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The Lowest Common Denominator  

Catdancing3000 51T
2 posts
6/17/2018 1:34 pm
The Lowest Common Denominator


This is not Match.com or Love Connection. I’ve been accused of looking for something that doesn’t exist here: decent, educated, non-perverts who don’t flash their dicks and tits at me when I’m messaged. True, this is a sex site, but where does it say that people can be assholes to people like me?

It’s super common for people on here to hit me up, and introduce themselves by asking if I want to suck their dick (with a pic of it). Is that how you fucking talk to people? It’s no wonder that with communication skills like that, that many of you are here on this site.

You see, as a guy, I don’t need this site. I seriously don’t. I don’t ever lie. On the other hand, as a very part-time CD, I need a site like this to shop around. I’m not public with my crossdressing hobby. In over ten years of this, I have never been caught. Couples and gender benders benefit most from FriendFinder-x. I’m not going to tell someone I know that I dress as a girl here and there, and then expect them to not get judgemental.

So, when I come on here (no pun intended), I do at least expect people to have some modicum of respect for people in general, not be total fucking pigs. As I said before, if that’s the way you talk to people, then it’s no wonder you’re scraping the bottom of barrel by looking here. Yeah, I’m here, but I already explained why, and I’m not scraping the bottom of the barrel. Hell, I’ve only met about 4 or 5 people on here in ten years. Four of them were women!

How you address people and talk to me is going to heavily influence whether I even consider meeting with you. Also, don’t assume that just because I dress as a girl that I’m bisexual. We can engage in a conversation about that, if you like. A lot of you are already confused as to what your orientation is, so discussing it first is ideal. I don’t want to be with someone who is just curious about CDs. If you say you’re straight on your profile and you hit me up wanting to fuck, then you’re full of shit. You know I have a dick and you’re seeking me out, then that means you’re bisexual. You could be bi-curious, but then you’d be looking for the same sex who dresses as a man or woman depending on what sex you are.

There’s lots of cheaters on here. There’s lots of dumbfucks who think I’m stupid. Many of you are idiots, not me. You assume I’m going to fall for your lies about your wives saying it’s okay for you to play. What do I look like other than a hot CD? Lol. I’m street smart and well-educated. I don’t fall for shit I think sounds shifty. Take it from someone whose longest relationship has been 17 years, I can maintain a good, loving relationship with a woman. One thing, though, is that no woman will ever just tell their man to go fuck around as long as he comes home. Sure, it COULD happen, but it’s a long shot. I’d hate to the no what you tell your wives when you do go out to cheat.

My main focus is couples. I love couples, and prefer playing with them as a guy. It just makes things easier. If anything bisexual happens, then I won’t freak out. I chalk it up as kink, and don’t look at it as bisexual. Things happen in the heat of the moment. I have no inherent attraction for men, but in a sexual situation, I’ll go for it. Couples are often realistic, and it’s just sexually fun to hook up with a pair. The only time I get stupid messages from a “couple” is when it’s some dipshit guy posing as a man and woman.

Then, there’s the perverts who engage in the nastiest conversations ever. Cum is going to come into play during sex, but we can leave the comments about tasting it and drinking it on the back burner. To me, that’s gross. It just is. I’m not a prude, but it’s something I don’t want to verbalize in a conversation. We know what’s going to happen if we fuck. I don’t need a play-by-play.

This section had to be rewritten, because FriendFinder-x said I couldn’t talk about illegal stuff which eliminates the points I was trying to make. W people on here love trying to engage in matters of indecency with certain people and other living things. Kinda strange that FriendFinder-x says I can’t talk about the sickos who bring it up, yet those same sickos can type it up in chats with me, and go unpunished. Nice double standard there, FriendFinder-x.

Anyway, the issue I have here is how people talk to me. Just message me, talk to me with decency and respect. Nobody’s saying you have to kiss my ass. Just don’t be a pig. Talk to me like a person. How any of you can seriously expect for someone who looks and acts like me to actually want to have anything to do with people that look and act like some of you is pretty pathetic. Grow up and you just might get the experience you seek. Trash talking people and introducing yourself with 6th grade vocabulary and manners ain’t gonna get you anywhere real fast.

Stay thirsty, my friends.

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