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Tell Me More Tell Me More So, when I was getting IMs (not anymore really, because A F F has really been getting worse and I've stopped trying) and when I receive A F F mail, many times I'm shaking my head. Things like "You're hot, let's fuck" "Hey" "Wuz up hru" --dick picture or other picture with no message-- "send me more pictures of you" --an obvious long cut and paste message-- Ect, ect, ect... (as I'm sprawled on the bed The King And I style) When I was frequently in the chat rooms I was asked advice by some (the smarter guys), on how to send a message. So, this is for those who have asked me. Don't bother bitching about you not giving a damn, no one asked you. I'll consider it a bonus if some idgits do manage to read this and try it out instead of the usual junk message. I am a wordsmith with an extensive vocabulary. (don't think sexy, hot for teacher scenario. More like round, geeky, nerd bouncing around the blackboard). However, dudes, guys and men don't have to be. (Yes, there is a difference between the 3) How to have a decent opener message... If you want to say hello, fine. Just don't end it that way. You want a message that encourages more conversations. If you aren't smart and witty and funny. If you can't think of an original message, then here are some ideas. 1. Ask a question. NOT a sex question and NOT a question they have already answered in their profile. If you are gold, read the damn profile first. If you aren't gold, then ask a simple question. "How are you doing today?". "Did you have a good weekend/day" "What are you up to?" If you are desperate, ask Alexa to play Would You Rather and pull a question from her. Alexa can help you more than you know!) 2. If you saw them in a chatroom, mention it. "I saw you in the chatroom The Lobby(although you probably are lurking in The Hot Tub or the real sex chatrooms, lol) and I thought we could chat here if you like" "That answer you gave in The Lobby chatroom was so funny it made me smile." 3. Do not just say that they are hot or that their pictures are sexy. It's boring. They hear it a dozen times an half hour. Find something else to compliment, like their wit or humor. 4. DON'T just send your phone number and expect them to text or call you. Not happening unless they are trying to get you to something that you pay for. Plus, regular woman are just going to think that you are stupid and crazy. Personally, I'm sending those to poor telemarketers that need their daily goals filled. (alright, I'm not really doing that but I COULD, so stop doing it!) 5. Don't send your picture(s) with no written message. It's weird. (Getting pictures of you and your pet is different, but it's still kind of weird when there is no message attached) 6. Don't just demand more pictures from them or send pictures and expect or demand pictures. That's just rude dude. If you really want pictures, send a message offering to EXCHANGE pictures with them, if they want to. 7. Mention something about yourself that is funny, interesting, different. (Don't reveal that you like liver with Fava beans and skin with lots of lotion on it.) Keep it light and easy. (sharing that your dream is for there to be a sex Olympics and for you to win the gold medal would be a bit much...) 8. Read their status and make a comment about it. However, saying that it is a stupid comment is a pretty bad idea... 9. Be respectful and use language that depicts you respecting them. Negativity is so unattractive. It does not cost you a thing to be kind and there isn't any extra effort. 10. You can leave a respectful and seductive message. Don't be a sleazeball. Just hint at what is on your mind. "I saw your picture and it had me thinking some racy ideas. What do you think the best one would be..." "You are on my mind and I wonder if you'd like to be on each other's... Minds, lol" If I could get across just one thing that will stay in your mind. It would be for you to always, always, always be respectful no matter what message you decide to send. Be respectful. Be kind. You don't have to be hilarious like a famous comedian. (Stealing jokes from Fluffy might get you sat on) You don't have to be Shakespeare spewing sonnets. (that could backfire on you) You don't have to be Casanova. (although dressing like Casanova could be interesting sex play, just saying) Being yourself is good enough, but be original and make a little effort. As always, comments are welcome. I'm always interested in what most people think... Most not all. If you have any suggestions, feel free to share and I might add it in. I do have a disclaimer if you are very unhappy with this or any other blog. I do have video blogs, if you have gold. Thanks for any positive feedback. Stay sexy and be kind! Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything |
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Thanks so very much! Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything
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Robot Rabbit Sex sounds like an event for a new reality TV show, I'm imagining the trailer now; running three times an hour during NFL games. The lovely worn brass ring is as close as my fervent imagination and as far as someone else willing to be grasped. In terms of more concrete definition like time or space it's a relative unknown. Age is just a number in an ideal world but in this one it's more a matter of aches, pains, rusted sinew, and sore joints. The meeting of two minds in perfect erogenous harmony is definitely not related to age unless and until one of them thinks it is.
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Interesting comments...... I would love to hear your differing definitions for dudes, guys, and men. What's on my mind varies quite a bit, depending on circumstances that also vary quite a bit. At the moment what's on my mind is why you are so overqualified.... smile...
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