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Time Hovered Last Friday night, I drove to the airport to pick up an old friend of mine - Robert, who was flying in from New York. Traffic was hellacious, and had been worse than usual - in the last week. All this had coincided with the legalization of that 'formerly illegal' herb - marijuana. We used to bomb around town at 8 or 9 mph but lately, we were hovering, at no more than 4 or 5 mph. I jokingly blamed all the stoners as they all drove slower - trying to be extra careful. Local media, pointed out that this city, closed down yet another major road, for repairs. Those media minions, might have had a valid point. Once at the terminal, I missed the entrance to the 'Express Parking' lot and had to drive... all the way... around the airport, to try and hit that entrance, again. Ask me if I was pissed. Luckily , when I reached the USA Arrivals Lounge (after having walked a half mile from my parking spot), and in spite of the crowds - I still found an empty chair. Quietly, I sat down next to an old, frail, grey haired gentleman. He was in his late 80's perhaps. In one hand he clasped a cane, while on the lap of his rumpled plaid pants, rested a motley cardboard sign, with the name - 'Deborah' written on it. Naturally I was curious so of course, I asked him about the sign. He looked up at me and shared his brief saga. He was waiting for his , Deborah. He hadn't seen her in 45 years. He wasn't sure what she looked like, and she certainly wouldn't recognize him, or so he thought. Deborah was his only and had been estranged from him (as a very young girl), since his bitter divorce, from her mother. Deborah was married, had lived in New Jersey for many years - and she was flying into town, for her mother's funeral. She was his only family, and she had finally decided, to reconcile with him. 'She's a doctor. She's a Neurologist at Mount Sinai,' he proudly announced to me, smiling broadly. I could tell he was nervous, as his thin fingers fidgeted, with the sign. As the passengers on that New York flight began to walk through the Arrivals gate, I slowly helped him up from his seat, and followed him as he gingerly walked toward that gaggle of travellers. It was the same flight my friend Robert was on. You might have seen those u tube videos, or movies, where two people who haven't seen each other in years, finally recognize one another, and fall into each others arms, crying and hugging ? That's, exactly, what their reunion resembled ! Imagine meeting your after 45 years. Imagine meeting your father, whom you haven't seen in more than four decades... and - it was on the occasion of your mother's funeral. As I stood there, stunned, I couldn't imagine, not seeing my daughters for one year - let alone 45 years. If you know me, you'd know that I.m an emotional guy, and I started tearing up, right alongside them. I wish I could tell you how their story ended but (in truth), for them, it was just the beginning. They were still hugging each other as my friend Robert approached, and I was still wiping a tear from my eye. "Hey Paul. What's up? You missed me that much? Holy shit... Come here buddy!" He laughed as he extended his hand and gave me the hug that I needed ! While we drove to his hotel, I told him about the man I'd met and the story he'd shared. We then sat there laughing as we exchanged anecdotes about our lives, our families and work related fuckups. The music in the car was chill and midnight traffic was at a complete standstill... some sort of lane closures, or something like that. I didn't mind. No... I didn't mind that traffic at all... I was in no rush, I mean, life is short. isn't it? © October 2018 Paul P. ........................................ So... Do you spend time with your family or with those you love - as much as you'd like to? Have you ever tried marijuana? And no... I'm not sure if legalization is a good thing or not. I imagine time will tell. Even in that airport parking lot, blue plumes of smoke and that pervasive aroma , proved to me that people were getting ready to fly - in more ways than one. 😊🎃🌿 .. ......................................  ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O |
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Of course I'd like to spend more time with my daughters, but it seems that as adults, they have their own things to do. We still meet on important occasions. I love it when we surprise each other with random adventures and meetings. We're still building new memories . . . ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yes. . . I have actually tried 'IT' . . I can't say it is really for me. And all kidding aside . . except for a fair bit of media attention about the issue of legalization, there has been no difference to the vibe of this city. I imagine some tourists will be tripping sooner than the natives. We don't seem to have too many rules in this city. hmmm Then again . . now that it is legal here . . Who knows ? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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What the heck you doing up so early.paul.? Yes I see my family often on all the holidays as well as couple times a month.as for the other subject, nope never tried it. doubt I ever will.
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What the heck you doing up so early.paul.? Yes I see my family often on all the holidays as well as couple times a month.as for the other subject, nope never tried it. doubt I ever will. It is not for everyone and I imagine that your smile is a natural one... Never and ever is a long time . .Perhaps you need a provocative partner .... lol ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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provocative partner for??? and you did not say WHY your up so early/only agreed it was early
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10/30/2018 2:23 am |
Family Pftttttt! My family has so many issues and so much drama that it actually is comical .Years ago my Dad held the family together he was the glue but today they fight argue point fingers and are just plain crude..My only daughter passed away last year and she was one of the lucky ones who lived far enough away they could infiltrate her mind with all their sour crap..I stay away from them , I have enough stress in my life I don't plan on adding them to it.
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provocative partner for??? and you did not say WHY your up so early/only agreed it was early ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Family Pftttttt! My family has so many issues and so much drama that it actually is comical .Years ago my Dad held the family together he was the glue but today they fight argue point fingers and are just plain crude..My only daughter passed away last year and she was one of the lucky ones who lived far enough away they could infiltrate her mind with all their sour crap..I stay away from them , I have enough stress in my life I don't plan on adding them to it. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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That orchard you have certainly sounds like a nice place for anyone to visit. I am not really sure what to think about the law permitting legal clouds . . Sounds like you were in the thick of it, so to speak . . lol No harmful long term effects, I presume? Thanks for dropping by and sharing your pov. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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'Holding Space', is certainly a worthy term . I was familiar with it, but your description reminded me again - of just how powerful and profound a term it truly is ! These type of things happens to me all the time. Thanks for the reminder. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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... provocative partner for ... anything ? lol Yep . . I sometimes start my day this early. I feel alive when I'm up before the 'my' little world is up !!! It's a great feeling!So . . Are you counting down the days?
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OH NO....... I love it, its a fabulous,tremendous scrumptious delightful day.
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OH NO....... I love it, its a fabulous,tremendous scrumptious delightful day. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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hahahaha,heck no...........thats left up to all my sons...
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Growing up some of the best memories I have are of visiting my grandparents. My dads side of the family still did family trips every summer. I guess it set the pattern with me, cause I still hold them for my family. We do a family beach trip every year. As far as immediate family, me and my kids and grandkids are all close. We spend time to together regularly. To me, family is the most important thing in life. I was a major pot head and druggie when I was young. Quite everything when I was about 24. I've tried pot again twice since I've been divorced. All it did for me was make me tired and hungry. LOL Just not my thing anymore I guess. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Growing up some of the best memories I have are of visiting my grandparents. My dads side of the family still did family trips every summer. I guess it set the pattern with me, cause I still hold them for my family. We do a family beach trip every year. As far as immediate family, me and my kids and grandkids are all close. We spend time to together regularly. To me, family is the most important thing in life. I was a major pot head and druggie when I was young. Quite everything when I was about 24. I've tried pot again twice since I've been divorced. All it did for me was make me tired and hungry. LOL Just not my thing anymore I guess. Funny you should mention the munchies and changes in tastes . . . I will probably try some of the legal stuff, when I get around to it, but I don't imagine listening to Led Zeppelin, the Beetles or Credence, on my headphones for 3 hours straight will have the same allure. Or maybe . . . lol ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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10/30/2018 6:37 am |
I see my only son and grand daughters daily, since they live with me. I haven't seen my 3 stepsons that grew up with me in about 3 yrs. Since the divorce and death of my Ex I don't think they consider me family any more. Yes, I admit, I've tried marijuana. In fact I tried it on three different occasions last weekend! 
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I see my only son and grand daughters daily, since they live with me. I haven't seen my 3 stepsons that grew up with me in about 3 yrs. Since the divorce and death of my Ex I don't think they consider me family any more. Yes, I admit, I've tried marijuana. In fact I tried it on three different occasions last weekend! ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I recall you telling me that once, and that is so sad.... Well , you have your daughter , right ? There is always time for reconciliation with relatives. My brother and I don't always see eye to eye but we always manage to patch things up. I think he's an asshole sometimes and he thinks the same thing about me . ..We're even, I guess. It's been eons . .? Have you ever made love while on it ? Eeeeee ...scary erotic and exotic ! Nice to see you back !!! ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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All my grandparents have departed this realm for parts yet to be explored. My parents, divorced, and both deceased. My brother is still in Colorado and after a very rude adventure I created for him for his 60th we dont speak. My sister lives 10 hours away and we meet once a year. She does not acknowledge "my" brother at all- stupid attitude too long to share here. And I cherish all my true friends. Life is very good (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Well, you most likely have some interesting stories to tell. And yet you're such a positive person, that I know you can put a positive spin on things. I'm feeling slightly bad that I went in this direction with this post... Hmm I didn't want to make everyone sad. Now I'm sad 😢🤔🎃 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Honestly my kids have their own lives and I do miss spending time with them. We all don't get together anymore as they are scattered all around and we don't fly any where so I see the ones that are here. As for the marijauna, yep I have tried it a few times, I would much rather have a couple of drinks..Great story, so heart warming, I hope you have a terrific day.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Honestly my kids have their own lives and I do miss spending time with them. We all don't get together anymore as they are scattered all around and we don't fly any where so I see the ones that are here. As for the marijauna, yep I have tried it a few times, I would much rather have a couple of drinks..Great story, so heart warming, I hope you have a terrific day.. As for your preference... Cheers! Take care... 🎃🍷 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I was lucky to grow up in a close extended family. I went to elementary school with 2 of my cousins and everyone went to Grandma's after church. As we became adults with our own families to raise, we saw less and less of each other but I still see my cousins here and there. My 4 brothers are scattered and I don't see them - or their offspring - as often as I'd like. My only child and I are very close. Marijuana? I've passed the toke from the left to the right but have not {intentionally} inhaled. I'm not against the legalization but I'm not looking forward to it, either. I dislike the smell. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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After both my parents died, it seemed a lot of the traditions and reasons we gathered as a family died too. It's far too easy for everyone to get caught up in their own lives and forget about keeping in touch. Friends would never stick around if treated the same way. In high school, weed was the dominant drug of choice but I was too scared to try it. Now that it's legal here.....who knows? As a side note....I hate the word 'goodbye' . It's feels far too permanent so I never use it.
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