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Just Love the Adult Communication  

astute2r3 68M
85 posts
5/18/2018 10:54 am
Just Love the Adult Communication


Have you ever tried or did physically start an attempt at communication with some on IM? Have you experienced those whom read what you write to them, but they never reply? Are they reading? Is the site correct when it shows that they read what you wrote? Is this some new type of consideration which requires to own a Crystal Ball or have ESP? Does this allegedly mature adult behavior simply confirm something more detached from normal healthy human behavior? Maybe it is just the the site and the collective understood quality of consideration which engulfs? I have my own ideas as to what this is, but not certain at all. However the lack of adult communication does seem to have a negative effect in general, based on offered blogs. It does appear that those blogs which seem to get the most comments, being what they are, are simply blogs with photos. Surely Visual Stimulation is paramount here. Go Figure, as sight for people to communicate. LOL

astute2r3 68M

5/18/2018 11:07 am

Just Being Facetious, seeing what if anything is noted. Doesn't anyone want to Play Anymore and Have Fun?


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
5/18/2018 11:52 am

Until I learned I could put the im on busy I would read them but not always answer. When I did it was never what the person wanted to read. Profile says I don't use it. Or it did at one time. Not my fault standard members are to cheap to pay to read profiles. Also not my fault paying members are to lazy to read them. If i was meeting i still wouldn't use it. Plus most that did send one are to young. Or a couple which again not my fault if to cheap or lazy. I am the same way with messages. Why answer when they are not who I might be interested in. They would know if reas my profile. Being a female and local is enough for some men. A man being a male and local is so not enough for me.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
5/18/2018 12:34 pm

I second what Haste wrote. I can't be bothered to read on IM because I have yet to have anyone say hello that I want to talk to. Even when I DO say something and tell them they aren't my type, they persist. I can't be bothered turning it off every single time I log in. They pounce within seconds sometimes. Like what .. got a live one here guys!!! Reel 'er in fast? Just, no. You wanna actually talk? Send me a message in my blog ... easy peasy for everyone!!!


astute2r3 68M

5/21/2018 2:38 pm

Thanks to those whom took the time to share. I am certain it is different for most everyone. Pondering if having a Quality sight where one actually had to qualify for a Quality Rating to be allowed in, Who and or Whom would have enough IQ and EQ to qualify to make that decision? Could one actually guarantee a Quality and what Quality would that be?

Well ENJOY all that you can!


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