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lifestyles of the sexualized  

Wicked7pixieSLUT 48F
339 posts
8/25/2021 9:35 pm
lifestyles of the sexualized



so among others there are a shit ton of swingers in the lifestyle on this site. we use these terms, sometimes loosely, but what does it mean exactly? i mean who 's to say what swinging entails? i think the answer to that question is that its personal to everyone, although commonly includes a couple... labels are easy to be slapped onto different sexual lifestyles, but again, these choices are personal to each individual or couple.

i am personally in an open relationship with my boyfriend and have been for nearly 4 years now. we practice the principle that if we play together - we stay together. and we have rules, so that boundaries are not pushed, lines are not crossed, and all is drama free and understood between us. our lifestyle choice invites new people into the bedroom but the important part is that we include one another in the free love sex.

so how does this work for us? well, the main focus is on us as a couple, experiencing these escapades to heighten the excitement factor and fondness that we hold for one another. the difference between cheating and not cheating? this may sound weird to some people but its simple... it comes down to if i invite over a guy, is this consensual for both of us? i mean to say, is he OK with it? if so he will watch, or engage me in sexually as well VS if he comes home and some guy is in his bed while he was at work and he "catches" us in the act - that is cheating. so i suppose its fair to say that you can't go around my guy to get to me, but you can go through him if you want some of this.

we have our rules, such as if one of us leaves the room, the other stops what their doing and waits for the other to return in a swing situation. its out of respect for each other that we honor this. this "open lifestyle" allows us to have variety in our sexual trysts without the awkward factor of hooking up alone with others. i've had friend ask me how i could stand to watch my guy with another woman and i don't have to think about it too terribly much because its a complete turn on for me, watching that is. i imagine this scenario when i watch porn and cum all over my toys time and time again watching ffm 3somes! some women couldn't imagine allowing their guys such a freedom. i think its a perk for both of us. and

i'm better at picking up women then he is so he leaves that to me... whatever your lifestyle is, i suggest couples have guidelines they follow to avoid hurt feelings and drama. for those single men and women who mix it up with couples, kudos to you for opening your mind. i imagine for men it opens up many opportunities with women.

well if you have any questions for me leave in the comment section and you can ask anything on this topic, and i will give you an honest<b> straight </font></b>answer. happy fucking you freaks and have a good night/morning!


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