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Be Realistic  

Coffeenick 53M/48F
23 posts
5/1/2018 8:07 am
Be Realistic


Ok people lets wake up nobody on here is a perfect 10 there are some very attractive people and some less so for us we want to be able to converse with you and yes we want you to care for yourself and how you present yourself we don't expect perfection we aren't perfect lol but we do expect a personality so you people who think your tens guess what your not the only ten I see is my wife and in closing no you shouldn't drop standards not suggesting it we won't so why should you but be honest with yourself if your a guy who has a dad belly and hair has started running away from your forehead guess what likely not getting a 30 year old hard body to play with but my wife and I would give you a chance if you are a decent guy and fun think on that have fun all

Would just like to add I found the perfect example of what we find ugly a girl on here that thinks she is all that posted on her profile that she is tired of the site because of all the fags on here come on I am a straight male but even gay people need love and I may have no interest in men sexually but take the compliment from a gay guy as what it is a compliment sorry miss sheissocute the handle she uses you aren't cute your hateful therefore ugly we don't expect tens we just expect decent human beings
A final note if your a bigot at least be a closet bigot so the rest of us don't need to hear your hate do that on your own time please

mizzenmate 55M
9 posts
5/17/2018 8:21 pm

I may be wrong coffenick, but I think this kinda leads back to your ghosting post. You start chatting to someone, then they see what they think is something better, and completely cold shoulder you until they find out they were wrong. This is supposed to be a fun site, and the more people you chat with the more fun it it. You're right there are no 10's in everybody's eyes. But you only hurt yourself by being a shallow jerk, male of female. And again you're right, don't bash the guys that hit on men, just politely decline.


nu2swing4 61M/60F

5/18/2018 7:55 pm

She aint pretty... she just looks that way. Personality and attitude are everything.


Coffeenick 53M/48F
17 posts
7/10/2018 4:59 pm

would just like to ty all who commented I appreciate the comments they are well thought out and intelligent and the feed back reminds me we are not crazy lol TY again all


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