as polite a simple fuck off. Those words could do wonders to masses of guys just wondering. And that is the worst thing on here as with any site, just the unknown of it all. It's better to know where you stand then sit there and act like hello is this thing on?
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you should write a book. really. do it. readdy to please you
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2/28/2018 12:56 am |
couldn't agree more
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2/28/2018 12:56 am |
Sacks has it right
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1 post 4/10/2018 9:59 pm |
After reading your profile and this post, you seem like a very interesting person and would love to talk with you. Hopefully when you see this we can chat n possibly meet up for a coffee or a beer. Beauty and brains are a rare combo these days, so hopefully I will hear from you soon.
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4/19/2018 12:32 pm |
Hope you're doing alright.
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4/26/2018 4:08 am |
Just let it all out!
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7/13/2018 5:59 am |
Wow, she is smart and sexy 
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Well written! People on here seem to not listen
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No new posts in a while...did you lose interest in the site?
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