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Just Saying About Chatrooms...  

SakuraMar 49F
200 posts
11/10/2019 9:22 pm
Just Saying About Chatrooms...

Just Saying About Chatrooms
There are no set in stone rules for chatting in a chat room. However, in order to maximize your presence in a chat room, have a bit more success and possibly a better experience you should follow simple etiquette. You limit yourself if you don't at least try the chat rooms a few times. So pick a local or generally close area or a room that piques your interest and try it out.

1. DO NOT spam the room with the cut and paste crap every time you enter the room. You will be considered an asstwat ( blog on SakuraMar's Dictionary For The Cool & Perverted) and 99 times of 100 you will be iggyd( SakuraMar's Dictionary For The Cool & Perverted) put on the block list or possibly reported. It is not worth it.
2. If you say hello the room don't expect people to answer you. You can say hello to the room, but follow up by picking a person or say hello specifically to people.
3. Observe the room for a few minutes. See what the mood is like. Looks if they are into a one on one or just chatting in general.
4. Do not start by saying things like, great tits, juicy pussy or hey chat privately wirh me. You will more than likely be rejected, ignored(iggyd) or told off. You are talking to a person not a crack .
5. If you have Gold READ the profile BEFORE looking at the pictures. Pictures can make you assume what the person wants and you could end up looking like a complete idgit. Pick something from what they write, NOT the pictures they post. Trust me, they heard it all before and it's droll and irritating.
6. If you DO NOT have Gold, then pick a neutral simple topic. How are you? What are you up to? How was your day?
7. DO NOT announce that you are bored. Nobody cares. Nobody is there to entertain you. You will not be giving a good impression.
8. After you read the room and see how the conversation is flowing, try to jump in. Do not be belligerent or disrespectful. Ask a question or start your own conversation topic.
9. Each room has its own flow. Acknowledge that there will be regulars, cliques and friends in the room. People want to socialize and not be tied down with private chat right away. Chill and chat in the room before you try seduce your choice privately.
10. Do not post your # or addy. It is dumb and people think that you are too crazy to bother with. (unless they are even crazier or give away your info)
These are just general basic tips for chatroom etiquette. You can use them and get more out of your chatroom experience. Or, you can ignore them and whine about how the chatrooms are full of jerks. At least give the chatrooms a few chances, you never know how much fun it can be or who you can meet. But you could enjoy time in the chatroom, just saying.


Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything


SakuraMar 49F
108 posts
5/18/2020 12:02 am

SakuraMar39s Dictionary For The Cool amp Perverted

Just in case

Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything


dogslife2live01 71M

11/11/2019 5:00 am

you can't teach a jackass to be a stallion... but then again ifin you can't behave, tell them the rules!

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


SakuraMar replies on 11/11/2019 4:45 pm:
Thankies so very much! I hope you don mind me stealing thar saying, lol

SakuraMar 49F
108 posts
11/11/2019 4:44 am

Not everyone is going to read it. Not everyone will take the advice. However, it is there for those who genuinely want to know. It's a heck of a lot better than being negative and rude. But at least you got to show your opinion. Because God forbid you go without trying to piss on someone answering the questions asked to help. Have nice life.

Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/11/2019 3:57 am

You really think anyone who actually does that, is going to see this and think, "Oh my goodness, I should not do that stuff anymore"?.... I really doubt it....but at least you got that off your chest. You can relax now.


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
11/10/2019 10:28 pm

Well-stated. Honestly, these are excellent guidelines for any form of social engagement in this community. Indeed, good rules for living life in a positive and constructive way.


SakuraMar replies on 11/10/2019 11:35 pm:
Thankies so very much for your positive view!

sakis69xxx 58M
27 posts
11/10/2019 9:27 pm

Very nice advises SacuraMar!


SakuraMar replies on 11/10/2019 9:39 pm:
Thankies so very much sakis69xxx! Hugzies!

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