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What Nearly All Women and a Majority of Men Do Not Know About Giving Really Great Blow Jobs
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What Nearly All Women and a Majority of Men Do Not Know About Giving Really Great Blow Jobs Regardless of sexual preferences, we are all physical beings who are subject to the biological purpose for which nature created us. That being said, sex as far as our bodies are concerned, is meant for procreation. Even if your sexual psyche is totally dedicated to only pleasing men, every cell in your body still contains the genetic memory of its reproductive purpose. Oddly enough, when understands and accepts this natural law of being a breeding human, they can start to give the best head that their partners have ever received. The secret is in making the mouth and tongue mimic having sex in a pussy, and the more the experience is able to fool the body into feeling like it is having a heterosexual<b> copulation </font></b>experience, the more intense the orgasm will be. This blog posting has been written to explain the basics of accomplishing better blow jobs when it comes to men on men experiences, or women on men experiences. Few, if any, of the unsung secrets in this post are known by women, and surprisingly most of this information comes as a complete surprise to experienced male dick suckers, too. So, first off, I will debunk a major falacy about blow jobs and then we will start where a blow job begins... If were to review any number of online videos that are thoughtfully made to teach others how to give a good blow job, a common mionception that is continuously repeated throughout those tutorials is the importance of hand work as part of the culimnating success of a blow job. Let me say right now, if some has to use their hand to get their partner off, they are not all that good at giving blow jobs. To say that whacking a guy off is a necessary step in initiating an orgasm during fellatio is similar to saying that a man must be whacked off while enjoying vaginal sex into order for him to cum inside his lady partner. Under most circumstances, that just is not true. This thought again illustrates the first important point that the more a mouth is used to simulate the feel and actions of a vagina, the more satisfying the blow job will be. Along those lines, a woman is only ready for sex when she is wet enough, and it has been my experience that most women only need lubrication if the man was in a selfish rush to want to ejaculate. Such men have no idea how much greater a woman feels whom he has made feel great to the point of not needing lubrication because her body has responded naturally to the generous time he took during his caring stimulation. The point is that the wetter a mouth is, the more it feels like a virile vagina awaiting to be impregnated (remember, the biological aspect is a very important part of triggering a physical orgasm that much is higher on the romantic Richter ale). The best deription I have heard for how moist a mouth should be is that it should be as wet as a cucumber in a prison for women. way to increase saliva flow in the mouth is to touch the tip of your tongue to the lower palate of your mouth, just behind and to the center of the lower set of teeth. Leave it there for a little bit and the juices will start to flow. It can also to generously rub edible lubricant or flavored lip gloss onto the lips. When it comes to giving head, it all begins at the mouth, so let us compare the difference between oral sex and the initial entry into a pussy. When a man wants to enter a woman, upon spreading her legs, her vagina does not just open up allowing a penis to immediately plunge in. Instead, there needs to be some preparation time, there is some natural tightness that must be relaxed, and there is some resistance at first, until her glory hole opens and the man is treated to an experience that is more than worth the wait. Even though that is common knowledge, when most men or women give blow jobs, they start it off unnaturally by instantly putting their mouth over a penis. Granted, there is usually some kissing and licking involved first, but still, when it comes to the mouth, instead of treating it like it was a pussy, it usually just gets placed over the cock at once. Here is what to do instead to add initial excitement and arousal: When it is time to take the penis of your partner into your mouth, what you can do to enhance the moment is to purse your lips like the somewhat tight lips of a pussy, and rub the penis back and forth on your lips with some pressure, just as if a man was seeking intial entry into a vagina. When the penis finally finds the opening, make it work a bit to part the lips slowly, until finally the lips open and with some pressure remaining on the penetrating penis, it will feel more blissful as it slips inside. As it does, make sure that the mouth still remains tight enough and firm enough so that it continues to feel like the snug confines of a vagina. What may be the biggest mistake in giving great head is to think that your lips are there merely to be used as a replacement for a hand to whack a guy off. In this respect, most women and men seem to think that a blow job is all about grasping a penis with their lips and then quickly whacking the penis up and down with those lips in a manner that is really the same as giving a hand job. Granted, you want the penis of your partner to move back and forth inside your mouth, but you want to do it in the same manner as a penis would move inside a pussy. Ask the typical heterosexual or bisexual man how a pussy feels and most likely they will having nothing more to say than really good. Ask a diriminating sexual gourmet and observant lover (who is in tune with their partner) and they can deribe the major various and delightful textures of the inside of a vagina. of the textures that is common in women who have borne in the natural way is what I call the velvet slide. A great way to emulate the velvet slide is to remember that a vagina feels different on the top than it does on the bottom. Likewise, that difference can be simulated by keeping the tongue in place and slightly enfolding the bottom half of the penis with it. It also s to know what part of the penis yields the greatest pleasure to the owner of that pleasurable appendage. I have yet to meet a woman, no matter how experienced, who could tell me what is the singlemost sensitive spot on a penis. In an earlier blog post, I mentid that there is a lack of knowledge along those lines, but in this post I will specifically reveal what I call the M-spot (man spot) on the cock. The most sensitive part of a penis is called the frenulum and it located where the foreskin (prepuce) attaches to the underside of the glans (head of the penis), positid on the underside of the penis at the point just below where the glans meets the the shaft. Yes, indeed, this is the single most pleasurably sensitive spot on the penis of all, and the woman or man who skillfully controls that part of the man controls the man. When the pleasure giver makes sure that some extra up and down and all-around lip and tongue pressure is centered on that spot, it can add considerably to the pleasure of a man. The top of the foreskin on an erect penis will, in most cases, be located right under that point but within the reach of your lower lip. Sorry to say this circumcised men, but the foreskin contains a lot of extra nerve receptors that make a penis more sensitive to pleasure. Of course on the minus side, it can feel so good having some extra foreskin that it can cause a man to cum too fast if he has not developed adequate control. Here is another question that is important to be able to answer when it comes to giving better blow jobs: What feels better, when a mouth goes up on the shaft of a cock, or when a mouth goes down on the shaft of a cock, or do both movements feel just as good? The correct answer is that it feels best when a mouth goes down on a cock. The reason this is so has to do with the theme of this blog posting concerning the procreation instincts of sexual release. When a man is having sex with a woman, it is his natural impulse, at the moment of ejaculation, to go as deep in her as possible. This is the way of nature to try to assure that as much semen as possible reaches an egg in order to fertilize it. How the above information applies to giving better blow jobs is that the receiver and the giver should establish some sort of signal together prior to release so that the giver knows when the receiver is about to cum. To make a blow job feel as good as possible, the giver should not only allow the reciever to cum inside their mouth, but the moment the penis starts an explosive ejaculation, the giver should take the penis as deep as they can into their mouth. Again, this simulates heterosexual intercourse and excites the penis to ejaculate even more forcefully with a bigger and longer lasting orgasm. Something else that few of the ladies seem to know (probably because n of us have ever told them) is that right after a man cums, his meatus is unpleasantly ticklish. Inquiring minds might ask: What is the meatus? The meatus consists of the little lips on the head of a penis. Licking or gently sucking on the meatus in a thoughtful attempt to continue to stimulate or clean it within the first few minutes after an ejaculation is sure to get a reaction, but it is not the best sort of reaction. It is worth mentioning this issue because so few women seem to know about it because most guys are so thankful for getting some sexual favors, they are not about to correct or criticize anything a woman might do for their cock. Speaking of questions, might also wonder: How can I think about all these ideas and techniques while performing 6 with my partner at the same time? My advice would be to say that you might not want to always perform a 6 for some good reasons. The famous fun of performing a 6 is somewhat overrated, since in my humble opinion, nothing is more satisfying than taking turns... and when it comes to turns, the woman always comes first. The problem with 6 is that while people are giving and receiving at the same time, something gets lost in the translation. In other words, it feels so much better for a person to devote all their attention on receiving but when they are making a concerted effort at the same time to pleasure another, they cannot experience their own pleasure completely. For decades, the idea of multi-tasking was prominent but that theory came into disrepute a couple ago, when brain researchers found that people do not really multi-task too well. Instead, it appears that humans are best designed to do thing really well at a time, whether it is receiving or giving. Granted, a spent man almost instantly loses a lot of his motivation to sexually please another, which means that 6 works better for men than it does between a man and woman. This blog posting is not meant to be the fount of all knowledge explaining the best techniques on giving great blow jobs. The purpose here was to present some of the secrets that most people do not seem to know and which I have never seen published in any article or book or blog previously. That being said, all those out there who are a part of what I like to call the Oral Majority, please feel free to comment with any of your own excellent dioveries, insights, secrets, and techniques that to make the blow jobs you have ever given or received, among your favorite and most memorable sexual experiences ever. Together, we can do a good deed of sharing some of the best secrets of fellatio here, each of which has the potential to bring great pleasure to hundreds or more of deserving people. |
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