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hung up on hang ups  

Sweetophelia37 43F  
25 posts
2/3/2018 12:22 pm
hung up on hang ups

I used to get offended when people did not find me attractive. I was too heavy or too nerdy or too tall, or whatever it was. Recently I have been spending a lot of time thinking about this.

I am a chubby girl
I am a strong confident woman.
I am 5'6"
I have super long dark hair and big dark eyes.
I am beautiful

For a long time I worried about how people saw me. If they found me attractive or interesting. The i realized something.

I DO NOT CARE WHAT ANYONE THINKS.

No..this is not always the case and sometimes I get hung up on body image stuff. I have to remind myself that EVERY BODY is not for EVERYBODY.

Generally i prefer men who are tall, dark and unconventional
I prefer men who are confident, masculine, and dominant
I prefer men who are not thin.

I prefer women who are soft and feminine. I have a weakness for soft lips.
I do not prefer thin women.

I HAVE A PREFERENCE. There are features and attributes about people that I find more or less attractive. Note I realize that there is more about attraction then the physical. I have in fact been attracted to men and women who were not my "type". That being said.

Why in the world would I get all bent out of shape when someone does not find me attractive?

Be you! Like who you like, love who you love, and so will I.



DevinGuitarMan84 39M

2/3/2018 2:42 pm

you look amazing I prefer a chick who i can grab tight and wont break I don't care for barbie dolls message me hun


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/3/2018 3:16 pm

I DO NOT CARE WHAT ANYONE THINKS.
To survive on this site you're gonna need to keep this in mind. Around here insults come from people who know essentially nothing about you.

5'6" is not "too tall" and you look great.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
2/3/2018 5:32 pm

Luv the skin you are in!!! Good for you!!


Love2PleaseU92 63M
62 posts
2/5/2018 1:01 pm

you are so beautiful and sexy just the way you are darling xoxo
do you love deep kisses and cuddling


playtime5514 64M/59F

2/8/2018 6:21 pm

Your hot to look at and we imagine you would be wild..between the two of us xx


rooman62 40M
1 post
2/24/2018 5:37 am

you are so sexy


FITnWellEndowed 43M
2 posts
3/29/2018 5:53 pm

I've been trying to message you to chat and you don't respond. You're absolutely beautiful and I'm very close to where you live. Message me back sometime and we'll hang out!


rrguy1169 57M
1 post
4/13/2018 11:09 pm

You look pretty damn good to me.


chrisjk9681 56M
3 posts
4/18/2018 8:51 pm

you are a very sexy woman no doubt!


Lapdog26140 66M
6 posts
5/18/2020 8:52 am

Good on ya, you sexy woman you. I like what I like. I've been called nuts for liking the bigger girls, but that's who I am! To be Frank (OBTW that's my name), I like big saggy boobs with veins and stretch marks, big asses, thick thighs and big thick pussy lips in other words a REAL woman! I want that ON me. I have no time for those who are not happy with who they are and are always looking to look or be something else. If I've learned anything in life it's that you are what you are and you ARE gorgeous!


quazzi427 62M  
4 posts
8/19/2020 1:11 pm

You are Lovely & Kind ( I can see it in your eyes), anyone who thinks not doesn't deserve your attention .
Just Keep on smiling & Love your self First , the Rest will Follow


TURNING2543 58M  
1 post
12/18/2020 6:22 am

Very beautiful in every way.


Sweetophelia37 43F  
6 posts
12/28/2020 11:17 am

Thank you so much for the positive feedback. I have to say, I have yet to find many insulting comments. Vulgar ones, lol, yes.

I feel fortunate to have been passed up by the haters.

No one is gonna dull my damned sparkle


Sweetophelia37 43F  
6 posts
12/28/2020 11:19 am

i don't receive messages from this site because i absolutely refuse to pay for sex. lol

im on kik. sweetophelia2342
or fetlife.com sweetophelia37


LUV2MAKEUGUSH 48M
6 posts
1/29/2021 4:57 am

You are beautiful and sexy.i hope you never feel differently about yourself


LUV2MAKEUGUSH 48M
6 posts
3/13/2021 8:57 pm

You are beautiful.love this photo of you


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