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PREFERENCE vs Prejudice -TOTALLY MISUNDERSTOOD
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PREFERENCE vs Prejudice -TOTALLY MISUNDERSTOOD We have NO no issue with the MRS inviting whomever she wants to "hang out" with or meet. However, she may sincerely appreciate a personality and find interest and commonality but she finds the least attraction to blonde/redheaded white men and African American, Indian and Asian - -just does not find these men sexually appealing-- BUT we have many different breadth of "friends" that we DO NOT PLAY WITH because of NO sexual interest We have met quite a few men outside of her preference level... and in 5 years --she has chosen Zero to move forward to a sexual level... so it is similar to not liking onions Although she can appreciate that they add a certain flavor and value to a dish...she has absolutely no taste for them. Those preferences dont usually change no matter how persistent i am about adding "onions" to the dish. For me the MR having more openness to different people means potentially more fun---to her she just looks for a few subsets of people, she is most attracted to and that's latino -or European tanned white skinned skinned men -- So truly most black men and men of other ethnicity, MISS the fact that she doesn't find preference in WHITE BLONDE , blue eyed men, Asians or Indians either , So it is not a question of attraction of Race or prejudice at all but a matter of simple preference.... From a societal standpoint ,we dont necessarily categorize any race conversation around White women who dont like blonde , blue eyed white men --- We just call that a preference. WHY WE SHOULD BE RIDICULED FOR A PREFERENCE MAKES NO SENSE --- DOES EVERY MAN find attraction to a 492 pound woman even though she is super sweet and has an awesome personality –or do you call that a PREFERENCE of yours? DOES EVERY GUY LOVE FLAT CHESTED WOMEN or do you have a PREFERENCES FOR LARGER? Since the MR has so many years in the lifestyle ,,,she is welcome to explore at her own pace and interest level . I have asked her if she is ok meeting some more men outside her preference level .. she dismisses the suggestion --feels like it wastes peoples time and potentially leads them on and she does not like doing either. She also feels that no matter how cool --most men cannot let go of the true agenda-- to have sex.. and this gives her<b> anxiety </font></b>that truly it can never be a "i want to meet you for the quality of your profile or interaction"...but more so-- i do value all of these things but in the back of my mind I "might have a chance to get there and have sex"....and her mind there is absolutely no chance no matter how debonair, charming or intelligent or the level of commonality and cool personality. she has met some 150 men in 5 years and chosen 9 to play with --that's 2 per year from those that on the onset fit her preferences perfectly... so selective to say the least ---she feels that if she does not find what she is looking for she chooses not to play at all . The lifestyle is an enhancement for us and not the goal !!!!! We have frequented clubs like HEDO , TEMPTATIONS and many others around the world... she has been propositioned HUNDREDS OF TIMES by BLONDE MEN, RED HEADS, ASIANS INDIANS , BLACK MEN and in 30 years of her lifetime in or OUTSIDE the lifestyle has not chosen to sleep with any of them.....not from a prejudice but simply from no sexual attraction from a visual perspective.. she does not find the look visually attractive.. Preferences and tolerance are supposed to be held in high regard here... while we are tolerant of all sexuality we also have NO PREFERENCE for GAY or bisexual MEN WHY is this preference ACCEPTED by the masses that we dont find gay or bi people attractive yet we get ridiculed for the same type of preference when it comes to ethnicity. There is a BIG difference between the definitions of the word PREJUDICE and PREFERENCE. For those that feel the need to ridicule us or send intolerant messages....you will need to learn the difference because we are SURE that you have preferences of your own ! |
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1 post 9/3/2018 8:59 pm |
an excellent read! interesting that you took time to write and detail what makes you sparky. Quite exciting and an eye-opener to me. Thanks!
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